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Heyy, my name is Brittany. I am sixteen years old, and I was born on the 9th of July. I am very different from most people I know, and I love that! I'm a virgin..I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs and I never have. I am selfish, stubborn, and most people would say I am spoiled. I hate not getting my own way. I dislike liars, and I can't stand being in a moving vehicle without any music playing. I love the color pink, and my favorite number is 39. Country music is my favorite, but I like a little bit of everything. My boyfriend's name is Brandon. I have obsessive compulsive disorder, and I am very paranoid most of the time. I worry a lot. I laugh a lot, and smile even more. I'm very insecure, and can be quite ditzy. I like giving people advice, when I can..My best friend's name is Katie. I am extremely lazy, and tend to be very random.
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Age: 16
AIM: BrittanyMichx39
Member Since: June 17, 2005
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Ok...how can i get him back if hes the one who broke up with me??He told me he wanted me to find someone better than him but there is no one better than him.So what can i say or do to get him back?? (link)
Well if he broke up with you, it isn't always a possibility to get him back. You could talk to him and try to find out what went wrong, if you don't already know. Or find out why he broke up with you. If you can't go back out with him, you could always just try to be his friend. There are plenty of guys out there, and rite now you might not think that there is anyone better than him, but trust me you will get over him eventually! You're going to have plenty of boyfriends. You will break some hearts, and get your heart broken as well. That's just a part of life. Don't dwell on the past! If he doesn't want you back, it's his loss.


This sounds like a really childish question but is it normal to not know what feelings you have about someone?

I know this guy and everytime I see him or think about him I get butterflies (cheesy much?) but when I think about it, I don't know him enough to LIKE him so..yeah.

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I don't think this is a stupid question at all. But you probably just think he is really cute or funny. You could just have a crush on this kid. That's pretty much what a crush is. You don't really know them very well, but you think you could or you think that you already DO like them. Just get to know him if you want! Talk to him, or ask him to hang out sometime.


Hey, I need to know some bands that sound like System of the down. Thanks!
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I looked this up online b/c I don't listen to System of a Down and this is what I came up with.

Tool
Skrape
Boy Hits Car
Limp Bizkit
Coal Chamber
Deftones
Korn
Machine Head

If you want any more, just let me know and I will look and see what I can find. Those are all that I came up with so far!


Hey guys.
can you give me a list of hot songs

punkrock/pop/r&b/TECHNOOO


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punkrock-
http://www.plyrics.com/

pop-
http://www.popculturemadness.com/Music/

r&b-
http://www.cs.ucr.edu/~marcus/music.html

techno-
http://forums.beyond.ca/showthread/t-17296.html

Those are just a few websites I found with some good songs on them. You might find them helpful, you might not. If you need anything else, let me know. If those aren't what you were looking for, let me know!


Hi im 14 and my brother just turned 18.Usually he has been coming home a half hour late and all he gets is a lecture but if i come home 10 mintues late i get grounded for a week.how can i tell my parents how i feel.ive tried telling them but they say oo come on hes 4 years older.it makes me feel like they like him better.just recently he had his bday and i was a little jealous.i dont know what to do because i feel like my family doesnt love me.i always want to leave but they say no and if he says it they say sure.i dont feel loved and i want to die i need help. (link)
Well you are young, and if your parents tell you a certain time to be home and get that mad if you are just 10 minutes late, maybe you should leave the place at which you were a few minutes EARLIER so you will get home on time. I know it seems unfair, but there isn't much you can do about it to change your parents' minds. You could try talking to them, and mentioning how late your brother usually is. Tell them that just b/c he is older doesn't mean he can bend their rules. Especially if you can't.(I'm not sure what you mean by feeling like your family doesn't love you) but if you mean that your parents/family don't pay attention to you..talk to them about that as well! Make sure you talk to them at a time where they are not busy, b/c then they are less likely to ignore what you are saying, and actually sit down and talk with you. Don't yell or have an attitude towards them b/c that will only make things worse and more complicated. If you need any more advice you can IM me on AIM. My s/n is BrittanyMichx39. Or you could ask me on here. Good luck!


okay. i dont know if i should make the first move. we have hugged and my friends told him i liked him and he had a big smile on his face. and we talk alot..
so..i want him to ask me out. Is there any more flirty thingys i can do? or should i just ask him out?
i jsut dont know...
please just tell me what you think... (link)
Flirt with him! Laugh at his jokes, smile at him. Call him or talk to him online, and ask him to hang out! If you want you could always simply just tell him that you like him! You don't have to be afraid, and you shouldn't be! I found these websites that might help you out a bit. Check them out if you get some time!

http://www.romantic-lyrics.com/flirtideas.shtml
http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting.htm
http://www.ivillage.co.uk/relationships/dating/men/articles/0,,139_602486,00.html
http://www.flirtzone.com/tips.htm


Ok..i have a question if anyone could answer it.How could i get my ex boyfriend back??We both still like eachother a lot.If anyone knows please help me!!

Ill rate high if you help!!

16/f (link)
If you both still like each other, I don't think getting him back will be that big of a challenge. Unless there are obstacles in the way. I mean, is there a reason that you two broke up other than b/c you just didn't WANT to go out anymore? Maybe your parents don't want you to see him, or your schedules just weren't working out with each others. Make sure that he knows you still like him. And be positive that he still likes you. Ask him out, or just talk to him about possibly getting back together. I don't think you should have much of a problem if you both still like each other. Good luck!


Ahh okay so I have a twin brother and well he uses me for my friends and he always goes with me everywhere and my mom doesnt get that I dont want him around I always to to talk to her about it but sheh doesnt listen..pleaseeeeeee help (link)
Are you a guy too? If you don't want your brother to hang out with you, you should first of all tell him, in a nice way..if it's possible. If he doesn't listen then you should tell your parents, that it bothers you that he has to go EVERYWHERE with you all the time. Tell her that he should have his own friends that he can hang out with..and maybe try to introduce him to some people who he would get along with and like to hang out with! If you can't get him to stop hanging out with you..go over to a friend's house, and tell your mom that your friend can only have one person over, and then hang out with people at their house or something. Good luck!


Anyone have some cute sad love qoutes?? (link)
I don't believe in anything, because I once believed in you.

So, I'm gonna walk away..and it's up to you to say how far..

And she pretends she doesn't care..but really she cares more than anyone else ever would.

It's the hardest thing in the universe to listen to the guy you love talking about the girl you want to be.

And just like every other night..I looked up at the stars and wasted another wish on you..

Even though I remind myself that we'll, most likely, never be together again..I just can't let mysef fall for anyone else.

I'm mad at myself, not you. I'm mad for always being nice. I'm mad for always apologizing for things I didn't do. I'm mad for getting attached. I'm mad for depending on you and wasting my time on you. I'm mad for thinking about you and changing for you and wishing for you. And most of not hating you when I should..but I can't.

Can you honestly tell me that when you look into my eyes, that you feel nothing? I guess that if you can say those words to me, then I will just walk away and never look back. But, if you can't..if you even feel the slightest feeling whispering to you that I'm something special..then please think about it, maybe we do belong together.

It's no big deal. Break her heart. Let her down. Make her cry. You "love" her right? Everything is fine. Hold her hand. Lead her on. It's no big deal..she's just a girl.

I thought you should know..you're not making this easy.

My whole world came crashing down the day you said you didn't love me anymore..

And her heart finally told her to stop wasting her time.

I think to myself, "I'm so over him." and then he walks by and I have second thoughts.

I'm not even going to get mad anymore. I just gotta learn to expect the lowest from the people, I thought the highest of.

If you want more, let me know. I have millions, haha!


okay... so there is this boy who lives in a different town as me and i really like him. i have his sn, but he is never on!! i need to know how to talk to him or something like that... and you know like what i should do about this "situation." please help...?? (link)
Heyy. Do you know any of his friends? Or would you or anyone that you know be able to get his phone number for you? If he doesn't live that far away from you, maybe your parents, or an older friend would give you a ride to his house. Maybe he got a new s/n. So just ask around, b/c someone might have it. Good luck!


13!Femalle I got caught stealing from a drugstore. My parents don't know. I feel bad about it and really regret it. I said sorry and paid for the item but I haven't wen't back there since this was in June. I want to go back to the drugstore; When should I go back there? Do you think they called the cops?(I've learned my lesson and will NEVER steal again.) (link)
Don't be afraid to go back. I mean the people probably don't even remember what you look like. They might, but I'm sure it would be fine for you to go back. (Unless they told you not to come back) They probably didn't call the cops if they haven't contacted you yet, since it was so long ago. I got caught stealing from school (stupid I know) but the cops spoke to me about a week later. I got a $208.50 fine, and there was a chance that I may have had to do community service, but I ended up not having to do that. Thank God! But anyways, if you are scared to go back b/c of what people might say or whatever, dye your hair or something. I know it sounds stupid, but that's all I can think of if you are scared. New people might work there too, so don't be afraid. Go alone or with some friends or something, which ever makes you feel more comfortable! Good luck!


ok i like this boy but he doesnt like me he told me i was hott but doesnt like me he likes some one else and some other girl likes him to what should i do just like stop liking him or like flirt with him i dont know what i should do (link)
It's a normal thing for guys to think a girl is hott but not like her any more than a friend. But if you flirt with him, he may flirt back simply b/c he thinks you are good looking. Don't get his flirtacious ways confused with actual feelings tho. Chances are that he COULD end up liking you more than a friend if you get closer to him and maybe get to know him a little better, but don't get your hopes too high. Especially if he already likes another girl rite now. Be friends with him first, and see where that goes. But be sure of exactly how he feels before you end up liking him too much. You don't wanna get hurt so just be careful.


okay well i heard my boyfriend dosn't have very good past relationships. i heard he cheated on a lot of his girlfriends. he is such a sweet boyfriend though, and he told me he would never do that and that he would change. But my fiend saw him flirting with this one girl and said she 'grabbed him there' and said if you take off your pants, ill take off mine. Also, my boyfriend's twin was said to be flirting with her too and he has a girlfriend. Me and his girlfriend wanna beat her up soo bad. What should i doo!? (link)
That's just the way most guys are. Immature, and completely idiotic at times. If you can think of one reason why you shouldn't trust him (such as his past full of cheating on his g/fs) then chances are you most likely shouldn't trust him. I was friends with my current b/f for almost a year before we started going out and I still can't totally trust him. Guys lie, and think they are good at it, and won't get caught..but most of the time they are wrong. You just have to ask questions, and try to keep an eye on him at all times. Don't make it look like you're stalking him or anything, b/c that is just insane, but just try to know where he is most of the time, and who he is gonna be with! If he has lied to you once, there is no doubt in my mind that he won't do it again. Just be careful!


i have a friend that is really into drugs. i've always known hes smoked and drank and i was a little uncomforatable but now i found out hes done things like oxycotten and that he drives drunk. if i were to tell anybody the WHOLE SCHOOL would hate me but if something were to happen to him or if he hurts anyone else i dont know if i could live with myself. i cant tell an adult in my school because they'll turn him in. who can i tell and what could i do to help him? (link)
If you are really good friends with him, then it might be a good idea for you to try to talk to him yourself. The best time would probably be when you two are completely alone where nobody would bother you or interrupt you while you are trying to talk to him. Tell him how you feel and explain how worried you are. If that doesn't work, then I'd say your only other option would be to tell someone that you trust (such as your parents, older brother/sister, relative or even a really close friend) and ask them for advice on what to do. You should probably try and get him help, before things get too bad. Don't be afraid to tell someone either! This is serious and it sounds like he is getting himself into some serious stuff. Just talk to someone.


Does anybody know any good sites to become a famous singer or like find a record deal person and do you think somebody13 can do it? welll please help
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Well of course somebody who is the age of 13 can do it! Anyone can, as long as they are good enough. You have to meet certain requirements..but yeah if you believe in yourself, practice, and do the best you can..there is always a chance! Here are a few websites that I found that might help you out.

http://www.aandronline.com/get_record_deal.html
http://www.talentrock.com/events/sendform.cfm?src=GoogleSingersKI
http://bbs.hollywoodreporter.com/showthreaded.php?Cat=&Board=UBB5&Number=11159&page=0&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&vc=1
http://www.nervousrat.com/famous/
http://www.getsigned.com/
http://www.getsigned.com/record_deal.html


my boyfriend and i fight because of my own insecurities. i need to know ways to get over the little things..brush them off and whatever. i worry alot.. any suggestions? i really need some advice. (link)
Heyy. I was searching online for something to help you out. I am VERY insecure myself. As a matter of fact, I have a social anxiety disorder. It's getting worse too. But here is a website I have found that I thought MIGHT help you out.

http://www.hypnotics.co.uk/relationships/insecurity/overcoming-insecurity-in-relationships.htm


I am in desprate need of a new AIM screen name. Any ideas? If this helps..
- my name is ali
- i like x's, xO's, x3's and things like that
- i like to dance
- i like words like crazy/i/ii, baby/i/ii, dance, and other words like that.
- my fav. songs are lose control, be my escape, like u,

please help! (link)
crazybabyLIKEu
xOx dance babii
x3 aLi baBi x3
LoSe x CoNtrOL
krazii xx babii
b3 x mi xESCAPE
ohEMgee itsALI
lose ctrlxDANCE
x dance dance x
JUST xdance xx
xOx Ali Babi x
BE xmyx ESCAPE
Ali x3s ToDance
Dance xoxo aLI
Babii Girl Ali
xDancexWithxAli
Crazyy Ali x3
XLOSEXxcontrolx
Aliiii x3
Krazyy Alyy xx


Okay, when I like a guy, I'm shy to tell them on the phone and online. The only way I'm NOT shy if I tel lthem straight out in person. Is this weird? And do guys like when you do it this way?? (link)
That's really like different I think (in a good way!!). If I were shy I wouldn't be able to tell someone in person. I would feel a lot better and more comfortable telling someone online or on the phone. I'd still probably feel stupid after I did, but that's awesome that you can tell them in person!


I like this guy, but i dont know how to let him know. I'm super shy and i cant go up to people and just out tell them, so....i dont know how to tell him without "telling" him...help?

~Melissa~ (link)
flirting is a good way to SHOW someone that you like them or are atleast interested in them without actually SAYING it straight out! smile at him a lot and talk to him as much as you can. and always laugh at his jokes!!


my friend and i are starting a rock band and we need some help comming up with a name... suggestions anyone??

please no stupid remarks. thanks.

peace. (link)
I found this website by looking on google. You might want to check it out. I didn't really read into it much but it might be of some help to you!
http://www.alankorn.com/articles/band_names.html




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