about

I am an easy person to get along with. I also enjoy giving advice, and I am pretty good at it. I tend to have a bit of a gift for giving advice. So if you need help then feel free to ask..The one thing about me though is i will not "sugar coat" anything if you want to know then you need to accept whatever answer I may give you. Hmmmm..some things you may want to know about me?
-I'm 17 years old,female. No, because of the obvious reasons..I will not release my name, or my state I live in.
-I absolutely love little kids, and animals.
-I am in a really serious relationship
-I have had a lot of experiences and I am very wide ranged..for advice giving I mean. I have had a tough past, and can answer alot.
Thanks for listening

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What excatly is an orgasm?

a reaction your body has to any high amount of sexual arousing and males and females can both get them

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please look at her eyes .
do you know what i can do to have small eyes like dat? like really small cute eyes like all you can see is black lol thanx

umm sorry to say..but you cant change your eye shape..they are kinda born that way??????????

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Im 16/F and ive never been kissed. I'm not a loser..i have a lot of guy and girl friends but i just have never made out with anyone. Is this bad?

No it does not make you a loser. But it might not hurt to try and settle down and find a guy. Then at your own pace you two can kiss, then makeout. Just only if you want to. It just seems like you do..you know cause you asked us the question.

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Hey everybody this might sound weird, but i think i might be bisexual. but im not sure.. like i like guys and im alwasy like ohh hes hot.. but sometimes i feel slighty attracted to girls.. help??

I use to be bisexual until I fell in love very deep with my current boyfriend. But hey don't worry a lot of guys find it really hott for two girls to be making out, and dating. So if you are bisexual then dont hide it, be proud. But make sure you dont use it to gain attention, and also be sure to tell your boyfriend if you have one. But anyhow..you may not be bi some people go through stages, or others are like me..they were and then they just broke themselves of it because they find a great guy.
good luck

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I have "aquaintences" in my town. i've never acutally had a "main group" or real friend. i've never had someone say "aww,,i love you ______!!" in a friend way. and it makes me really sad. because i want to be close with people but i just feel like they dont like me. and i dont know how to open up or be friendly or start convos. how do i do that stuff? im not in the "loop" or anything. and this girl that i dont really like hangs around me ALLLL the time and i think that makes people not like me. i really dont want to be rude to her but seriously i dont like it at all. how can i find friends that care about me? any help, tips?

try talking to her one on one, and explain that you are quite bothered by her following you around. Then try being yourself, and finding people who like what you like. Maybe join a club?

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ok im almost 18 and when i was younger i experminted i was like 6or7 at the time it was like 10 or more years ago and the kid i experimented with was like 8or9 only like 2 years older than i am and i havent done anything since than nothings been in there fingers or nothing and i want to know can i still consider myself a virgin it happened so long ago and do you think that ill be tight still i dont even remeber if it fully went in or not i mean he was only like 9 how big can it be so will i still be tight like a virgin please help

Sorry to tell you but your not. sex is sex no matter your age.

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well my very first love and i broke up about a month ago. We still talk. He already has a new girlfriend. Wich hurts me terribly. But for the whole time we werent together, i told myself i wanted to be with him, and i need him to be complete. But then i looked back and i realized things werent all that great with him, ( thats why we broke up it was a mutual thing).But when i first met him i think thats when i fell in love and i couldnt fall out of love. So now i told myself to be honest with myself, that i love him but dont really want to be with him. So im trying to suport his relationship. But i feel like im still in denile. Like i really do want to be with him but am just trying to make myself feel better bye saying i dont. Im so cunfused. Help?

if you are in denial try to wait it out, although it you aren't afraid you can try to talk to him privately

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my cervix is really low i can touch it. how will i have sex

talk to a GYN. you do not want to hurt yourself.

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well what if you and your boyfriend want to have sex but you are both still virgins and you dont want anyone one to know if you lose your viginity

you talk it over, use protection, think it over, dont rush, be gentle and listen to each others needs.

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WHat if your ex bf keeps on trying to listen to your conversation? what does that tell you?????????????????? PlEASE HELP ME>>>>

it could be that he is jealous, and trying to be nosy and see who might get what he had. or that he wants you back and is trying to figure if you want him

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Hey i have a question can you jump in the pool with a tampon in??? Will it like come out or like get stuck in side you???yeah i no that might seem rong but i got to ask...please answer!!!

no its perfectly fine. the best thing to do with a tampon in you is try to forget about it. trust me. anyhow...the one you gotta worry about is sometimes if you sneeze hard they can slowly losen so be careful..but relax!

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George Bush. I have a question for all republicans out there. I am a democrat, but i am also an open person who doesn't just dislike people because of their beliefs. There seem to be a lot of people out there who support and like George Bush and everytime I ask someone why they just say "he's a good president" or "he's cool" or "he cares about the country" but seriously i want an honest ANSWER! with examples, what has he possibly done so far for this country that has been good? i honestly want to know, please answer

if you find the answer please share it with me..cause I have no idea. I cant stand the guy and my family is Republican

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first of all. im 14/f

i've dated this boy billy for about 5 months. && we broke up about a week ago. and a few days ago i started dateing this boy john. well the problem is, my bestfriend liked john and she supposidly doesn't anymore because i do. she doesn't seem to care about it but now EVERYBODY hates me b/c of it. what should i do?

well honestly i would of recommended not dating a best friends crush or x..it always turns out kinda messy. but as of now..I am not sure what to tell you to do..but I don't want to lie..soo I would say talk to your best friend, and get her to tell people not to hate you..besides its between you two.

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Is it possible to get pregnant when giving someone a blow job. i know you can get stds, but about pregnancy?

I'm not saying that I give them to people. I'm just curious.

umm noo...you need the males sperm to get to your eggs in your uterus to become pregnant.

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I was listening to a Christmas station on the radio today and I heard this song that I really like. It was a sad song, and it was about this little boy wanting to buy shoes for his mom before she died. if anyone knows this song, can you tell me the title and the artist? thanks much

omg i totally adore that song..it makes me cry..i can relate in a long story. but its:
Newsong "Christmas Shoes"

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omg i had a dream last night that I was having sex with my soccer coach. he is 30, really tall and not extremely handsome but cute in a big guy sort of way. I don't have a crush on him or anything, but i know he likes me (as a person/soccer player!) because i'm pretty good, but why would i have a dream about us having sex!? it was totally weird i need some advice pronto!

maybe he reminds your body of another guy you like, or maybe he is just the last guy you saw before bed that night. dont worry dreams are interperitve (sp?) lol cant spell right now..anyhow so it prob. will not come true.

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i have a problem with my cat. she will use her box but only when im at home or when im in my room where her box is at. any other time she will pee on everything and anything. i dont know how to get her to stop peeing on everything. should i buy another litter box to put downstairs? i need some help!!

i recommend that you lock her in a small room with food,water,bed,litterbox while your out to get her use to pottying there..and it may sound kinda weird but put some of her "mess" in the pan to encourage her to go. hope this helps

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I was really living the life! Queen of the whole 1st year high schoolers was never hard to get used to. I was the most popularest girl in the whole grade, but only because I was head cheerleader, and ofcourse like every fairytale I had the star player on the football team, the most popularest, cutest guy in the whole grade, as MY boyfriend! Life could not get better! My dad had a great job so I was what you would call "Filthy Rich", and lived in a huge house!
Then one day my very rich dad lost his very "rich paying" job. We moved into a room in an apartment room, and I had to quit the cheer squad because we could not even pay the $80 fee. Then after that the roomer got around that I was now poor, and my boyfriend dumped me, which meant my popularity went buh-bye! Soon after that, my daddy got a call from his job asking for him back, so we got our house back and I re-joined the cheer swuad and the roomer went around and my ex-boyfriend asked me out. I said to him we can try. So I am going out with him on the Tuesday after X-mas, and I'm going to see if he really likes me or my popularity! But this guy is SOOOO cute, popular, and romantic! Should I dump him or take back my role, i mean after all, he is the MAJOR CRUSH of the whole grade and he likes ME out of 56 other girls! What should I do?

umm there are 2 options but first you follow which girl fits you:

Girl 1-wants a real boyfriend to like her,maybe even love her
Solution-FORGET HIM find someone who likes you for you

Girl 2- Wants to date the hot,popular guy just because..and doesnt care what happend
Solution-Go get him and be a ditz

sorry girl2 is the type of girl i do not like.

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ok well im 14 and have never been kissed, i have had 3 seriuos boyfriend's and 2 just becuz boyfriend's and none of them have kissed me.i dont know if im ugly or what but now no guy likes me and i dont know what to do...can you help?oh yah and i guess im supposed to say im a girl.

sorry just wait for the right guy to come along. your still kinda young..especially to have supposely had serious boyfriends..you must not know the term..sorry i dont "sugar coat"

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I need a dress for my sweet 16 party. I'm looking for a "cocktail" style dress...preferably pink...and it mustt be above the knee. Can anyone tell me where i can buy a good dress. OTHER than Debb.

Thanks so much!!

-macys
-Lord and Taylor-can be expensive at times but has gorgeous selections
-Davids Bridal SOMETIMES..not quite as much for the cocktail..
-the one store you said ;) lol
-mandees? sometimes?
hope these helped at least a little

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