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i'm kelsey >i go to blue valley west high school..

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hi, my name is roberta, and i'm addicted to porn and masterbate constantly

so.. whats your question?

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theres this girl in my grade and she PISSES me off! like i told her i liked this guy and like the next day she starts likeing him and rubbing it in my face, then she also did this with one of my best friends, my best guy friend, she thinks they are best friends and its really annoying me!!

thats actually usual, to be honest. a lot of girls tend to look at guys differently when their friends date them because maybe they seem like a good boyfriend. let her know it bothers you, or else you have no right to get mad and say she went against you.

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i wanna have sex but i dont think im ready? help me BABY
ima girl 2

a lot of people have tempations to have sex, because.. horomones. but, if your not ready and your not positive its the right person, then you shouldn't do it. it's always better to be safe then sorry-

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im 14..female and i weigh 124 lbs...i hav curves definatly...well im nto happy with my body..i want to be size 00 and small...all the guys like small gurls..i look like a cow in a bathing suit and am starting to get cellulate on thighs/butt...i feel fat in anything i wear now...my point is is that im thinkin about going annorexic...bc i have a really pretty face and a ugly body if i go annorexic i will be pretty...maybe not full blown annorexic..but like not alot of food...a little bites here and there...but not alot @ all...and not makeing myself throw up..just not eating....how soon do u think i will lose weight...plz dont say "dont do this blah blah" bc i just want to know how much weight do u think i will lose in 2wks? plz answer that ?!!

being anorexic makes you lose your muscle first, and then fat. and just for your information, not all guys like small girls. you cant help the size of your bones. muscle weighs more then fat- you need food in your body to have energy. you say you have a pretty face, it wont be pretty while its pale and has dark lines underneath your eyes. if you go anorexic, you wont lose your cellulite. look in a plus size model magazine, and then look at yourself in the mirror. those are people who will show off their bodies even if its not perfect. fact is, no one will think your pretty if you don't even think so. weight is only a small portion of being in shape.. work out and maybe eat more vegetables. if you do that, you could look better in a bathing suit.. and whatever else you wear.

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HI, i'm morbidly obese and i can't get a grilfriend waht do i do.

if your a good person, it doesn't matter if your obese or not. try to keep the 'nice guy' deal.. because in the long run thats whats going to count. maybe now people are shallow and look for only the best looking- but no one stays beautiful forever

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ok well i used to be best friends with this girl and i really miss her, but she totally has a new best friend and it was over like 2 weeks, im so upset!

talk to her.. tell her you miss her- maybe she'll have something to say- if she doesn't feel the same way.. take your mind off of it, and look for another good friend maybe just like her.

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okay well my best friend is the greatest in the world and sometimes i wanna tell her i love her but i dont wanna mean it in a sexual way- bc im not like that (most of the time)i dont want her to think im lesbian and stop talking to me..pls help.. ur bmbmbf LOL

hahahah! ahhh girl, i love you too!!

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My friend told me tht she caught her sister cutting....Can ne1 tell me wht tht is? I asked her wht it wuz and she looked @ me like I wuz crazii...Wht is it?! I need 2 no!!

cutting is when you take out your pain by cutting yourself.

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ok well theres the guy that i adore n we went out for 5 months then we broke up n he went out w, someone els for like a week they juss broke up n i dont no how to get him to noticed me n maybe hint to him that i wanan hook up again
14.female

make a lot of eye contact. do what you did to get him the 1st time.

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what should i do? my friend wants to do stuff with me but i'm not a lesbo...she has even tried to eat me out...how can i tell her our feelings aren't mutual

wow.. thats kind of wierd. you should tell her your not into girls, but you still want to be friends. you don't want to ruin the friendship, so maybe try to hook her up with someone who maybe is lesbian

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Kelsey Castanon, your an amazing person and you always listen 2 me but i really need you help!

okay well, you know who i like and i dont know if he will go out with me because of what his friends might think?

haha, hannah your a great person too! well.. why should he care what his friends think? i know him, and i don't think hes like that! i say go for it..

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what do i do? my girlfriends's best friend hates me (or so i think)... (14/m) any advice is good, thank you

first, tell your girlfriend your upset.. then, ask her to ask her best friend whats going on- maybe she'll know.

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