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Hey,
my name's Stephanie, 16 years old and i live in the UK. If you want my advice then i'll happily give it. If you don't agree with it then that's just tough, i say it how i see it.

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there is this guy at my school, in my first period class that i really like. we have a lot in common and he's always been nice to me when we talk, and he thinks that i'm funny, too. the problem here is that his friends hate me. could his friends disliking me affect that he might actually like me? and if not do you think this guy does like me? i need help please!

His friends disliking you will most likely have a big impact on whether or not he chooses to like you. Even if he did like you he may not admit it as to avoid conflicting with his friends. If you guys were to ever go out then he would be constantly choosing whether to spend time with you or his friends as he couldn't have both. Do you really think he wants the hassle?

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Me and my best friend Krystal want to ask you this. Theres this girl, Holly, she keeps butting into me and Krystal's friend ship. I mean coming between me and Krystal. I feel that she wants to take my place. Its really getting me mad because she is really annoying to! Anyways she already slept over krystal's house once [ i was there to ] but shes that type of person that you get sick of quickly and Krystal doesnt want her to sleep over tonight. How can we let Holly down gently??

Why let her down gently? She's doing this on purpose although she'd never admit to it. Just tell her to p**s off but make sure Krystal supports it and that she's there when you tell Holly where to go.
I went through the same thing but i didn't do anything. Now i'm completely out of the picture and although i sometimes wish i'd done something i have new friends now.

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Well.....me and my friend like the same guy.I'v like him since i was little and he likes me to.But then there my friend she likes him.And I dont know what to do cause me and this boy want to go out but then there my friend.What should i do about this cause i dont want to lose a friend but i want to go out wit this boy.What should i do?


-Amanda Marie

Go for it man, you've liked this guy for a long time and now you finally have the opportunity to go out with him. If you don't do this you might spend life wondering what would've happened and life's too short. The chances are your friend will get over it and move on to some other guy.

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A couple of weeks ago I met a guy at my best friends party. Lets call hym "a" Hes so hot and so nice but he kept checking me out. Since we were in a limo everyone was giving lap dances to regeaton music. I gave one to a guy and then "a" wanted one from me. But then I found out he has a girlfriend AND I know who she is. So I didn't give him one because it didn't seem like the right thing to do and I would have felt guilty...so he was like darn. But now I find myself liking him. He has broken upp with his gf and i know I have the opportunity but he just seems like a real player to me and I don't want a guy like that. After all he wanted a lap dance from a girl when he has a gf! And he was like well she doesn't have to know...wouldn't you be hurt if you were his gf? And please don't give me advice "well thats the way guys are" or "alot of guys will do that" because that is sooo not true. I just don't know what to do...He doesn't know I like him and I'm not sure if I want him to because...idk..I just can't resist...I want to like him..I just don't wanna get hurt..but I wanna be happy too..
xo0x confused x0ox

This guy sounds like a real jerk and the fact is if he treated his ex this way he'd probably treat you the same way if you went out with him. You're right to feel cautious of this person and it's best to try and avoid him if possible. I think you should just let it pass, it wont be long before you fancy someone else, hopefully someone more trustworthy.

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