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I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.
Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!
I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me. (link)
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well, i think you have been violated and even though youve thought about others first, its time to think about yourself. should either tell your sister or both your parents and sister. if youre afraid they will act too severely, tell them this before they act. your brother in law had no right to do this w/out aking you(ESPECIALLY since he's married) and after that, try getting a therapists help to get you through this. this will make you feel better about yourself. hope i helped!!! :)
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Rating: 5
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thnx!!! I'll think about what you said
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