Think about how you would feel if your boyfriend did that to you. Think about how crappy and hurt you would feel that the person you are with is hooking up with someone else. It sounds like you really don't have the feelings for your boyfriend like you say you do. You need to tell him what happened and maybe considering moving on. Being in a relationship is between two people. It's meant to be faithful and you have to have trust. I'm telling you right now if my boyfriend ever did that to me it would break my heart. Mind you I don't even have my eyes on any other guy but him. Of course, I thought some guys were cute but I knew nothing would come of it because I love my boyfriend. My boyfriend knows me like no one else does. It sounds to me like you don't really want to be in this relationship that you would rather be single. If that's the case you need to be honest with yourself and with him and tell him what happened. Good luck!

You're right getting over someone takes time and there's no way of rushing that. The reason the ex-girlfriend doesn't like you is probably that you're a threat to her. You had a relationship with her boyfriend and that scares her and makes her jealous. When we get boyfriends we become very territorial. My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time and there are two exes that I'm not crazy about. Now in the beginning of our relationship, I use to worry about the two of them trying to contact them. Later on, I realized that he was with me for a reason. The girl is most likely jealous of you and there's really no way you can change that. What helped me get over my ex-was to think about all his bad qualities that things that pissed me off. And now I can't even stand talking to him he kind of annoys me at this point. It takes time... just starting thinking about YOU more than him. Good luck!

No... a man never has the right to hit a woman. He has the right to stop her from hitting him, and most men are stronger than women and can hold them back. If not, a real man will walk away. If necessary, he needs to call the police and charge her with assault. Now, to get to the heart of the matter...the woman in question needs anger management. She has the problem and if allowed to continue is only going to get more out of control. It's a simple matter of setting boundaries. In the case of physical abuse...your rights stop about 12 inches from my body.

Highly unlikely but the bottom line is that you are engaging in high-risk behavior and need to change that. Unprotected sex of any kind, is high risk. Tell the boyfriend to wrap it if he plans on getting it anywhere near you...every time! You could not only have an unwanted pregnancy, you could get an unwanted STD. Remember... if you're going to take it out and play with it...put a wrapper on it!

Oh good God... of all the available men out there, you're going to latch on to a married one...and with kids to boot? You texted a lot... you think you love him? Girl...come on and get a grip here. Leave this guy alone. He has a wife and two small children to take care of. Find a guy who is AVAILABLE. I don't want to hear how wonderful he is or how much you think you love him. Move on. He isn't available to you or anyone else.

Okay... here's my best advice. STOP IT. You're going to end up looking like a fool. Is that what you want? Let it go. It was fun but it's time to stop now. Keep your dignity and stop before he figures out what you're doing. I assure you're going to feel really foolish if that happens.

I don't think you're necessarily antisocial... particular maybe. I think once you have a 'better' variety of people to select from, you may feel differently. It sounds like most of the people you currently know simply don't have the same interests as you. It would be great if you could meet some people who do share your interests. If you have certain hobbies, entertain the idea of meeting up with others who share that interest. You don't say your age. I'm assuming that you are young and just haven't had many opportunities with like-minded people. There's a whole big world out here. I hope you find your niche. We all need friends sooner or later.

I hate to tell you this but oral sex is cheating. Were you raised by wolves? Seriously... you're just going around giving random blowjobs to random guys and you don't know why in the world your boyfriend is upset? Come on now...sell that one to someone who's buying it, because I'm not! There is a reason why you're behaving this way and the best thing you can do is try to find out what it is. Any self-respecting female doesn't do that so I'm going to speculate here that you start there. What is it that you don't like about yourself? What are you trying to prove here? Here's a tip for you... cheating doesn't even have to involve ANY physical contact. There is such a thing as emotional cheating. I will advise you to work on your own self-esteem. I think that is what is lacking here. Start with that, and then consider working on setting good boundaries. If your boyfriend has any sense at all he'll step out of this relationship. You don't need to be in a relationship with anyone until you can get to the bottom of your behavior.

Yes, I agree. I shave my arm pits and legs every day. Perfectly normal, unfortunately!

the only help that you can get your friend, is to take them to doctors or counseling.

whenever the body is pierced, there's a risk of infection. i suggest that you get it professionally done

it is possible that a girl can get pregnant during their period. having unprotected sex at any time can be very risky. sometimes ovulation can occur before the bleeding from a girl's period stopped, or it may occur within a few days after her period is over.

a yeast infection usually occurs in warm, moist parts of the body. when they are caused its an infection in the vagina. many girls find yeast infection tend to show up right before they get their periods. the symptoms of yeast infections are itching, redness and swelling of the outside of the vagina.

Keep in mind that stressing about it can cause your period to be late. As for free pregnancy tests, you can get tested at a local clinic like Planned Parenthood. Check your phone book under "family planning" for something similar if PP isn't around. Also, many dollar stores have tests for a dollar. I can't say how accurate they are, but pick up a couple and test a week apart.

Have you had unprotected sex? If they've come back negative and you still think it's possible, then check with your doctor for a blood test. More likely, though, it's from all that eating you've been doing and you've just packed on a little weight from it.

I doubt you're the only person who cuts. It's not something people tend to talk about, you are proof of that. But you do need help. Sounds like you actually do have issues that need to be resolved with a psychologist. I'd go to your guidance counselor to start and be ready to admit that you cut. You're gonna need the support of the people who want to help you, like your teachers, family, etc.

One thing you didn't say in your e-mail was whether your friend seems to be trying to compete with you. Like, if you're getting attention from someone else, does your friend try to insert herself in the middle and steal your thunder? Or, if you show up wearing a cute new outfit at school, does she run out and buy the exact same one, every single time? Sometimes, when people do things like that, it can be so subtle that's it's hard to realize at first. All you know is that you feel weird and uncomfortable, but you don't know why. If your friend is pulling stuff like that, you may want to rethink how much time you spend with her. Or, if her friendship is important to you, examine possible reasons for her behavior. Realizing that her competitive nature is due to her own insecurities may help you cope. However, we are going to assume that this is less about your friend and more about your own insecurities. You sound like you don't have the best sense of perspective about your own looks and style, otherwise, you wouldn't feel so bad that you have a girlfriend who looks good. When you're around her and start to feel down on yourself, make an effort to remind yourself that you are pretty amazing, too. It might help to make a list of all the things you like about yourself, whether it's your eyes, your infectious giggle or your great athletic ability. You can't be second best at everything! Also, there's nothing wrong with admitting to your friend that you sometimes feel a bit envious of her. She may surprise you by revealing that she has her own moments of wishing she had your gorgeous smile, killer arms or amazing dance skills. Most of all, it's important to remind yourself that there's room for both of you to look good. Just because she shines doesn't mean you can't, too!

The name is Jessica, I'm 30 years old. I'm married to the love of my life, and I am a mother to a beautiful little angel. I'm outgoing, fun to be around, love my fam and close friends. I'm a blogger, singer, bookworm, college grad, & stay at home mom.

*what I give advice on*
teen sexuality - health - college - school - fashion - relationships - friendships - depression - mental health (anything basically)

So feel free to ask anything related to what i've given above.

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