Hey Everyone! My name is Taryn but people call me T-bear! I have a a pretty rough roller coaster in my life but have made it to the top and love where I am at today. I have a beautiful family and am able to smile again everyday. I love helping other people keep the faith and know what you are going through and where you can end up. I love my fiance who I am about to marry here in 20 days and adore my one year old son. He reminds me why I continue to appreciate my breath here on earth. I am here for anyone at anytime. Just ask away!!! Luv u all!!
E-mail: tarebear_whinery17@hotmail.com
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Location: Wyoming
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Age: 25
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15/f
ive been cutting myself for about two years. its not constant, in fact i stopped for about seix months, but lately ive kindof picked up where i left off and ive been cutting every few days now. i really really want to stop, but everytime i look it up online, i see things like "take a warm bath, go for a run, blahblahblah." and i really dont think that taking a bath or running is going to help me to stop cutting. i need ways on how to stop.
also, is there like an on-line couseling type of thing? where i could talk to a psychologist? i really dont want to tell my parents because they would be so dissappointed in me and wouldnt understand. but i just want someone professional to talk to. besides, i dont know if i could afford seeing a therapist.
please help me to stop cutting. (link)
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I use to be a cutter. Trust me I think your parents would be more hurt if they found out on their own and then think that you can't talk to them. Cutting is not an addiction it is something that you think makes you feel better because its pain and it takes your mind off of everything you may be feeling. I know you said taking a warm bath and other stuff won't help but everytime you start feeling the urge to cut... do something you enjoy or hang out with someone you enjoy being with until you are able to deal with it yourself. you dont want ot be too independent because then you will rely on that. just think there is alot of other things out there that could make your life alot worse. I suggest you talk to your parents it could do you good. your 15 this is normal and the beginning of your life... these things will pass trust me.. you will look back and see how things are to bad.... your parents can help you see a phycolgist.... just remember the cuts leave scars and will be there for the rest of your life.!!!
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