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Hey, I'm kristy/kristina, whatever you wanna call me. My friend sarah started one of these and told me to and it looks fun.
Gender: Female
Location: New York
Age: 16
Member Since: April 27, 2005
Answers: 64
Last Update: May 23, 2005
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omg are you realli pregnent!!! (link)
No, haha


im fat what should i do (link)
First of all, stop saying that about yourself, you're just making yourself feel worse. And if you're that concieous of it then just eat less fat & more healthy.


is ur house big and what does ur room look like..what size are you in abercrombie and american eagle and guess and stuff? (link)
Haha..I don't know if it's big. Probably average, maybe a little bigger. My room was blue but i'm switching with my brother cause he's in college and his is bigger, I guess mine currently is just really messy with posters and pictures over the walls. Abercrombie i'm like a 00 because their pants are weirdly sized number wise, and I don't know about american eagle, or guess. I'm a small or medium pretty much everywhere in shirt size, but stores are weird and size things differently so it's confusing.


you seemed upset in school today---how come??? (link)
Well I was at first cause my mom was just pissing me off this morning, which is typical but it was just bad this morning. So I try and make the best of it, but then some people just really know how to make peoples lifes suck, so that was what happened. Thanks for caring though:)


you are SO pretty! omg and skinny!!! (link)
Aww thank you so much, I'm actually trying to gain some weight though, I need something there you know haha.


this may not sound like a problem but it has been bugging me for a while. my so-called 'best friend' is a real bitch. but no one can really see it but me, everyone thinks she so nice and funny..which she is. but then like she treats me and only me like absolute SHIT sometimes. i try and help her with her problems and she never thanks me but when someone else does she makes a big deal of it and even better when i have a problem she doesnt even seem to care about me at all! plus there was this guy i liked and i introduced them kind of and they start talking and now she likes him and he seems pretty fond of her and i just hate it all, its like she cant read my feelings, or like..doesnt even try to. do u just have any advice on what i should do or maybe say to her, im just really sick of this (link)
That definitely sounds like a problem to me. I used to have a friend like that too, she was really nice on paper to everyone else, but then she would just let everything loose on me. But don't think of it as her treating you like shit, but more as that you're the only person she can just feel comfortable and herself around. I know it sucks and everything but maybe you just have to tell her how you feel, she should definitely understand if she's a true friend, and it's big that you don't feel like she's there for you, so tell her that too cause you always need someone to talk to. The boy situation always sucks. Because boys can always tend to sneak into friendships and tear them apart obliviously. If she knows you like him, which i doubt, then she's being really unfair. But it sounds like she doesn't or maybe she just doesn't want to think about it that way. Do not get boys come in between you guys though. I relate to everything you told me and it sucks, I know. Write back if I didn't cover everything. :)


i just started to cut myself and i dont get whats so wrong with it and how it turns into an addiction, its not so bad (link)
I cut myself awhile ago, I did it twice and then I realized i'm alot more mature than that. I mean think about it, you're like resorting to the lowest thing you could possibly do to yourself besides suicide. I know how you feel though about doing it, cause i was there and the only reason I stopped was because of that. I didn't do it long enough to become addicted and it seems like you haven't either but if you continue to it will become an addiction. So I would stop if I were you, if you wanna talk more you can IM me cause I can tell you more then. I hope I helped!


i think u shood dye ur hair black that wood look so awsome on u!! (link)
Haha thanks! I was considering that earlier this year mainly because I was getting sick of the "blonde" thing. But then I really started to think about it and it didn't sound too bad. Maybe i'll do semi perminent or something, see how it looks. But thanks:)


have u ever givin a hand job? what u do?
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Yeah...IM me


i have been going out w/ this kid for probly like 7ish months and he wants to have sex, i want to but im scared, does it hurt? im so afraid im gonna do it wrong or somethin b/c its my first time but not his so he knows what hes doing and im just afraid im gonna suck and especially the head part and should i shave? im so nervous like what if i should bad and i cant orgasm? wow i just have no idea what im doing help!!!! (link)
I guess it hurts the first time cause you're not used to it, but it's so hard to explain the feeling, it's painful but you know..it's pleasure. Haha yeah, and don't worry about doing soemthing wrong it's kind of hard to, you just need to go with it you'll get it once you start. Head is easy as long as you're doing something they'll like it, I can't explain that either. Guys like it when you shave, atleast do some. Um.. don't worry you will. IM me and I can explain it better cause i'm not doing it over this.


this is random..im from ohio, no idea how i got your screen name but you've been on my buddy list...lol..and i was just wondering like about your love life..how far have you gotten and stuff and can you IM me sometime if i give you my screen name? lol (link)
My love life isn't too exciting at the moment. Actually in general it never really is. I guess there's just no guys who really do anything out of the ordinary to make something special. I've had sex before, eh nothing to interesting here, sorry. Sure IM me sometime.


i no this makes you look nice and everything but in school you are a bitch to some people, so answer honestly do you hate any one if not then why are you a bitch to people that arent your friends? (link)
I think everyone has to hate some people, and yes I do. I'm not a bitch to people? If i've been a bitch to you it's because I don't know you or sometimes I get like that when i'm having a bad day. But it really doesn't matter if people aren't my friends. Thanks for informing me though, I don't mean to come off that way though.


i was just wondering are u goin' out with matt and whos steve? u always have so many guys l0l (link)
No, matt and I are good friends though. Steve is a kid i met in north carolina over spring break. I like 'em both kind of haha, if that's along the lines of what you're asking


are u a virgin (link)
That's a personal question


sorry if i sound completely gay but my boyfriend is into that whole punk rock music stuff and i just lay low on music, im not a big fan and hes always playing his guitar and asking what song it is and i can never tell and i feel like such a fag. he likes the kind of music you do thats why im asking should i download some or i dont know i just dont want him to think were not right bc of the music piece (link)
Yeah you're talking about emo music, a lot of guys are into that. All i can say is be yourself if you're not into music at all then don't try to be, it's cute that you're doing that for him but i don't think it will break you guys up. Especially if you've been together for awhile then i'm sure he just loves you for who you are.


don't think i'm a bitch i normally wouldn't do this it was so random and it's hard to stop you know. but it was at McQ and i'm sure he's cheated on me too. ok i agree that i should tell him before it gets out from other people, but do you know how i should bring it up? i'm really nervous (link)
I'm not saying you're a bitch you just made a mistake. You definitely do need to tell the truth though, whether or not it comes with a breakup. But he'll have more of a chance of forgiving you the sooner it is. I'd just be completely honest, and the best thing to do is not make a big deal out of it when you're telling him cause that then convinces him that it wasn't that big of a deal, if you know what i'm saying.


Hi..few questions. 1- have you seen zoolander? it's relaly funny haha 2- do you know teddy geiger? 3- do you use self tanner? your pretty tan and im not lol, i just wanna know your recomendations. 4- what stores do you shop at you have good style. Last one 5- favorite bands? are you going to warp? xOx * (link)
Haha i like how you numbered them. I guess i will too.
1. yes i have, i agree, it's an amazing movie
2. i don't know him personally but one of my friends did, and i regret not meeting him now
3. i just came back from north carolina so maybe that's why i look darker, no i don't use that it doesn't work for me it turns out orange. if i was going to recommend i'd go for soleil expert sun care according to my friends, it turned out good
4. mostly charlotte russe and wet seal but i have most of my clothes from abercrombie and hollister
5. i have a million. underoath, silverstein, taking back sunday, matchbook romance, my chemical romance, pretty much everyone going to warped tour. And yes i'm going


I went to a dance last night and i wore regular dance clothes, you know. But the thing is i have a boyfriend and it's normal to dance with guys and everything like i did but i started making out with these two guys and there were girls there that hate me and i'm really afriad they're going to tell my boyfriend and then he'll break up with me. I don't really call it cheating though cause it's not like i know them or anything and i was just trying to have a good time but it would suck if he broke up with me cause he told me before not to dance with any guys (let alone make out with them) and just with my friends but what does he expect? (link)
You've obviously never been cheated on, because you don't know how much it hurts. If he's your boyfriend then you show commitment to him and you don't do that to people you're committed to. I would tell tell him the truth because it's better coming from you then from other girls. I think you should stop worrying about him breaking up with you and consider how he'd feel. How would you feel?

What dance was it, just wondering. Write back if you want


your hott (link)
Thank You


i dont no what to say really but i like this one guy alot hes 2 years older then me but i think he likes me cuz he says hi in hall alot and like 3 weeks ago he asked for my number but then his friend distracted him or soemthing so i never got it to him so i dont no if hes interestd or not but i dont no what to do cuz if i dont do nething then nothin is gonna happen but i hate making first moves, any advice? (link)
hey, i think the best idea is to just talk to him and try and be friends he'll most likely ask for your number again. if he showed interest in you once he obviously still has some




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