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okay well i have this friend and he doesnt like my boyfriend that much, he says he will just hurt me and he never really tries to view things from my point of view. he likes this one gurl and stuff and i always tell him she will just break his heart over and over but he doesnt wanna listen, but he gets mad at me when i dont listen to him about my boyfriend....it gets me really mad sometimes and i feel like he thinks im wrong about this gurl he likes...i know im right but i dont know....what do you think?

i dont because i know him. i just dont trust him. i dotn know your point of view, thats why i never looked. thats not much of a question so i dont know how to answer you.

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Like we arent best friends or anything cause like him and his friend were talking and laughing at me while i was talking. They told me they were joking about going out with me and they thought it was funny how i talked and stuff. Then i asked for the guys friends attention and the guy i like asked me if i liked the kid and i said no cause i dont then he asked me who i do like and i told him i would tell him at lunch, should i actually tell me or not? Should i ask him out?

ok. do it alone with the guy you like. his friend sound like jerks, try to avoid them. and if it doesn't turn out the way hoped, im sorry, but either way, not that i know they dont sound so nice. i think you should still give it a good try. smile while you talk to him

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In my one class, this guy that i sort of like looks at me and like smiles sometimes in a way. Sometimes he catches me looking at him so i just like look around. Then on friday i think he asked me who i liked but he didnt say it out loud or anything. But like everyone thinks i like him, should i make a move?

yeah, either your his best friend or he likes you. even if its just a best friend hes most likely to give it a try. yeah you should make a move, soon. dont wait another week, trust me. if you want your chance take it asap.

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If i like this one guy do you think that I should tell him or just get to know him more and then tell him?

well.. you shouldn't tell him right away. you should wait it off for a little while. but dont ignore him if he wants to talk if your embarraced. never feel embaraced. but while you wait it off for a little while to make sure you like him, you should stay close. become better friends. giving more of a chance, and most likely a better ending. if your afriad of what he will say, dont be. it couldn't be any worse then, "sorry but i dont like you like that" but if it had gotten worse, the guy would be a total effing jerk, and there would be no reason for you to feel sad. if they ever got to you, instead of feeling sad, become mad. it will make you feel better. and jerks are liars, and shouldn't be listened too. so dont listen to anything he says if it gets bad. just forget him and move on. but to sum it up, keep in touch, wait a week to make sure hes right, then go for it and hope for the best.

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i want to invite my bf over to my house so he can meet my parents and so we can hang out and thats the only way my parents would feel comfertable with me and him being together is if it under their supervision, so what can we do if he comes over?

well... you could just talk, hang out. let everyone get to know each other. mostly your parents and your boyfriend. but try to start a subject, but dont talk too much yourself. only answer the important parts. and when your talk all together, its alright to hold hands and all, but deffinatly do not go further then that. it will freak your parents out most likely. and it will be ruined. so just relax for an hour or two. everything should be fine

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