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Okay, there's this guy I like. But, I'm not sure he likes me back. He isn't very nice to me around his friends, and he wasn't mean before I told him I like him. BUT I went to a sports game of his, and he kept looking at me. Is it because I was out of place or not? PLEASE HELP! Thanks for your time- Sakura (NOTE: Some evil guy told him that I liked him, and he said "Ewww." Then, a friend of mine covered for me and said that the evil guy was lying. But some time later I told him I liked him. Also, at the sports game, I told him 'good game' and he gave me a weird look. Is that because his friends were around?)
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Alrighty, Sakura, this may come as a shock, but chances are he wasn't looking at YOU at that sports game, but at that super cute blonde chicky on the bleachers behind you.

Sweetie, I'm sure you're a wonderful girl with a beautiful personality, and I hate to break this to you, but you have unforutantely developed a SATANIC. That is "Sudden Attraction To A Narcissistic Idiot Complex." This guy isn't into you, or more likely thinks you are 'beneath him.' That is -- by seeming attracted to you it will lower his "image." In other words, he isn't worth your affections.

So, Sakura, My advice to you is, have a good cry and try your best to get over this guy. He's hurting you whether he realizes it or not, and you, dear, don't need that kind of stress. So, take some time out, and have some girl-time with your friends (who seem to be willing to stick by you.), eat some chocolate and watch some Julia Roberts flicks.

Then, when you feel like you're ready to move on, the best of luck to you finding a guy who appreciates your beauty based on who you are.


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Great advice, thanks! I always seem to have SATANIC, lol. ^^




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