Hey Yall My name is Blayre !*! Im A Georiga Peach all the way, i love to hang out with my freinds, talk on the computer, and run my mouth on the phone. The reason i made this advice column is bc like every other average teen i have problems that i need advice on too!*! So i thought i would pay it foward and thats why i made this column to give adivce to people like you!*! So if you need adivce give me a holler and i would be glad to help!
Luv Ya,
Blayre
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umm... well my friends have felt liek i have been blowing them off and it really hurts me to feel like i have to change and i think the thing in there is about me and sooner or lata i will have no frinds bc they will all think im blowing them off and i cant help it between skool and family and i just have real issues and junk and all my friends r becomin all dramatic er slutty and they all think they r so cool and its just really kickin mi butt and i dont want mi friends to think that im self centered or picky abouit my friends er w.e and i just want all these ppl to knoe i luv them and not to be mad at me and Blayre someppl say that u have felt like im blowin u off and i dont mean to and i dont want 2 so forgive me plz lyl (link)
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Hey Girl im really sorry and i totally understand, i have been in tha same sisuation soo many times lol! i understant how u feel tell them excally whut utold me that ur jus becomeoming more buzy and its not u dont wanna hnagout with them its jus u r runnin out of time and if they cant understand that tehn wow life is really goona kick their butt1 but no matter whut ill always br ur friend and be here for you i luv ya girl adn when u need a shoulder to lean on im here good luck and best wishes!
Blayre
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hey blayre my girlfriend think i like another girl and she keeps sayin she believes me that i dont but ppl keep tellin me that she asked them if i liked sum1 else. wut shoul i do?
sincerely,
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There is nuffin that thrils a girl more than a one on one tlak with her sit down and tell her like babe i relaly dont like (*** whoeever**) i love you and only you i hope you will beleive me beacause tha only way we can get a relationship to work is to trust eachother i trust u soo plz abe trust me too1 and hopfully it will all work out i wish u tha best adn hope she understands1
Wishin tha best,
Blayre
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dear blayre,
what would you do if your best friend was 500 miles away from you?when would be the best time to go visit them?When could they vist you?
I know or I hope we can stay best friends forever.
Love,
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P.S right me bac as soon as you get this and you also know my best frind very well.*
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Hey Girl i miss you soo much too! lol u can come see us anytime u want our home is yours!
well hope too see ya soon ly chick!
Blayre
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hey i think my boyfirend likes someone else. i tried talkin to him and it didnt work
luv,
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Hey Girl! lay down tha line tell him if u liek another girl its over i wanna kno and se whut he says and if he says no then ull have to trust him after all if u realyl love him then yall will gots to learn to trust eachother!
Well i wish you luck lyl
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hey blayre
theres this girl i like but i dont no if i should ask her out or just avoid it. we known each other for awhile and have been close friends. i mean we mess wit each other and laugh at each others jokes but sometimes i just feel like we r closer and we get intimate. i mean if sumthin goes wrong im the 1 to put my arm around her and tell her things will work out. i dont no wat to do and i no u can help me somehow bc i n u
sincerly,
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Hey, ill put it this way if u think u have feelings for this girl give it a try ask her out u never kno whut will hapen if she says no always remeber u and her will be freinds and that things change over time and that one day yall might end up together! give it a chance and hopefully she'll say yes!
Well i wish u tha best of luck and i hope she says yes, if u need anything else rite me back!
Blayre
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Hey i have 3 problems
~i really like this guy and my friends tell me he likes me but i dont think he does.what should i do?
~i feel like i get left out. and that my friends dont really care about me. what should i do?
~i think i am ugly but all my friends tell em im not. is ther any thing that iwll make me feel better about myself?? (link)
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Hey well dont feel bad im tha exact same way and soo are a lot of other people its all a part of growing up ! ok well about this guy you like ur freinds say he likes you but u don think he does well why dont u tell him that u liek him and see hwut he does ot get a freind to ask him and see whut he says ! and TRUST me i feel liek i get left out to and i do and if u feel ur left out and ur alomsot postive of it try makin new freinds ones that u feel wont leave you out or tell your old freinds they need to start treatin you better or that ur gonna move on and make new freinds there is over trillions of people in tha world that u can become freinds with so make new ones ! and trust me if u feel liek ur ugly i can almost bet you if ppl tell you your not then ur not i feel hte same way but mi friends tell me im not soo iv learned to trust them and if u spend your hole life thinking your ugly or ur not good enoguh then your not gonna be bale to realize all the good things out there soo go out and have a good time and dont worry about if ur ugly or about your freinds jus enjoy everything and let life go by and it all gets better!
Hope i helped ,
Blayre
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hey blayre,
i have a friend who is always blowing me off. she thinks that every guy in the world likes her and they dont. she is dropping her true friends for her fake ones. im not the only one who feels this way about that person. She tries to be someone shes not.
What should i do
luv,
confused
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Hey confued ! im really sorry about your friend i have a fiend like that and i hate to see her be liek taht! all i can say is try tellin her how u feel and if she doesnt wanna listen then move on there is other people in tha owlrd dont waste ur time on one person, if they r ur true freind they will listen to u and try to be better and if not then they aint worth it make new freinds and dont worry bout her life will go on! i wish u tha best and hope i helped
Blayre
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Hey Blayre,
I have this problem, none of the boys like me because they say i dont have the look and they never take time to get to know me... What should I do? What is the look? We all look different. I don't know what to do but for once it would be great to have someone to dance with at the dance and like be able to talk to openly. Idk what to do!
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Hey , everyone was born differnt we all how diffrent gifts and abalities! Sometimes u jus have to learn that every guy you like wont like you! and for the most of it it aint a bad thing, everyone has a special someone out there and you will meet him one day maybe not today or tommrow but one day and when u do u will be soo happy that it wont matter if no one in tha world liks you youll jus be happy to be with him and while your waitin for that special somoene if u would like more guys to like you try being more outgoing make new freinds hang out with the popular cround even try a new hair cut or see whut tha popular ppl are wearing and tryin wearing some of there cloths tryin a new look! well girl i wish u luck hope mi advice worked!
Blayre
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Hey im 12 and i have a huge problem there is this guy i was liek in love with ! but he brooke up with me and so iwent out with this other guy idk why i jus did and now the other guy wants me back so whut do i do ? (link)
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Hey All i can say is if u loved that guy no matter whut happens you will always love him! ok ill put it this way its liek a puppy dog say u have this dog and u falll in love with it but then it runs away so u get a new dog and u liek it to but no matter whut nothin compares to the old dog but u have this new dog and u jus cant thorw it away so grow to love the new dog and trust me ull never for get the old one but at tha same time ull love the new and thre is always a chance that the old will be back !
Hope i helped
Blayre
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