Name: Liz (nickname=fish)
Eyes: Green
Height: (ha like you care) about 5 feet 5 inches
Hair: Currently dark red, some light streaks, and of course, all spiky in the back
Hometown: St. Louis, MO
Age: 15
Occupation: being a sophmore, helping out my friends
Interests: Music (vinyl now but I have a ton of cds of various cool people), local shows (check out my buddy tim's band, One Down. they're gonna be huge one day), Art, English (Creative writing), doing random weird things
"A zebra does not change it's spots." -Al Gore
"I don't really trust a sane person." -Lyle Alzado.
Happy Noodle Boy is the funniest thing since Homestarrunner.com but Thora Birch is the "bestest". And for some strange reason, Joey Jordison of Slipknot and Murderdolls is scary yet hot. I don't know but I like to think that I do- so in the words of Ricky from American Beauty, "Never underestimate the power of denial."
Peace. Out.
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis, Missouri
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
Member Since: June 21, 2004
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well i use to have really bad self esteem and it was hard for me to be out going or nething cuz im not the prettiest person in the world but nor am i the ugliest.. its just i have all these gorgeous friends and then theres me and i juz dont think im pretty.. ive gotten a lot more self esteem and am confident enuf now where i dont mind being loud and outgoing around ppl idk and i dont care wut they think.. but then there are times when ppl say mean things bout me and idk it still juz hurts :-/ how do i get more confidence and just not care wut others think? (link)
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The trick is never comparing yourself to anyone else. They aren't you and you aren't them. The only person you should ever compare yourself to is you, comparing yourself from now to where you were a couple of years ago. The other thing is remember that the only reason people say mean things is that they're the ones who have low self-esteem and confidence. Keep in mind that people like that feel the need to put others down so that they feel better about themselves. So in essence, you're better than them. Remember that and be secure with who you are.
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