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I am on the orthro evra patch and i think im pregnant because my stomach has been hurting lately and i pee alot. im not sure this is what it really is it may be symptoms of the patch or it may be because i dont drink water. Can you help me?

It may just be the symptoms from the patch, yes it is possible. You have to get a pregnancy test in order to be sure. Yes, I'm sure you don't want to, but at least it will put your mind at rest.

Also, I suggest using condoms since no pill or drug protects you from sexually transmitted diseases. Don't risk your well-being for anyone.

If you are pregnant, there are many options available with little or no financial necessity, depending on your location of residence.

Don't forget to drink your fluids! They are important!

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I just got a Virgin Mobile phone for my b/day.. Thing is, I've already spent $70 on it in phone cards.. And I've had it for a month. I REALLY need minutes on the phone, because I ran out a week or two ago. Thing is, I'm flat broke & my mom isn't willing to buy me a phone card. Any ideas on how to make money? And don't say babysitting!

You have to get a job. Learn to be responsible and considerate! Your mom is NOT made of money.

Working is a great way of learning how to manage your money. Also, perhaps you also need to learn how to limit your phone use to your finances.

Many places hire even if you have no experience. Eventually, you're going to have to live on your own and on your own terms. Might as well start learning now and saving your money.

Once you start paying bills, you will appreciate working for it.

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Well first Im In love this guy named...well just call him bill...and He was my first kiss....we've been goin out for 2months now, but he has been a complete asshole sayin my mom hates you and a bunch of stuff like that wut should I do? If you kno e-mail me at lovestinks1300@sbcglobal.net

First of all, no one deserves to be insulted in a relationship. Secondly, perhaps it's time you two have a heart-to-heart. Ask him why he is saying such things and make it clear that it IS hurting your feelings.

It's possible that his mother dislikes you and is putting thoughts in his head. Whatever the case, I do suggest you disconnect yourself from him if this goes any further. No one should have to deal with such behaviour, but it is still your choice whether you wish to or not.

Love is about being able to talk to your partner and a feeling of trust and security. I genuinely don't believe he offers you none and instead feeds your insecurities as a way of gaining the upper hand. Do be careful of such negative people.

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ok well theres this guy who is really nice, hott, funny, sweet, and just PERFECT!! all tha gurl'z adore him!!! and i feel soo lucky that he constantly flirt'z w/ me! It'z been lyke 3 months that we've been flirting (NO JOKE) and i mean that'z pretty long. We act lyke a couple and evrythin..like he tries to kiss me, and he licks me and stuff..but i mean i dont wanna kiss him unless we are actually goin steady..i SERIOUSLY Need some help becuz im wayyyyy too afriad of asking him out myself..if u have any ideas..PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!! ILL RATE U!!!!

I'm all about being upfront and honest. A truthful beginning leads to a good relationship.

You're young and you have fun. Make sure you don't insult him by pulling away from him when he does try to kiss you. Just make it clear to him that you don't want to get 'intimate in that way' unless there is committment. Telling him the truth is better than doing something you don't want to do or sending him the wrong signals.

Why don't you ask him to come 'chill' with you for a cup of coffee or a soda? It's subtle and you two will have some alone time to connect mentally. Don't be afraid. You guys have already made a connection. A flirtatious one, and that's a step closer than you were when you two were not flirting. Go for it. What's the worst that can happen?

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