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i would like to know when your'e friends with guys and a pretty close friends, how would you know if its just a friendship or something else? but he tends to do to much tease with you and jokes around with you lots, how can you tell if he likes you thats why he does all these stupid things to get your attention but he doesn't do this to other girls. so plase let me know u what think thanx. (link)
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He is probably thinking about more than friendship. Depending on how you feel about him, I would just try to find out. If you don't want to directly ask him if he is interested in you as more than a friend, you can ask your friends to ask his friends, or something like that.
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>thanx for your reply, but he say's i remind him of his ex-girlfriend and he used to say nice things about her and he say's it's like being married to you, i mean why did he mention this as we are really good friends and know for each other 7months and he say's i can imagine to bump into u in 8 yrs time having lunch together while you tell me about evertything that has happend to you! please reply back as your advice was good!
My answer:
It sounds like you are interested in more than friendship, since you are asking for advice on this. It also sounds like you have questioned him further, although not specifically "Are you interested in more than a friendship?" Since he is answering with describing you as a wife, ex-girlfriend, and old friend that he might meet in 8 years, I think he may actually want it to stay at friendship level, and not want more. The only way to be absolutely sure it to ask him, and that may make both of you uncomfortable. I think your best bet it just to stay friends.
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thanx for your reply, but he say's i remind him of his ex-girlfriend and he used to say nice things about her and he say's it's like being married to you, i mean why did he mention this as we are really good friends and know for each other 7months and he say's i can imagine to bump into u in 8 yrs time having lunch together while you tell me about evertything that has happend to you! please reply back as your advice was good!
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