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Q: 13/m
Hi, i really like this girl but i dont know if she likes me. idk if i shud try to ask her out and maybe get lucky or just wait. but the problem is that i cant wait, i love her to much and i dont think i can keep goin on without her knowing that i like her. So the main part of the question is "how could i tell that she likes me or not, or how shud i ask her out"

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Start with flirting with her. If she flirts back,stares at you, and starts talking to you more than usual, she probably has a crush on you too. If this happens, just ask her out. Girls like it better when you are up front about stuff, so make it in person. She will probably be happy to go out with you.


Q: My friend, Stephanie, called my friend, Ellie, a b*tch behind her back. Ellie asked me if Stephanie called her that and I said "I think so" (it happened weeks ago, so I didn't really remember). Now Ellie's parents did something and Stephanie is in trouble. Stephanie yelled at me and said that it was all my fault. Did I do the right thing by telling Ellie what Stephanie said?
It is fine that you answered your friend Ellie's question with,"I think so." It would have been a lot worse if you answered," Yes! I heard her say it, it was so mean!" It is not all your fault that and Stephanie shouldn't be mad at you, she's the one thats talking about people behind their backs. It would have been worse to lie and pretend that everthing was fine. I think you did the right thing, you were being truthful.

Q: Ok, I was planning for christmas and something hit me. What about my best friends? I have never gotten presents for my friends before because they were never that close but now I have 2-3 ultra best friends and I was thinking maybe to get them something. I dont want to make them think that Ive gone crazy and stuff so I was just thinking wether I should get them stuff or not. Im 13/F and so are 2 of my best friends and ones a guy. Should I get them something? If yes then what, I dont wanna scare them with my sudden want to give them something?
You should definitely give your best friends a little present atleast to show you care for them and want to stay friends. Also, if you're friends show up with a gift for you, it would be very uncomfortable not to have a gift to give back. If you are worried that they might think you are acting weird, just give your best friends something small. You could give your girl friends a necklace or bracelet and you could give your guy friend a cool hat. Don't worry, you're best friends will appreciate you because you thought about them, NOT think you're weird for giving them a present.


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