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E-mail: courtandalex@yahoo.com
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Last Update: November 3, 2005
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ok..i just started using tampons..and like they really hurt!!! like it hurts so much when i sit down i like scream..or "yipe" like even at school..and like i dont know its so weird because it really really really hurts and stuff and i dont know what to do. do u think i have a diseas or what ever..or like..i dotn know..help!

i dont think you have a disease but i dont really think this is the best thing to talk about over an internet site..i think you should talk to your mom about it..or if you really wanna you can IM me

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Wht should i do if i am addicted to steroids?Please answer

get professional help


Xo-CouRt

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What should I do if I found out one of my friends is gay, but i have been trying to avoid him? I know he is gay because he tried to do something that I am forever scared....

umm..tell him your not like that if he tries to do something with you..and if he doesnt stop or whatever then i would try to stay away from him when he is acting like that..im not really sure what to tell you..i havent had that problem!! sorry!!

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there is so many hot ladies to choose from ,,, how do i pick the right one and how do i sas her

well you can't PiCK what one!! it just kinda hits ya! lol.. whatever one you're most comfortable around is who you should like. and just flirt with her a lot! be yourself and all that good stuff.. :) hope i helped!

xO- aLeX

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i always here my friends talking about how they dont like a person ..but then i see them being really nice to that person ..so i do i know they really like me or they really dont?

thats tuff..girls are like that! if they say it infront of you then i bet they like you! and they probably dont want the person to know they dont like them. alll girls do this..i wish we didnt! but we do!! i wouldnt worry about it! but if you want to talk more than you can IM me!

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I have a friend and we used to be really good friends, ya know! like i would spend the night with her every weekend and stuff like that. Well, at like, the beginning or middle of this year she turned REALLY popular and now she only sometimes says hi to me in the hall sometimes cause i'm not one of her new popular friends. i think i know more about her then a bunch of her new friends cause i have known her for yearss!! but she likes her new friends cause they're popular, and i know that if she had the choice to be with me or one of her new friends that i doubt are really her friends that much, then she would choose them. She still says hi to me in the hall... but the only times we have a conversation just like we used to, its when theres not anyone around shes trying to impress. i tell myself that i dont need her anymore cause i have alot of other friends, but i just miss her alot. : ( i dont know what to do!!!

i know me and alex say this alot..but its soo true! TALK TO HER!! if yall were soo close..there is no way there isnt still something there..you never know..maybe she thinks you dont like her anymore..and she really still wants to be friends! the best thing is to just talk..say how you feel!!

hope i helped-CouRt

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This one is for Courtney. There's this guy that I really think I like, but I don't have any classes with him.. the only time I see him is after school once a week at the sport we play! I know, it's pathetic, but I really wish I could be around him more. I also wish I could talk to him more, which never happens because I'm actually extremely talkative, but he's even MORE talkative and funnier and I'm just sooooo intimidated by him! Ahhh I don't even know what I need help with I just need HELP!!

aww..well all i can say is when your with him..talk to him as much as you can!! and if you feel shy or whatever think he probably feels the same way!! and you can call him or talk to him online! just TRY to be with him as much as you can!! i know its soo hard when you think you like someone but your not with them enough to know..if u do, or if they feel the same way!!

IM me and we can talk more!! sChUtZe09


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court this is for you....i have this friend of mine she is like my best friend and this other girl gets really mad when we do things together and she is always telling every one her problems and never wants to hear anyones elses so then she thinks that life is all bad for herself even thought no one really knows the things that go on in my life but you and i know they are way worse than hers! what do i do?

you know who i am!

umm that is hard..cause if the person gets mad..u might not want to talk to them about it..but on the other hand..it isnt fair to the other girl and you. and about the whole always talks about her self..and never lets you get a word in..maybe one day you should just be like..guess what happened to me..and then if she cuts you off be like..i was telling you something..can you please listen..and if she still doesnt then maybe you should bring up taht she always does this to you.

IM me cause i dont know who you are! lol

Xo-Court

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i like this guy and some times he acts like he likes me is sooo sweet but then we i see him around other girls he is being the same way to them...think he likes me?

honestly? probably not. but you never know, that's just how guys are.. the only sure way to know is asking him who he likes! another thing, play hard to get for a few days. don't be rude, but don't flirt as much as you usually do. that'll get him!

xO- aLeX

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some of my friends r starting to think they are really mature and really cool.. and i dont like their new personality.. how do i tell them that it bugs me?

well you need to be careful, that's what i'll tell you.. in some ways it is probably good that they are becoming a little more mature. try doing something together that ya'll havent done in a long time.. go play mini putt or something! try to get back to the things you guys used to do.. other then that, maybe try talking to them about it, but like i said, just be careful.

hOpE i HeLpEd!
xO- aLeX

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Well, i think im over this boy. I mean im starting to b myslef and im jumping and running in the halls and i dont care n e more that hes standing right there. But than theres other tims were i think i might still like him. Do you think i still like him? help!

%*%Casey%*%

well %*%Casey%*% yes..i think you do still like him. its been just a couple days since you told yourself "i dont like him" it takes a long time! but its great that you already feel like you can be yourself..but you should have been able to be yourself if you reallllly liked him in the first place!

Xo-CouRt

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omg i like boys what to do?

well it depends..are you a girl or a boy?

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i have this friend and she is like my best friend in the whole wide world but i found out she was a lesbo and then i started to think about like things she has tried to do with me in the past and i think she has a lesbo crush on me and thats really gross and weird but i still love her alot and i dont want to lose our relationship and best friends what should i do....? and i know this might sound a little o.c. but its tottaly true.

UhhH?? that is kind of weird? talk about boys that you like a lot.. and make sure she doesn't think you *LikE* her.. lol.. idk what to say to this one! sry?

xO- aLeX

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How do you get over someone? and how to you know ur fully over them

hmm..thats a tuffy! its different for every persoon..but probably you will know if you dont get that funny feeling when you see them..or if you dont think about them 24/7..

and about how to stop liking someone..i dont think you can just get yourself to stop liking someone..it has to just happen! i hope i helped!!

xO-cOUrt

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k i like this guy alot and he used to like me and my 2 of my frinds but me the most(or as my friend told me) but then he liked one of them more and then was told he was annoying by them and now is kinda broken

NOO! it wouldnt be stupid to call him!! he has it up there for a reason!!! and who knows..he might want YOU to call!! go for it!! hope everything works out!

xO-cOUrT

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ok..i have a friend and she likes dis guy dat likes me but he doesn't like her and i like him but..i want to go out with da guy but like i don't want to mess up me and my friends relationship over this guy so like what should i do?!

hMmM this is tough.. well how much do you like this guy?? if it's enough that you are willing to risk your friend getting mad at you for a while, then.. go for it? but talk to her about it before you just go out with him. do what you think you would want her to do to you, if you know what i mean??

if you need any more help, iM me!! aLeX TaY 576 !!

xO- aLeX

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ok... i have this friend who really likes her other friend, but i cant stand her she is so annoying and i dont know what to do?

umm..i think maybe first you should try to hang around them and just not talk to the other girl..and if that is to hard..then just when they are together..dont hang out with them..and if that doesnt work..than you should probably talk to your friend about it..if she is a good friend she will understand..and maybe you can come to a compromise. because you cant expect her to just drop the girl..but if she knows you dont like her..she can try to hang out with yall at seprate times! hope i helped!

Xo-cOuRt

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ok there is this boy that i have been crazy about for a really long time but i am only known as the "really good friend". What am i doing wrong and what can i do to become more than the "really good friend???

thanks!!

well...this is kind of hard to answer..because i dont know what you have tried..but flirting and giving him signs that you like him and...**TaLkInG tO hIm aBoUt iT!** i know its the hardest thing in the world to do!! but it works like a charm! nothing can happen if the person doesnt know you like them!! im serious!!

my sn is sChUtZe09 if you want to talk more!! i hope i helped!!

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Hey I think you guys give really awesome advice =)
Well I have this friend who is such an awesome person when it's just me and her... she's so smart and funny and sweet.. but when she's around other people she acts all ditzy. It's really frustrating to see her changing herself for others. No one can see that she's so smart and creative and all that because she seems to force it all away so she can come off as someone she's not.

aWw! thanks!! hehe..
wellll.. ok so here is what this sounds like to me: she's an amazing person/friend when it's just you and her, and maybe some other close friends? but when you're around a large group of people that don't know her as well, she changes personalities.


what i would do is seriously talk to her about it. (i know that i say this all the time, but honestly, it's your best bet!) have you tried to talk to her about it before? what happened? chances are, if she's REALLY a good friend, she wouldn't get mad or upset. tell her 100% how you feel, don't hold back!! but at the same time, try not to come off rude. just tell her that you love the girl you're such great friends with, and you know other people would to! maybe she thinks that her ditzy self is a better first impression, who knows? the only way to find out is to talk to her about it, but gently.


hOpE i HeLpEd!
xO- aLeX

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Ok some real questions,so theres this boy (like most of these things on here) and i just cant like get him off my mind!! he wont go away!! i try to get him off but i cant and the only thing i want is for him to want me back as much as i want him, thats like allllll i want!!! its just amazing how good looking he is!! god, but like i cant tell him cause i dont want to make it weird. so im just stuck in this postion and i dont kno what to do? i need some major help!! i want him soo bad its CRAZY AND AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

sounds like ur in L O V E!haha well i mean has he given you any signals that he might feel the same way? if i were you i would send him some signals..like flirt and stuff..and see what he does back..if he flirts back you should be able to tell! and then the best thing you can do is tell him..even though its sooo hard!! but if you dont you will be stuck where you are! and never know what could happen!

*the other thing you can do is play hard to get! it almost ALWAYS works!haha you should really be able to tell how he feels from that!

and do yall hang out alot? if so..then really either would work! i hope i helped! if u need more advice after you try one of those or you didnt like either of those..you can IM me my sn is sChUtZe09

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