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Q: My best friend "Cara" is honest. A little too honest. In that sort of brutal way. She tells everyone the truth, but she does it in such a mean way. Me, Cara, & our other friend "Kandi" all went shopping one weekend for swimsuits. I tried on a bikini, & Kandi said I looked great, but that I should get a blue one instead of a pink one. Cara, on the other hand, said that it made me look chubby (even though I'm super thin) & that I should get a one-piece, like she is. Later that day, she criticized me & Kandi bcuz we were pigging out on pizza, while she only ate a salad. Another weekend, me, Kandi, & Cara went to see The Stepford Wives. On our way to Kandi's house, Cara was whining the whole way there. Even Kandi's mom agreed that Cara is a pain in the @$$. I have to see Cara again on Friday. What should I do if she's bitchy to me & Kandi again?
be brutally honest back at her. Next time she does something bitchy just say to her, "Stop being a bitch, no one likes you when you act like this."

The two things you said- the bathing suit and the salad- it sounds as if she's very self-councius about her weight. (Just an observation.)

If she continues to be Superbitch, don;t hang out with her anymore. No one should have to hang out with people who are mean to them.

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