I am a female who has been through many things in life. I've made a few foolish choices; but have also made a few okay ones. I feel like hopefully the mistakes I've made or the experiences I've been through can help others avoid pain and/or heartache; so that's why I joined. I wished in life someone had shared their true experiences with me if they were similar and could help.
Most people telling me not to do something; had no idea what I was going through. It was like those y?, non-smoking commercials all over tv and you can tell the people behind them never picked up a cigarette or understand why you did. I've managed to quit; but the commercials still infuriate me.
So that's me. And, I'll try to help if I can.
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I think it is gossip. that was a good idea to think of. thank you!
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Number one. i slept with my ex back then. we had broken up and one drunken night i called and shit happened. my current boyfriend was studying in singapore. my ex had actually cheated on me and thats why i had t break up. nnow why the fuck would i call him ?? wat kind of a person does that make me?!
Number two. i give too much space to guys, he says. ok whenever someone talks to my im extra friendly. i talk a lot. and this makes my boyfriend feel i have more fun with other guys n not him. i even used to talk to guys who had a crush one me. why wud i do that!
he fell for me, not for any physical thing. he was so totallly shy to make any moves on him. he treated so fuckin wel! but i took advantage of that. amd here i am facing the consequences. i deserve it. but im tryn to make things better. i really dono how to go abt making him trust me again. itll take some time.. after i posted my previous question, the next day he tell me he's gonna gimme another chance but i shudnt screw it up. we went for a movie n all had fun yday. loads. but im worried deep inside where id screw it up. noone has ever loved me like he did. noone treated me so special. its hard to trust guys these days. but him, he's one special guy. it's me who has changed him like this. into a monster.
hope i can change him back into the loving and caring guy, who used to make sure i was comfortable and then think abt himself. he was the perfect guy i had always wanted.. wat the hell do i do to change him back!!?
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thank you!!! absolutely amazing advice! i'm gonna go try it out!
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umm, actually one of my friends have it and she said it works really good!
and, my hair isn't really curly, it's actually practically naturally straight it just gets a couple of wave in it.
But, thanks anyways..
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Yeah, thank you so much. You're pretty right about how I act and all. I didn't get the snakebites, I didn't want to make things worse then they already were. After awhhile his uh "bullying"...>->; That's what my social worker called it, but anyways when I couldn't take anymore of it I went to another friend who's had problems with his dad aswell. He's also had problems with his dad, worse then mine. But I won't get into it. I asked him if I could go with him to one of his seminars with his therapist, he agreed and so I did. After he had his time I wasked to see her and we spoke for what seemed ages, when those 47 minutes where up she gave me a few numbers to call and some instructions on what to do with each number. Eh long story short my parents and I both descussed everything with a social worker...My dad was pretty pissed about that, but I'm happy with the way things turned out anyway. I'm living with my aunt now, as for my old friend we never did really talk again. But it's okay, I've made new ones at my new school and I've kept the old ones. The one's that were true. :] It's strange how things work out in the end, my dad still isn't happy with the things that I do, he still plays favorites with my older sisters and I. Sadly to say he isn't as involved in my life much now in days, my mom still visits me and she always say the same three things. "You wear to much eyeliner. "... "Your father sends his love." And my favorite...."When are you coming back home?" Well yeah, my school work's gotten WAY better, with the help of tutors...T-T
My aunt made me, which is okay I know she does everything for my wellbeing, nicely too. Uh lets see I've been researching and looking into writing, and on what classes to take to become a novelist. Also a mangaka I love to draw and hope to become a well known japanese comic book artist!:D So yeah...Thank you once again, alsoooo, yeah studying and finals. Couldn't get online much for fun, so that's why the late reply. Just if you were wondering, which you probably won't...O-O;
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very true. she is very dangerous. But i have decided to not let her into my stuff, but just listen to her and be there for her because she can't be there for me. You are amazing. Your answers actually make sense. Thank you so much.
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thank you, your answer makes a lot of sense. I'm trying really hard to be more open. But I hope that I can get over this shyness quick because it is bringing down the best of me. Thank you much.:)
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i am not a cancer female but you honestly hit everything right on point and i would really appreciate if you could e-mail me sometime at lindsayluxo@yahoo.com or if there is some other way i could communicate with you because you honestly made me feel a whole lot better and you're the ONLY ONE who actually understands and i just really need to know how i can get my best friend back...thank you so much
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