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What can i do to be more popular in school...i have soo many friends but i just wanna b a lil more poplular....and guys give ur true and honest answer dont give me a "full house" answer please.....help me out! (link)
Hey! Wow your question kinda erked me. What is so great about being popular? I mean yea there are good and bad things. Get into clubs, thats the only thing I can say go to public places.


i have a bf but i'm not sure if he is really into me nemore we use 2 tlak bout everything bout now we barely talk.I call him sometimes n he doesn't really seem lyk he wants to talk he never calls me n he is always busy n cna never do nething. i talk to his brother on the IM n ask him but he doesn't really kno wut am i suppose 2 do...how do i find out if he really lykes me or not? plz help! (link)
Hey!! Well I know what your comming from I use to talk to my boyfreinds brother when me and my boyfriend seemed like we were falling apart. But it didn't help. So I asked him in person, and over the interet, and it turned out that he really did like me! :-) So I think you sould ask him and tell him how you relly feel!


Hi Kim! I have these 2 friends. i knew one b4 the other but the other one and i were really close for a while. know those two people have made friends with each other (which sometimes i have no problem with) but the one i have known for longer is trying to steal the other one away from me and is really mean to me while the other one is around. I like both of them but is there any way to make us all friends?girl-13/14 (link)
Hey!!! Well if one of your friends doesn't like you, theres not much you can do, but you can always talk to her, and tell them what's happening, and why you all are falling apart! Your friend that you knew longer, maybe just using you? I'm not sure though, inless there was something that you did to her, to make her be mean to you. But what i have a question is, is the girl that you didn't know longer being mean to you to? Maybe she is just a follower and not a leader. I would just comfront your older friend, and tell her that you feel she is always being mean to you, and she should stop. x0x!! Tell me what happens!


my friend weighs 980 puonds what can i do to help that fat bitch lose her fatness. we v tried dieting her but she turns in to this bitchzilla fatty thing what do i do (link)
Well 980 pounds, that's a lot. There's not much you can do, but go see a doctor, so much weight in time can kill someone. :-(


hey kim! whats up lil women you. man me and the rhs ppl are gonna miss u next year u were always the one that would be there n never in anyones way how you would alaway go to geek table 101 lol. u adna ustin were adorable. so how are u looking forward to skool? i mean from what i kno about the ppl at rm your gonna be the lil one lol but i mean your ognna get picked up alot by the big boys, well i hope you do, lol everyone just olves seeing your butt over their shoulder. are u finally over the fact of being picked up ? ? also what do you do if you get lost in high skool ?!?!?? (link)
Hey cutie!! Well I will try to find sometime to come and visit, I mean im still in the area, it's still my home school. Lol the boys table, I don't even know how they got that name. Thanks, everyone said we were cute, people we didn't know and people we wern't that close with. Yes I am looking forward to RM, just a little bit, but I do have somefears! Yup, there arn't many short people at RM. But that's okay, I'll just get some neck excersice from looking up to everyone all the time. I might get picked up by the big boys. I use to be scared, but that's only in the pool, because I don't like getting my face wet, the clorne makes my skin itch. Um, i don't get the butt part, but that's okay. I think you mean just seeing my lil legs over someone. Yup, i don't care if people pick me up, only in the water I get kinda scared. Well if you get lost in Rockville, or where you go, just ask a teacher, I'm sure they wont mind. I mean I would, acutally I wouldn't i'd just get lost! :-)


ok, well i have this friend that thinks she is so great and does alot of stuff with guys if you know what i mean. me and alot of other people know that guys only likle her for her butt and boobs but she wont listen and she wont stop doing stuff with guys for no good reason. what should i do?? (link)
Yea I know what you mean, there's people like that still today everywhere you go. Maybe your friend likes the attention from the guys, because the girls she is friends with don't give her enough attention, or she feels left out. But tell her that in high school she might just get named, and what I mean by that is whore, slut, skank, ho, and the other words that are not neccessary! If she doesn't want to listen there's nothing you can do, but try to tell her over and over, and be serious about it. I would tell her how you truely feel, i listen to my friends when they feel something is wrong, or maybe she doesn't want to the know the truth, because the truth isn't always a happy booster. But tell me what happens next! Thankx!!


i have a real big problem.. my best friend cuts herself.. she doesnt seem to think that theres anything wrong with it. but there deff. is. and the reason she does it is bcuz the kid she likes isnt going out with her but he likes her. and i keep talking to her telling her that she needs to stop bcuz shes gona end up killing herself one day. and she keeps saying i know i know im gona stop. but she never does. and she told me not to tell her mom or any guidence counclers or anyone. how i can help her stop hurting herslef without telling anyone about it?? (link)
Okay first of all, you need to tell someone. But she's wasteing time on osme guy she likes, when some other guy could like her. Just tell someone, most guidence counclers don't mention names.!


hey kim its me chaz, i got this problem. i was bored and i was huh picking my nose and my fingure got stuck. For 20 minutes i sat there not knowing what should i do. can help me? lmao (link)
Hey Chaz!! Lol your so dumb. Well your hands shouldn't be up your nose in the first place! Smart one, lol, but you know I love you! Maybe you should just try to take it out. Lol. What a unserious question, you just wanted to make me laugh, I can understand that! :-)


me and this girl are freinds and everything but her nose and arm bother me her nose is HUGE and her arm looks like an arm a retared person would have? i dont want to be mean but she thinks she so hot and everything help KIMBERLY! and i think she wishes she was normal but that nose of hers annoys me and everyone else!! (link)
Hey! Well she can't do anything about her arm, and she can't do anything about her nose. Maybe when she is older can get get a nose job or whatever. But it's the way she was born, and she can't help that. If she thinks she's hot and it bothers you, tell her. But i mean theres a lot of people that are full of themselves, you just get use to it. Tell her that she is bugging you, but be nice about it, don't try to start a fight.


hi kimbe everyone knows your going to rm are you going to miss wood people? but thats not my ?? my advice was should i die my hair brown n get curls i have blonde stright hair (link)
Yup! I'm going to RM! Go Rockets! I'll miss a few people, but I just have to move on. Okay whatever you do, keep your blonde stright hair!! Don't ever die your hair brown and get curls. Most people that die their hair and get it curled regreat it! :-)


this girl i like, likes me but she has a boyfreind and i dont want to get into anything what should i do? (link)
Hey!! Well you should tell her to tel her boyfriend that she is have doupts about them going out. But if you don't want to get into anything you should keep quiet, but you should also remember don't ask her out (if she does decide to break up with her boyfriend ) RIGHT after they break up, give her and her ex sometime! x0x*


hey kim.we were wondering what would happen if you were having sex and the condom fell off...would the cum slip iside of u or would it get stuck! can sperm die? thanks (link)
If you were having sexing and the comdom fell of, the cum could slip inside the girl, it could also get stuck and come out a few days later. Spermaside kills sperm. But I don't know that much about condoms because I NEVER listen in health, but I still know a little bit.
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kim, i really like this girl but i dont think she likes me wat should i do? im 14 and a boy (link)
Hey! If you really like this girl you should deffinatly tell her, because you NEVER know if she likes you back! You could be missing out on a relationship that you would be very very very very very happy in. But I bet your a great person, and I bet she likes you! So go ahead and tell her, or even send her a secret message from AIM.com. As a crush, or give her hints. You can always use my column as a place to give hints to her! Good luck and tell me what happens, of if you need anymore advice, come back again, and i'll be sure to help you.


hi kim i was jsut wondering who you like now? fill me in ur pro says ur gonna be single for 2-3 months. but ur going to a new school (RM) and theres going to be so many new guys and ur such a great person and everyone loves and ur so pretty (link)
Hey cutie! I don't like anyone right now. Yup that's correct I'm going to be single for a while, to acutally start to find myself, and who I actually am. I know i am going to a new school, and I know theres gonna be so many new people both girls and boys, and I hope they will love me just as much as everyone else does I guess, and thanks, your such a sweetie! But I just am trying to stay single for a while, just giving myself a rest from boys, and to rebound. x0x!


hey kim i have a confession, i have a crush on you, i have liked u ever since i started talking to you can u fiqure out who i am? we talk all the time we are both goin 2 rm next year-u seem like such a great person if you cant figure it out soon MAYBE ill tell u (link)
Hey there! Well it's nice to know that you have a crush on me. I acutally don't know who you are, because I talk to a lot of people that go to/going to RM next year. Thanks! You go to RM and the people that i talk to, that go to RM are great people to! I look forward to figuring out who you are, but if I can't I hope you will you tell me. But I also have to say i'm going to stay single for a little while, but we can always chill and hang out! x0x!!


hey sexxxy kim! i have a gf but i think i like this other girl, what do i do? dump her for this other girl?? HELP! (link)
Woah, if you only THINK you like this other girl, don't dump your girlfreind, but tell her, that you think you like another girl. I mean yea it might not feel good to her, but being honest is the right road to go.


me and this girl are really close, it's freaky, but sometimes i tink she lykes me n sumtimes i htink she thinks i like her, do you have anything thing i can do to find out if i really like her, and if she erally likes me? thanx kim (link)
Well the first thing to do, would to be, think to yourself, do you like her. Than if you do, or even if you don't like her, ask her if she likes you, or if she thinks you think you like her. That was kinda confusing!!


wen u kiss uh a guy where are ur hands suppose to go? wen a guy kisses u where does his hands go, where do u prefere for a guys hands to go? (link)
It depends, you can put them really anywhere, but I usually put them around their back, and he usually puts it around my neck/hair


Hi Kim. I like this kid but I'm not sure if he likes me. I see him a lot but i never have enough guts to talk to him. Should I talk to him or not? (link)
hEy! O chica, i know exacly where you are comming from, I don't talk to guys either, i'm shy to!! Tehehehe! Well my older brother always said to get over your fears of being shy. But yeah your probelly a great person, and ifyou don't talk to him you'd be missing out on the realstionship that you wanted! I encourage you to talk to him and not be shy like me!! But don't walk up to him one day and be like "hey so and so, do you like me?" Get to know him first, and aftrew a week or two, ask him if he's crushing on you and if he says yes, telling your curhsing back!


hey kim...I'm a girl and I'm going into 8th grade and I've been friends with this one girl since the summer before 6th grade..We were like best friends in 6th grade..But now it seems like everytime I try and hang out with her she makes up an excuse not to..It all started when she started hanging out with this one other girl who's really mean to people and bosses people around all the time..I don't know if I should keep trying to hang out with her or if I should move on nd make new friends..I really need your help..please!..What should I do? Thank you! xOxO (link)
Tell your old friend how you feel, and that you still want to be friends, and that you miss the friendship that you had! But make sure you tell your old friend that you arn't to sure about her bossy friend. But make new friends, but stiill keep the old.




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