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I'm a great advice columnist but i guess every advice person needs some advice as well.
Ok so about a month ago my sister and my brother in law came to visit us and i was sleeping (it was night time) and I remember waking up for my brother inlaw touching my leg. I didnt think much of it but after that I kept on thinking about it. Well i was at their house and last night he said he was sorry, and i didnt know what he was talking about and i was like for what and hes like I touched you in a place that you shouldnt have been touched by me (higher than my legs) I dont know what to do! because I mean I dont think he was doing it for more than a sec cuz i think i woke up right away but I dont want to tell my mom and dad because my dad would kill him and they would say something to my sister and then my sister and him would probably get a devorice and my sisters really happy. I mean that was the first time but I still cry about it like i feel so violated and i dont know what to do. I cant sleep cuz i think about it. All I do is cry about it. Please help me please!
I promise i'll rate a 5 no matter what! Atleast your trying to help me. (link)
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You need to tell someone, even if it does ruin their relationship, even if he does die, because he has now not only broken 2 laws, he has violated you in a way that you cannot, as a being with self respect, stand for. It is not your place in this case to think of what will happen to ANYBODY else. Tell your parents, tell a counsler, tell someone who knows you and can take actions to resolve this. If you don't try to help yourself by getting him what he diserves, you will hate yourself, and feel like you diserved to have it done.
Please, for the love of serenity, tell someone.
And good luck, Please IM me if you need or want Anything. Remember, at whatever cost, that it is not your fault.
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Oh, and also, try not to care what happens to him, he violated you, not the other way around. You should feel no guilt for his consequences, or even your sisters as a result, because it was His doing, please remember that. If you don't tell, you will be hurting your sister more because you are keeping a secret from her about her husband's breaking of a vow. Good things are to be kept to yourself for enjoyment, bad things are to be told so that they can be eliminated.
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Rating: 5
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Thank you so much i'm going to really really think about what you said!
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