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Hey!I'm Kendall, i go by Kenda, and I'm 15 years old. I love to hang out with my friends, party, go shopping, read, & write. School isnt really challenging to me, so I really don't try all that much & still get all a's. I like to do alot of wild & crazy things because, hey, you only live once so why not try it? I don't spend too much time with my family, so I'm not quite good at answering 'how do i apologise to my parents?' questions, but I can help you with family problems. Ask me anything x3333

Im a sophomore this year at NCHS so i've delt with tons of problems over the past few years. I love to give advice to anyone and i hope i do a good job at it too. You dont have to put your name on the message if you dont want. Ask me anything, so dont be shy or nervous! :D I respond pretty fast to questions!

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advice

How can i make my ex like me again, they told me they loved me once and now they basically ignore me. What can i do?

Just try flirting with them and putting on some charm!;) Or even try to make them jelous by talking about some major hottie around them! That'll maybe want them to want you back! hope that helped! xoxo

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well my girlfriend just dumped me cuz she thinks i like her sister but i dont...and i when i was with her...my girlfriend got mad at me and i wanted to hang out with her sister cuz i hadnt seen her all summer and so yeah she dumped me and now im sad...wut should i do?
u no who
lol

Just tell your girlfriend (well now ex sorta) that you just wanted to HANG OUT with her..nothing more! If she doesnt believe you then obviously she doesnt trust you and trust is the more important key in a relationship. Although girls DO get jelous when there guy hangs out with another girl...but she'll have to get over it if she wants to be with you because you're ALLOWED to have friends that are girls! Tell me if that helped! xoxo

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Hey!
I talked to my boyfriend on the phone about 2 nights ago and when he ended the conversation he said " I"ll call you tomorrow because there probly wont be anything else to do." This really upset me...I don't think he cares about me as much as he used to and he doesnt make time to see me...what do you think?
~confused in love~

Awww im sry hun but he sounds like one of those bum boyfriends! Those suck major ass! Maybe he's not the right guy if he ends a friggin phone convo like that and doesnt make time for ya anymore! If you do break up with him or he breaks up with you, i know its gonna be sooo hard! Cuz if you loved this guy then it takes months to get over him because that's just how love is..trust me! Hope that helped! tell me how it turns out! xoxo

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i made the biggest mistake i broke up with my boyfriend when iwas really mad at him and now i could die!!! But then he went and told me my sister would be a better girlfriend and that he was gonne dump me anyways im jsut so sad what should i do??

*really sad and confused*

He was obviously lieing about him dumping you anyways, he just wanted to make it seem like he was better than you. He probably only said your sister would be a better girlfriend because he was jelous of you breaking up with him so he wanted to make you angry. Hun if you really love him then take some time from him for a bit to let things cool off, dont try to fix things right away it'll mess it up even more! Tell me if things work out!! xoxo

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i really like this guy but im not sure if he knows i like him more than a friend how do i show him this?

Just flirt with him and put on some charm! That should do it! Or compliment him! He'll get the hint;) But dont tease him because that could hurt his ego!lol!

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umm well i said my questions about sex but its kind of yeh not.... im a young girl entering the seventh grade and i saw your picture it is soooo pretty how can i be as beautiful as you, cuz man r u pretty,please tell me:)

Awwwww thx!! I dont think im very pretty but thx anywayz hun! Well i use makeup like maybelliene mascara, NYC black eyeliner, NYC mocha lip gloss, and foundation stuff. If you wanna be pretty just have your mom take you shoppin at Hollister, A&E, Gadzooks, or PacSun and get yourself a new wardrobe if ya want a new look!=D Dont put too much makeup on or it'll really turn guys off! hehe i know who this questions from! XD thx!

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Whers good places to shop at for jeans and tshirts with pictures on them?

Well i shop at Hollister, A&E, Gadzooks, PacSun, A&F, and Rave. For jeans A&E and A&F have some good ones. For t-shirts with pictures on them try, Hollister, Gadzooks, and Pacsun.

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Where do u by your MakeUp at? What store? What products?

At Walmart and Target, at Walmart i buy may maybelline products, and at Target i buy NYC.

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my friend and I were really close, but lately, she has been being distant. sometimes, she is really mean to me, but then other times, it's as if were are still as good of friends as we were before. I feel like I am on a emotional roller coaster or something! should i just forget about her?

*trippin sista*

You should really talk to her. Even if she denys ever being mean to you, just let her hear you out for once so she can see what she's been doing to you. If she still ignores you then maybe she's not really a person that you wanna be friends with, you want friends that are always there for you. But try to work things out between her even if she doesnt wanna talk to you about it. Have a friend maybe talk to her to see how she feels about you.

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Well my boyfriend has been saying shit about my sister behing my back and her back. Then he told me that someone else said it, and i talked to the person about it and got all mad and the person was like why dont you talk to chad about it because he is the one who said it! because the person he said said it didnt know anything about my sister and i know this for a fact, and the things he said the person said he knew, but the other person didnt! so i dont know what to do im kinda confused!

*super confused*

Talk to your boyfriend and ask him if he's TRULLY been the one talkin shit about your fam behind your back. If he lies and says its not him then just threaten him with "well w/e were done" and then see if he confesses. Tell him that the person he claims said it knows nuthin about you sis. Ask him if he has a problem with your sis and if he does then talk to him about it. If he still doesnt admit he said it maybe hes not the right guy cuz if my guy talked shit behind my fam's back..i'd dump him. Have a friend maybe talk to him or sumthen and make him understand that what he's doin is fricken wrong and needs to tell you the truth, cuz the person he claims said it literally told you he was the one who said it. So ya got enough proof right there!

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How do u stop thinkin about a guy u really like and u know u have to stop ?!! help please!

Just find another guy that you find attractive and try to be good friends with him. Maybe you two will turn into more and then you'll forget about that other guy you liked!

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alright i really like this guy but he is going out with this girl that i know and i cant break them up cause then a certain person would really hate me! and he says he likes me but he doesnt want to break up with this girl cause they have been together for like ever!!!!!!!!!! and i dont know what to do! pleasee help me!

*confused majorly*



**o yea and i like how u play tipsy on here**

Hmm.. i think the best thing for you to do is wait. Don't try and break them up because you could lose someone's friendship. If he really likes ya then he'll breakup up with the other girl really soon and probably ask you out since he has feelings for ya. I don't think he should stay with her if he likes you, it doesnt really even matter that they've been together for a long time, relationships are about feelings towards eachother not to see how long someone can last..he needs to realize that.

Hope that helped!=D,
.:kendall:.

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whats the song thats playing in ur column?

Tipsy by J Kwon

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Hey*
I am not sure... I really dont think he is using me... but yet I might be wrong... I just saw him a couple of minutes ago and I asked him why he tells his and my friends that he loves me and not me... and he didnt answer me. My friend Courtney told me that maybe he is just scared of being rejected. I dont know. I really lyk him... but I dont know. I am not going to have sex with him. What about yOu did yOu have sex with ur ex??? Thanks*

.:* MaGiClYdeLisH88 *:.

Yeah he could be scared of rejection and probably is. Most guys are, i think thats what my ex was afraid to tell me. But if ya really like him and he really likes you, then maybe you two should go out. So yeah he probably is scared of rejection so he's probably not useing you after all! Nope i never had sex with my ex, i never even got close to him at all (never kissed at all!lol) But i think that it's great that you n him really like eachother!Just talk to him about it more till ya get what ya want to know. I hope it goes well with you 2!

.~'*kendall*'~.

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There's this guy. He is all I would want in a boyfriend. I mean we are not going out but we are always making out and stuff. One day I went over to his house with my friend and her boyfriend and she decided to have sex with her boyfriend. Me and this guy were making out and he asked me if I wanted to do it with him. He told me that we didnt have to but still its if you want to. Do you think he is just using me or do you think he cares about me? He is always telling everyone he loves me but he never tells me... wierd huh? What do you think?

Umm..im sry to break it to ya but i think he's using you. But i could be wrong. If he doesnt tell you he loves you then thats a sign he is, and another sign is if u two arent goin out and he wants you to have sex. What's the point if you're not together? But on the other hand if he isnt useing you then he sure has an odd way of showing you he loves you. If he really does love you he'd tell YOU first, not his friends. My ex-boyfriend used to do that..untill i found out he was a complete jerk. But the sign that really confuses me is that he's not pressureing you to do it. So maybe he is usein you..but then again he might not be usein you. Just check for more signs before you decide to actually decide to have sex with him if you want to.

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ok well my boyfriend is always doing something with other girls and like never does anything me. I know they are just friends but like he is a flirt and everything and like all his friends that are girls usually like him and like it makes me jealous and like i know they are his friends and all but like it gets annoying sometimse because some of the time when i ask him who he goes with he wont tell me so i nkow it is a group of girls. And like he goes with a big or small group of girls and he is the ONLY GUY, which makes me a little nervous, i know i should trust him but its hard in a situation like this. well i just dont know what to do.

Okay, well if this guy is hangin around ONLY girls then maybe somethings goin on..Or i could probably be wrong. But it's normal for guys to have girls as friends. yeah most girls are nervous too when their boyfriend is around other girls. But you should trust him though. If he asked you out and really loves you, then he wont be doin anything behind your back with those girls. I know its hard to trust him, but try to because he might get a little mad if you dont (it sets off anger when guys think girls dont trust them) Talk to him about this, and tell him you wanna know sometimes who he's goin with cuz ur his girlfriend and you just wanna know. If he doesnt tell you..then maybe something else is goin on between them..it all depends on if he tells you or not! Hope that helped

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ok i really like this one guy..but hes like a brother to me..and i dont know what to do we barely no eachother though..but i really wanna go out with him cause he wouldnt ever use me..and hes cute and funny! idk what to do

confused:/

Well if you really like him..Ask him out! But on the other hand, if you do ask him out and he says no..its only cuz he wants to your friendship. If he does say no then things could become like silent between you guys because of it. But if you really feel like he'll say yes then i think you should ask him out cuz he's obviously what you're really looking for!

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yeah well i like this guy... but i really really really like him a hole bunch!!! and he used 2 like me but im not quite sure if he likes me and right now he is go'n out w/ 1 of my friends but she wants 2 break up w/ him and i know i shouldn't have but i told him that she did cuz right now (b-sides the fact that i like him so much!!) he is 1 of my best friends in the whole wide world and i couldn't not tell him and like we have known each other 4 like ever but i just love him so much! and i wanna b w/ him!!! help!
~Crazy'n'love~ haha!

I think that you should talk to him about likeing him. Cuz that way he'll know ahead of time why you told him about his girlfriend planning to break up with him. Chances are he might ask you back out if you tell him how you feel. If you dont then he probably will be too shy to confront you about his feelings and then ya wont end up goin out. If you're friend is gonna break up with him then i dont think she'll be mad at all so..umm..go for it!lol. He probably likes you though, but if he doesnt..staying friendz is always good!

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hahaha!
well yeah kendall-in i heart u!!! hahaha! happy b-day 2 u!! hehehehe webster hearts u and misses u!!! bunches of oats!!! hahahaha!!well yeah blah blah happy b-day 2 kendall-in!! hahahaha
luv ya bunches of oats!! < love it!! hahaha
~Jillian!!!haha!~

Haha!! Thanx bunches of oats Jillian!! I heart ya too! My b-day sux soo bad right now! But oh well cuz..umm..Just cuz! Ha lyl!

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HEY!
HAVE A HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I HOPE U HAVE....um....A HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
lol
(i no thats not a question but i just thought i should say it here too!)
lol
chad

Awww thanx! I hope i have one too!! Thanx chadderz!! I hope you..uh..have a happy birthday on my birthday!!haha that made no sense..but lets pretend it did!!=D

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