I'm a honest and considerate person. I've been told I have good values and common sense. I like to help people and will do my best to give you advice without being rude or insulting. If I think you need professional help, I will say so. I think I would be best with the following categories:1.) Marriage and Relationships 2.)Parenting 3.) General advice about life
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Location: Gardena, California
Occupation: Homemaker (at the moment) mother
Age: 36
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Member Since: February 21, 2004
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hello i know someone must be able to answer this the national guard wants my 16 yr old daughter to enlist and they will pay for her college i think it is a good idea for several reasons but my daughter is not in shape will that matter she is 5 ft 4 and 190 she is not athletic or anything is sorta of a girly girl i want to know the down side to the national guard she wants to be a school teacher but i want her to try the guard but i would like to know the down side to the guard thanks
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A schoolteacher is a very honorable profession. In my opinion, teachers don't get enough credit or respect for what they do. I think the national guard is for someone who is tough, athletic, and willing to take orders and live under harsh conditions. Ask yourself "Does this sound like my daughter? " From how you decribed her, I don't think so. If you want some idea, rent the movie "Private Benjamen" starring Goldie Hawn. Ok, she was a "girly girl" whose dad forced her to go to the army, and I think she ended up liking it, but watch it with your daughter, and see if she thinks she would end up "liking it". Keep in mind, this is a movie, and not that realistic, because I think Goldie's character got away with things she shouldn't have, but it was so long ago that I saw it, I don't really remember. But I think it will give you a rough idea of what she has in store for her. Bottom line: Respect your daughter's wishes, and encourage her to be her own person. You will have a much better relationship, and she will be much happier, believe me. Isn't that what any parent wants? No amount of money can buy that. Especially money earned in misery. 'Nuff said
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I like to have sex with my dog, is that normal? (link)
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You need some serious counseling. Get help NOW!
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I'm 13 and I found a dildo in my moms dresser a couple of months ago, since then I've fingered myself every day. Is that normal? (link)
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I think it is normal for you to have curiousity about sex and your body, but I think you should talk to your mother about these feelings instead of using such a personal item of hers without her permision or knowledge. If you don't feel comfortable talking to your mother about this, then you should find a trusted female adult that you can talk to. It might be a good idea to go to your library and find some appropriate books about sexuality that may help answer any questions you may have about the "normalness" of your feelings. Take Care!
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I play basketball and volleyball and i have a blisted on the bottom of my left foot. ANy suggestion on how to get it away...fast? (link)
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Yes, there are bandages on the market now that are supposed to heal blisters. I believe they are made by "Johnson&Johnson". They are called "Blister care". I would first sterilize a needle by putting it under a flame from the stove until the end glows red, then carefully sticking it sideways through the top layer of skin above the blister (don't worry, it won't hurt) and gently draining out the fluid by squeezing. Then, apply the bandage. These are very cusiony and should alieviate any pain while the blister heals. It should heal in a few days, and you may need to repeat there proceedures. I hope this helps. :-)
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