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hello i am a 17 year old student who was bullied. So i specify in bullying it is a horrible thing to go through and i feel for everyone who gets bullied
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Gender: Female
Location: united kingdom
Occupation: student
Age: 17
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Member Since: October 10, 2010
Answers: 45
Last Update: November 20, 2010
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Well im 13 (female) and my mom lets me babysit my two youger sisters (4 and 2) On Friday im babysitting them in the morning 8 to 9 but then later that night im babysitting them from maybe 8 to 11. They go to bed at 9 30 and take a bath at 8 30. What are some things i can do with them so they wont be bored? And is it okay to go to sleep after they do, or should i wait until my mom gets home? (link)


hello,

you can take your siblings to the park or go to the zoo or farm. You can do arts and crafts with them or read them a story. Watch TV with them.

there are many things you can do. In the morning and afternoon take them out wear them out tire them. At night read them stories bathe them let them watch a film that way they will sleep easily


Okay so... I believe in being abstinent until marriage... but I've had oral sex with about 6 guys, 3 of which I was not dating and 1 that was in (is in) another relationship. Do I feel bad about it? um yeah.. I'm 19 and I feel like 6 guys is way too many, i'm actually ashamed to even tell my friends they think its 4 or 5. So advice anyone? (link)

hello,

you don't have to share your experiences with anyone. This is private confidential things. But also remember what happened in the past as happened you can't change it. Try to take your mind off of it by doing things that you like to do. When you finally meet someone who loves you for who you are they won't mind what has happened in the past. They might be a little suprised or shocked at first. Don't worry about it.

hope this helped


I recently got a boyfriend, maybe less than a week? Well, the first day, we basically talked about everything we could. Politics, religion, future, careers, family, friends, anything you can think of, but most of the topics didn't last long as he kept stopping and staring off into space, then asking me to talk to him.
It's awkward because I'm normally a reserved person who likes being alone a lot of the time so I can work on a story that I'm writing. He always wants to talk, but it's like he wants me to do most of the talking and I'm a very boring person. All I do is write, sleep, and eat... Sometimes hang out with friends.
Bascially I'm asking why our relationship is so awkward. Maybe it's just because it's how things start out? It didn't seem like that with my other relationships... Help me, please :(
16/f (link)

I would give the relationship another week or two. Tell him a relationship is a two way thing and you feel like you are doing all the work. Encourage him to speak ask him about school how his day was. What he is doing at the weekend. TV programs he watched.

after two weeks if he isn't responding confidently then tell him the relationship doesn't seem to be gong anywhere and part. You can still be friends even see how it is being friends. You might get back together. But he might also be shy and reserved as well so encourage him more.


hope this helped


My little sister thinks she is soooo cool.
See We like Anime but she'll never tell me the name I don't know why though but it's sooo agervating!!!!!!!!! She makes such a big deal out of it! She want's to keep me out of HER life.
HELLO im OLDER! (link)

ask your sister why she is being like that and tell her it is upsetting you. She should love you and if she knows something is upsetting you she might let you in. But remember your sister has her own independance


me and my ex are great mates. his 18th is soon and i want to do somthing unqiue and fun with him.
ive looked at getting his nipple peirce ( his mum took that idea)
- lazer tag
- getting indian takeout and going to the drive ins.
-luna park (theme park)
but i have no idea what to do i dont want to spend a fortune ...
got any ideas (link)


It's nice that you can be friends with an ex. But do you really want to have a life changing present. like gettting your nipple pierced.

i think going to a theme park is a great idea
so is getting a takeawy. Why not go to your local zoo or farm or ice- skating. why not go to a concert or music festival

hope this helped :)




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