Gender: Female
Location: Michigan
Age: 15
Member Since: July 20, 2004
Answers: 24
Last Update: October 15, 2004
Visitors: 2454
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ok here's the deal, my bestfriend and i have known each other for about a year and a half, we dated for a long time before he told me that he wasn't in love with me, the thing is, we are "friends with benefits" and i'm ok with that, it's just it's hard because i am totally 100% crazy in love with him and i want to be with him and date him again and i'm not sure if he wants the same thing. he said that he was going to think about us getting back together but i'm not really sure that he wants to. what should i do?? please help (link)
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Well im 15 years old, and i gone threw what you are going threw.
I think that you and your friend needs to sit down and talk about everything..ask him if he sees you in his future, tell him what you feel and if he can't except it and all he want's to do all the time is be friends with benifits then you really don't need him. You guys are basically doing stuff together and not because you guys like each other, because it's fun right?? well then if you really loved him you would let him go..i know it is REALLY hard, but if that is going to happen then move on and get someone that you can have a relationship with that will care about you and love you as much as you love him. look at it this way..you can't love someone and not have them love you back, and still be happy!
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