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Hey,
I was wondering if anyone could help me out here obviously lol. Well anyway, im 13 and ive been with my boy friend for almost 2 years(( yeah i know i know a long time to be tied down for my age)). We have done everything but have sex. Ive been thinking about having sex but i know that im not physically and mentally ready, and im for sure not old enough to have sex or even do what im doing. I was just wondeirng if its normal to think what im thinking, what it would be like to have sex and all. Thanks!:)

Yes darling, thinking about sex at 13 is very normal. It seems you and your boy friend have reached a stage in your relationship where sex is the next natural step. After two years together you clearly care for each other very much and know each other well. You've got to discuss this with him, talk about it, find out what you both want, discuss your concerns, plan it. Its a big step and theirs no need to rush. Provided this is what you both what theirs no reason why you shouldn't sleep together and continue on having a sexual relationship. Don't worry about age limits, their are many countries where the legal age for consensual sex is 13
And even younger. When you have sex should be determined by when you feel your ready. But, and I've got to say it - make damb sure you use contraception, you don't want to wind up pregnant.
Have fun
Derfel
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