|
| |
Okay, I'm 17 and a virgin but I've been externally masturbating (rubbing my clit) for a few years.
Ocasionally I'd try penetration with my fingers or something else but I never really got much from it. Lately I've been trying the penetration thing more but I'm not getting ANY pleasure from it.
I can go fast or slow, rub my clit while I'm penetrating..I just get no pleasure what so ever from it.
My question is, is it normal to not feel pleasure from masturbation penetration but still feel pleasure from actual intercourse?
I'm worried that when I start having sex I'm not going to get pleasure from intercourse. (link)
|
Don't worry about it. Sex is much different than masturbation. The excitement alone can bring you halfway towards an orgasm.
Many women, however, cannot climax through penetration, so it's normal. All it takes is practice, though even so, it may not happen.
When you become sexually active, try experimenting more. Different positions may help, look up a few on the internet, or buy a book, anything will help.
Good luck.
|
Oh kay.. lol.
well, im 14/female.
sooo, i lost my virginity to this guy back in march, he was 17 at the time. well, me and him before we had sex had hooked up numerous times, but after we had sex, he like just stoped talking to me.... ! it hurt ause i did give him my virginity and he was a freaking dick about it, but w.e i got over it.
then not so long ago i found out by my friend that he has done that to alot of virgins, hit it and quit it :/
anywaysss. i dont hold grudges, so when he said sorry about a month after we had sex i accepted it.
we talked from time to time very briefly. and then after i while we never talked! and just yesterday he wrote me a message out of no where.
what do you think he wants from me? (:
thanks for tha help.
ohhh, and we only had sex once but he is exstreamlyyy sexy, ahah. if he wants to do it again should i? (link)
|
He's 17, you are 14. I'm not judging the age different here, I'm just saying that people of different ages think differently.
All guys want sex, enjoy sex, and live for sex. It is very possible that your friend just wants you for sex, infact...it's very likely.
Another unlikely possibility might be that he feels bad about what he did, and wants to catch up with you to repair your relationship...which would be a very mature and considerate act for a boy of such a young age. It is very unlikely.
In my opinion, if you want to have sex with him, just do it. Sex can be fun. As long as you don't fall in love with him and expect more in the relationship. Friends with benefits can be fun, but it often ends badly.
You can learn a lot from an older guy with more experience, and hey, it might inhance your sex life in the future. Just DON'T GET EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED.
And please, use a condom.
|
i'm not sure if this is true or not, but to me i see that girls only have TWO holes. but apparently i also hear that girls have THREE HOLES?!
1. butt hole
2. pee hole
3. sex hole??
is that true? if so, where is this "sex hole"? (link)
|
Yes, this is true.
The first hole is the *pee hole* or urethra. It's the smallest hole.
Next is the *sex hole* The sex hole becomes more apparant after a girl loses her virginity and the hymen is broken. Before this, the hole will either be very small, or not visible at all.
The *butt hole* or anus, is the last hole. I'm sure you can identify this one.
|
|
