..Hi i'm Kelsey Larson..
Hayy.. life can bring a whole bunch of un-expected problems nd` shit and sumtimes we just need someone to talk to and listen. I`m always open to talk to and i give advice. IM me at X kare 69 bare X or n3ver Endiinq x3 if you want know more about me.. i love you brian!!
people call me--> Kelsey, Kels, K lar?
breathing for--> 14 yearzs
i cry through--> Blue Eyes
seeing the world at--> 5'6!
crazy in love with--> Brian!
lookin cute with--> dirty blonde hair
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Member Since: August 14, 2004
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I'm 12 and I really want to get fingered! What should I do? (link)
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i think ur a little young for that, but if ya really want to just find a guy that would do that i guess.
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I have grown up with this boy because my dad went to highschool with his dad. So of course, we were close growning up. Well, now that we are both getting older, he has matured and has become very attractive. I mean I have known him my whole life and recently even when I am near him I don't know what to say and I can't stop staring at him. He is so cute and funny and I like everything about him. I really want to take whatever we have to the next level like going to the movies and kiss and stuff but I don't have the guts to tell him and I just don't even know how. I am crazy about him and I am just so messed up inside. And I also think that I don't have a chance because he just started high school and I am finishing my last year at Middle School and I am very body concious and I don't think he could ever like me that way. So that is another reason why I am really scared to take a chance. So I really need some advice, and some courage. Please help me out. (link)
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hay hun.
NEVER EVER be scared to take a chance!! there are so many chances ur guna have to take in life and dont ever be afraid to take them. If you are crazy about this boy then you need to tell him, or get a friend to tell him, or write him a note or somthing. i know how you feel. i was hella nervous, too. NEVER feel "body concious." if he doesnt like you for you, then hes not worth your time and/or love. You DO have a chance with him! just get out there and be confident and tell him how you feel inside! *i hope i helped*
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I have a problem, I have this friend and shes mad at me. I think shes mad because one of her friends was going out with this guy, and he broke up with her, and started to like me. What should I do? (link)
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well if your not sure why shes mad, find out. and if that is the reason, dont go out with him. its not a good idia to go out with friend's ex's. then explain to her that you didnt go out with him besause you care for her.
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ok i do not like the boy that will make me "popular" becouse he does not like me that much any more. and the 15 year old boy is still hot but he has a girl and i dont care about him alot any more..........and i am going back out with my ex from skool and his name is r.j and i love him alot... and i also like my friends cuz and i want him back and he likes me but when we did go out i wrote him a letter saying that i wanted to fuck and his mom read it and than his mom got all mad and than we had to break up couse of what i said and now he wants me back even if his mom says no......and i want to stay with r.j but i do not want to be with both and i dont know what to do...???...!!!! can u help??
I LIKE HOW U HELP PEOPLE!!! LOVE YA LOTS!!! (link)
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hey sweetie.
it is all about what *you* want!! if you want to be with r.j, and he wants to be with you., go for it!! then you need to forget about all of the other guys! just think.. they are nuthin compared to r.j.. and if the other guys mom doesnt want him goin out with you.. then that wudnt be very good. ~- i hope i helped! -~
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If a guy rele rele rele wants a bj but he wants good relationship with this girl he likes, but she isnt exactly the type of girl u get one from, wat does he do? (link)
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respect her and how far she wants to go. DONT CHEAT ON HER!! espesially if you want a good relationship! if she doesnt want to.. thats fine! wait a while ((like a couple month)) and if you get any closer ask her again. but dont beg. or you might get dumped! *hope i helped*
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im 13 and im a female.i started to like this guy and he started to like me and we started to like kiss n stuff and like eachother more then we started talking and like he asked me some gross things and told me about some things he is done which i dont think r good and that he liked me for the wrong reasons and so i kinda stoped liking him and i was talking to this other guy and he said he liked me and he was the 1 i started to like and i dont no what to do and how to break things off with the first guy im so stuck and confused! please help! (link)
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if the guy likes you for the wrong reasons then there is really no point in being with him.. soo just tell him that things arent working out, and then go out with the other guy ((if he likes you for the right reasons))
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last school year i was really crushing on this guy.. and then we finally went out and i loved him.. like A LOT.. and we went out for about 6 months.. and this other guy came along and i dumped him for the other guy. :-( idk what i was thinking.. i totally regret it now bcuz the other guy just dumped me after like a month.. i still love my ex so much.. but i think i really hurt him and i wanna get back together but i dont know what he would say.. do you think i should just move on? or will i have a chance with him again.. (link)
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i think you should explain to him that it was a mistake and ask for his forgivness. if he hates you for it or doesnt like you anymore.. then i think you should move on.
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i've been going out with this guy for about 2 monthes on and off...the last time i broke up wit him cuz he didnt have me n his pro and wasnt talking to me..but it was a miss understanding and then a couple days after that my friend called him up sayin i was sry and i even told him that i still loved him n that i was sry to him online but he wouldnt talk back to me. the nite we broke up he imed me saying "i hate u dont **** talk to me again." but then he said he was sry for that...he then asked me wen we started talkin if i would be mad if he went out w\ this girl and i said ya but he could cuz he should go out wit who he wants...he said he still loved me and then he said he would go out w\ me in 2 weeks (i luv him enuff to say ok) 2 weeks came up n he didnt do nuttin...then this weekend i called him and he said he still really loved me a lot n that he would go back out with me after he broke up wit his g\f and this week he didnt...and on his profile is all this stuff " i love olivia" (his g\f) and he wont talk to me (link)
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get ur mind off him. if he does that to you then hes not worth it. you shudnt make urself so open. if you guys keep breaking up and getting back together on and off you know the relationship isnt working out! *hope i helped*
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Hi kelsey, I'm 20 and I think your advice isn't worth shit, I mean hello your only like what? 12? I have managed to get degree in counciling and have a batchlars' degree in personal and relationship conflicks. I feel very sorry for the kids who have to depend on what you think is right for them. I have heard many things about you, and have found out that you infact have such a fucked over life, that your parents don't even care about you and that you live in such a poor house. Along with that comes a very bad reputation of drugs, sex and alcohol. I feel very poorly for those again who are asking advice from a 12 year old, 6th grader who is considered a slut. Along with that comes a loss of friends. Sure you have maybe one or two friends, but lets be honest the only reason you have them is because you get guys,and that's because you are so easy that you would have sexual intercourse with a nerd. It seems like your like the neihborhood bike, everyone's gotten a ride.
SO I GUESS MY REAL QUESTION IS: WHY THE HELL ARE YOU MAKING AN ADVICE WEBPAGE when YOUR LIFE IS SO fUCKED OVER YOU CAN'T eveN HELP YOURSELF?! (link)
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im 13, and in 8th grade. the hole point of an advice colomn is people like looking at other peoples perspectives. they dont have to depend on me!!
what goes on in my life has nothing to do with you! the shit you hear is rumers. im not a slut. and yes i can deal with my own life!
you dont know me. so get ur facts strait before you go and hate. Yea maybe my life isnt the best.. but theres no sex or drugs!!
SO I GUESS MY ANSWER IS:: fuck you. you dont know me. and yes i can help myself! thank you.
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so theres this guy that I havent talked to in about 5 or 6 months, and then he just calls me outta the blue one day saying that hes sorry for everything he did to hurt me and all that stuff.I accepted his apology and then we're friends again. I've hung out with him a couple of times already, but he was acting really immature. I told him to stop saying the stuff he did around me cuz it made me uncomfortable. And now we're in a "fight" again. I really wanna make things better cuz I kinda like him. What should I do? (link)
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if you didnt talk to him in 5 or 6 months and he just calls you randomly.. you know he wants sumthing!! and if you feel uncomfortable then dont be around him. if you have a gut feeling about him ((thats bad)) then go with your heart! if you want to make things better with him then call him and appologize. it might be his fault, but still! guys like it when there right about everything! so just go with that gut feeling!
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hey....well i do like this boy and 2 other boys and one is 15 and he is really hot and i would love to go with him but i dont kno what to say to him?.....and the one i still love wich is my ex i kinda like him but not really.....and this other boy i like he is sooo cute and i want him to....and i dont want to be whith all 3 i mean the 15 year old boy i see every day and he tould one of my friends that he would go with me but i am to young i mean i am only 13 and that is not to far from 15 and the other boy i like i never get to see him and he would make me popular in skool and my ex he is like fat but i still like him and every one says eww about me and him?!!......... what should i do ? who should i be with ? what should i say? (link)
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If you don't want to go out with them all then just pick one and forget about the others! And also, don't go out with a guy because he will make you "popular" .. and don't listen to your friends if they make fun of the person you like! Real friends wouldn't do that! Well it seems like you like them all.. so go out with the guy that likes you back. Forget about the others. After you pick one get to know him.. Hang out with a bunch of people and invite him. Just do whatever you feel comforable doing. *I Hope I Helped*
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Im in 7th grade, at Pontiac Jounior High and im having problems--My figure is my heads oval, Im REALLY skinny, im fit, i have green eyes blonde hair and im a white person. I need to noe wat to were to school (not uniforms) OO yeah im noot tall and not short so i guess im average. Im not ugly im really pretty, but iono wat to were my make up, jewlery, my hair. If u could please help me...i need ur help!!
*Baffled Beauty* (link)
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wow ur a cocky little shit. make ur own clothes!
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look...i haven't had the best of life and i just want to know how am i supposed to get my life back on track i was but now im starting to fuck off a bit agian and im gonna be going t school pretty soon and i want to at least make it through high skool and ill be happy but as far as i know thats not even going to happen...ive done so much shit it like a habit but i stoppe dbut now i think im gonna or i think i am already starting to do it agian... its like some one else is taking over me... i need help and i cant tell my parents becuz of some reasons... it would probably help if i told you wat ive done but im kinda ashamed of it all but yet i don't wanna stop but i do.... its just comfusing...ill just go now ... someone please help me... (link)
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im sorry. i havent had the best life either.. and its a bitch keeping it all away from your parents. everyone is ashamed of shit they've done in the past.. Just dont make anything a habbit. If possible, make school you first priority. And think really hard and long about what you want in life and how ur guna get to it if u keep doin all the shit u did.. I know its hella hard to stop -- but if you want to make it through high skool ur guna have to! i really hope i helped! if you need anything else IM me @ // Xkare69bareX // *rate me*
.x0x.---> KeLs..
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hey i like this boy and he likes me but i dont kno if i should go with him?and i like this other boy and 1 more and i just dont kno wich one to go with??? (link)
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umm...pick the one you like the most. or you could go out with all of them if you want¿ i think you should go out with the one that likes you.. and just forget about the other two.
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I have been with my current boyfriend for quite a while, and I love him greatly, but I have begun to realize that I still have feelings for an ex that I had a while back. He was probably the first person I truly cared about, but then he ended it. I don't understand why after all of this time I am realising that I'm not really over him, and I don't know what I'm supposed to do about it. I feel guilty having these feelings and at the same time they hurt. Anyone know what I can do? (link)
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there is such thing as loving two people. I know you probably only want to love one, but your heart doesnt. Just think about it long and hard..who do you like more? and if you want you could date them both. But just realize that it wud be hurtful to them. Just follow your heart on everything! even though its on ur left, its always right!! GoOd LuCk!!
Xo Kelsey oX
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Well i still really like my ex and i dont know if he still likes me but my best friend that i have known for 8 years likes him too. And i really dont want her to go out with him because i wanna go back out with him.But the bad thing is that i dont know if he wants to go back out with me so what should i do? (link)
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talk to him.. find out if he likes you or not. then talk to your friend. explain to her nicly that you know him better & like him alot.
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well i really like this guy,and hes really cute and so sweet to me which makes me like him even more!! and lately weve been talking on the phone a lot and weve become better friends and we seemed like we were kinda making a connection so i told him how i felt...
and he was like well,i really like you too but i also like this other girl,but if things dont work out with me and the other girl me and you could definately get together!
...do you think im just his backup?? (link)
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yes. in my opinion i think you are. But he still said if they dont get together u two can go out. Which means he DOES like you. He just knows the other girl better & likes her a lil bit more. But who knows, spend time with him ((other than on the fone)) and maybe things will change!
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y do gurls where makeup? (link)
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sOo many girls are very un-confident about the way they look. we think that make-up makes us beautiful so we are more confident in ourselves. Believe it or not.. it does change the way alot of people look!! Sum guys wear make-up 2! haha..
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So, My really good friend just commited suicide and I really wanna read up on reancarnation. Does anyone know any really good books about that? (link)
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Oh im srry. i think reancarnation is sum type of Budist or Hindu thing? sum anciant shit -- but it is worth a try. if you cant find anything @ a library then do a web search..
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Ok today at school , I met this really hot guy and I was wearing a tank top and a pair of light pair of jeans when I bumped into him and he looked at me and said sorry but before he finished his sentence he looked down my shirt and saw everything , he blush and just asked me out.!! Dose he really like me or what???
Help!! (link)
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aww! i highly doubt that he likes you for you! i think he likes ur boobs! im mean c'mon!! uve never spoken to him & he looks down ur shirt & asks u out.. i think he wants action! just get 2 know him..
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