Hello everyone! My name is Lisa, I'm 15. I'm a freshman and I go to public school. I love to sing, read, watch tv, and I'm a big fan of Harry Potter. Most of my freinds come to me for advice because they know that they can depend on me and just because I am young does not mean I cant answer questions from older people who seek advice so please ask away!
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Im really skinny and it's hard to find clothes that fit me that I like. People always say I look really skinny but I eat so much and I still look the same. Is there any way I can gain more weight? (link)
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Dear Too Skinny,
Wow, me and you both have the same problem. I eat so much and eat and eat and eat and gain abosolotly no weight and cant EVER and I mean EVER find anything in my size. But think of it this way, there are girls out there that would KILL and I really mean that, to look as skinny as we do. Enjoy it while it lasts because chances are when we get older, our motabalizim wont be as fast anymore. If you eat healthy, like veggies and meat and whatnot then gradually over time you will gain weight in all the right places and we'll both look good :) (and find things in our sizes!) Let me know how things work out. Good luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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okay what would you think about this...there is this guy i like and me and my friend like stare at him alot and stuffand at lunch we sit in the same place every day so we can look at him. well every time we are not in that place him and his friends are all lookin arouind for somethin and when he see's us he nudges his friends and points then they start talkin. thesame thing with the bus. he is the bus right besides mine and when i'm not in my usually seat he uis all lookin for me and when he finds me he just stares. i don't what to think..what do u think
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Dear Reader,
First off, at least he notices you. Secondly, I seriously suggest you and your freinds stop staring at him. No matter how cute he is, or fine, or whatever. It's creepy to be quite honest with you. It's cute the first two times but after that it gets to be a bit stalkerish. And instead of admiring from afar, why not just go and say hi? Seriously, if he starts pointing and then turns away to talk, it either means
a) hes talking about you, in the bad way, like 'why is she staring at me? she's a physo-stalker'
(not saying that you are)
or
b) that he possibly likes you too and that he thinks your cute
BUT YOU'LL NEVER KNOW IF YOU DONT TALK TO HIM! Get a move on before someone else spots him! Let me know how things work out! Good luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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What is the best way to ask a guy that you REALLY like out? I'm really nervous about him saying no and ruining our friendship. I'm also a lil scared that he'll go telling all his buds and then say no. I've never had a bf and i've never asked a boy out...Should i get one of my friends to ask him if he likes me or if he would ever consider me as a gf or more than just a friend??? We like to talk to each other and stuff like that. And everytime someone mentions that he might like me or he does like me he usualy smiles and turns real red. sooo idk how to ask him out!!! PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Dear Reader,
I really would suggest that you ask him out instead of a friend, because a freind tells the guy that you're too scared to do it on your own and that's not exctally a good thing when it comes down to boyfreinds. If you're friendship is really that good and that strong, and if he says no, the freindship shouldn't change. And most definitly do not, I retype, DO NOT feel awkward. Men are like dogs, the second they sense that you're awkward, they will start being awkward too. And as for his "buds", really, if he goes telling all of them that, that comes off to me as some what of a jerk and really, I dont think that it would happen, but then again, I dont know him. I really hope I helped through my mumbo-jumbo. Please let me know how things turned out! Good luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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when i was little about the age of like i dno really young i used to see ppl on t.v. and my mom shaving there legs so... i went a head and did itbefor and th ought it was boring so i didnt anymore :P i now have long leg hair and im just really hairy :P well like you know what i mean but yeah what can i do about this so it wont grow back longer cause .. i feel unatractive when this happens (link)
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Dear Question-ee,
You're not alone. I did the same thing when I was like... 8 or so. But the key is not to shave. And I know that sounds disgusting but think of it this way, the more you shave, the faster your leg hair grows back. Right? So don't shave. OR since it's winter and its cold, (depending on where you live) it shouldnt matter as much anymore since its long pants and shirts now. So I'd suggest not shaving, or shave but like, only once or twice a week. Let me know how it turns out. Good luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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Ohkay here's the deal; I go out with this cute guy that I like, sorta. But then I like this other guy, like I think sorta. And I wanna break up with my boyfriend, but I don't wanna be single. I think that the other guy I like, likes me too. But I'm not sure. How can I see if he likes me too? And also, yeah, the guy I go out with is shorter then me, and he has blonde hair and green eyes and is verry sweet to me. But the other guy I like is sweet, and nice, and funny, and I like to be around him cuz he's cool.
-Confused Crushed Child. (link)
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Well, it looks like to me when I first read the question, you're dating the current guy because he's cute. Imagine if he wasnt cute, and that he was the ugliest thing you've ever seen and that his personality is still the same. Would you still go out with him? And this second guy you like, if you really want to go out with him instead, make sure he likes you FIRST. Thats number one, number two. Make sure if you decide to dump the guy that your with now for the new guy, that it's not a regret and that you wont feel guilty about it. But anyways, let me know how it turns out! Good Luck!
Sincerly,
Lisa xox
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