I am 16 years old and a guy
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I'm 14/f and i used to like a guy in my english class (16/m) since the first day of school. the crush ended around the beginning of march, but now him and his friends think i like him, and now he likes me and won't stop trying to talk to me and saying hi. it's so annoying and embarassing
how can i get him to stop? (link)
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Well, first there is nothing wrong with him saying hi or just talking. You have to like something about him if you had a crush on him, so there is nothing involved in beginning a friendship. Maybe you will start liking him again. But if him talking to you really bothers you, try talking to his friends and tell them that you are not interested in him.
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ok so im kind of torn right now. i started a new school this year and i made a lot of friends but they're all in different cliques. when one girl asked me to sit with her at an assembly, i couldnt because she sat with all of the popular kids who im scared of. i want to be popular but im not obnoxious so it seems like im boring when im with them. what can i do? (link)
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Don't be scared to be friends with anybody. Hang out with who ever you want to hang out with, and become friends with whoever. Seems pretty general, but its your choice. If you wan to hang out with that girl and her popular friends, be yourself, don't be scared. Just because they are "popular" does not mean that they aren't nice people. What I'm getting at is be yourself, do not be fake, and do not ever think people are "too popular" to be friends with.
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16/f. My best friend, a guy, talks to me all the time about shit that goes on with him, like at home(his home life is very f***ed up). Mostly it's on AIM. And I'm really glad that he talks to me, cuz we have a history(long story) and we are best friends. But a lot of the time I don't know what to say in response. I'll say I'm sorry and stuff like that, but I feel like I have to say more. But like what? I just need him to know that I will always be there for him and he can talk to me about anything, and I'm sure he knows that, I've shown it. Do I need to say anything else? (link)
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I feel the same way sometimes, and I have also come to the conclusion that they do just need someone to tell the problems to...so they do not hold it in. You are doing something great by taking the time to listen, and he deffinately appreciates that. I know i would.
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im naturally firty when it comes to guys, and so far its worked pretty well. Im 15 btw.I always thought guys were pretty much the same when it came to what they were looking for in a girl. But ive noticed lateley that the "typical" thing that a guy wants in a girl is different than what i previously thought. i mean, they're all different, so they all like different qualities, not all of them want drop dead gorgeous girls, but in general, can anyone tell me what they've noticed that guys like in a girl. oh and if ur a guy, your advice is appreciated! (link)
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Ok, well I am a 16 yr old guy, and i can tell you some things. Looks aren't everything, but it is true...they deffinately matter. Every guy wants someone that they can call good looking. But remember, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, so some guys may think a girl is good looking, while others do not. Personally, I like smart girls who i can hold a conversation with about anything. I like a girl who can be herself around me, and not pretend to be someone else. I like girls who are not very shallow. But that is just me. Every guy is different, and the best answer you can get is to just be yourself...show your true personality. You will always find guys who will like you for your personality.
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Okay to make a long story short, I twisted my ankle playing basketball in July. Ever since, I've had pain. I went to a doctor, went to physical therapy, got an MRI, went back to the doctor, etc. I got a brace for running. The MRI showed tears in the tendons in my ankle. It's almost a year later & it still hurts. Its still swollen, bruised, & theres a pouch of fluid on my foot thats bruised. What is this?! I thought it would be gone by now but it isn't. I have pain daily. What can I do now? I always thought it should've been casted, but is it too late? Do they do that? Any ideas? (link)
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Go back to a doctor....and unfortunately you might need surgery. Not deffinite, but thats what it looks like.
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I have liked this guy (C) for 3 months exactly. I liked him and my crush for him just kept growing more and more. We talked, flirted, stared at each other a lot. Walked the halls. I was like oh my gosh hes the one! And I loved coming to school every day, and I could tell his style was getting better and so was mine. This was going on for 3 months. Then this week after spring break, he totally ignores me, DOESNT even look at me. I mean he looked at me once thats it. And hes being a show-off in front of me. I cant stand it. What is wrong with him?? Does he hate me now? I didnt do anything wrong? And the worst part is he asked out this girl right in front of me. So now my situation is worse. I dont want to go to school anymore, I still LIKE him. And I hate the fact that he's not talking to me. I tried talking to him but he just gave me the evil eye, and walked away from me. HELP ME PLEASE!! I wont give you a 5 if you dont. I REALLY NEED HELP. this whole week was the worst ever! :( (link)
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Coming from a guy...maybe he was nervous about you. Personally i am scared of rejection, and i am hesitant to make a move on a girl. Maybe he was nervous and wanted you to make the first move. And then maybe since you didn't he felt he had no sot with you. You have done nothing wrong though, remember that.
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Dizty Girls?
Pretty Girls?
Do they like smart girls? cause like today, he pulled out my math test which was a 98 and he was like "ha ur a f*cking smartass" But i dont like brag or anything, cause i hate bragging.
They like girls who make them laugh right?
Do they also look at smile, cause okay, i can smile and my teeth at pretty white except for one teeth which is yellowish, cause its a filling. and i hate it, so i like hate smiling in front of him...
Do they like girls with big eyes?
And lastly, do they liek girls who flirt. Cause im not the "extreme flirting type." cause i get nervous.
Thanks!!!!! (link)
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Be yourself. Thats the best answer anyone can give. Me personally, I like smart girls. Every guy likes a good looking girl, its just life. If you are yourself, I'm sure you will find a guy thats perfect for you.
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okay so me and jamie have been friends since kindergarden. but this year shes been hanging out with this girl stacey and me and stacey were pretty close before stacey and jamie HUGE friendship. and jamie like hangs out with stacey like 24/7 and im NOT even kidding. its so annoying. they leave me out of EVERYTHING. and bacically they do it on PURPOSE(i think) they dont even BOTHER to talk to me like alone. III have to go to them. then at the auction thing stacey and her friend olivia(are in a fight and now stacey was going to tell her off)so she was like jamie come with me to tell her off but jamie didnt want to..yadda yadda...and then while olivia and stacey were talking things out, jamie i guess realized stacey really wasnt her friend so she came to me and she was like im sorry ..yadda yadda your my real friend..yadda yadda.
then the next day, she DID the opposite of what she told me! she hung out with stacey like NOTHING happened!! and then today i was sitting by like jamie and stacey and some of my other friends and they went into the hall(w/o telling me)so i went too! and now my friend alex tells me that they were talking about how i was FOLLOWING THEM??!?!?!??! uhh what do i do?
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You need to have a talk with Jamie. Not a fight, just a talk. Ask her about what your friend Alex told you. And ask her why she seems to push you away when you try to be a good friend to her.
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14/f
okay well i like this guy and his name is ryan and he has told me that he likes me back. but he also likes 2 other girls i really like this kid and i kind of want to go out with him is there anything i can say or notice to see who he likes more or if he really does like me..thanks (link)
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If Ryan likes 2 other girls also, rethink if you really want to be with him. And if you know you do, try to hang out with him outside of school.
Example: Ask him what he is doing on friday, and if he has no plans, suggest that the two of you should hang out.
Now, just establish a decent friendship with him, and tell him how you feel
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