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Age: 22
Member Since: June 8, 2009
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Last Update: September 30, 2009
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I'm 25/Female and stuck! I'm in a serious relationship, but still haven't completely gotten over my first relationship back in high school. That guy and I don't talk anymore, but he constantly visits my website, so I know he's at least thinking of me too. My question is, is it a bad idea to make contact with him, or am I setting myself for more trouble by just being silent? I guess it depends if you're practical or whimsical, and I'm a little of both. (link)
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The two of you no longer talk, he is constantly checking on your website, and you still haven't completely gotten over him.
I really can't think of a solution that will maintain your current relationship based on your situation. If you contact your ex boyfriend and he does still have feelings for you, then all you'll be able to think about if you continue your current relationship is what your life would be like if you were with your ex boyfriend. If he doesn't have feelings for you, then your situation hasn't changed: you're still hung up on your ex boyfriend, and it's not fair to keep dating your current boyfriend if he isn't really the person that you want to be with. Your ex boyfriend may not be the man that you'll end up with, but judging by your feelings it appears that your current boyfriend won't be that man either.
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you were completely right, and this situation changed my entire life. I am just now coming back to this site after all this time and I wanted to thank you!
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