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My husband and I live in Southern California and it's so expensive to live here. I don't want to move to another state because I would miss my family. We live in a small noisy city that is not so great but not terrible either. We would like to move to a better neighborhood. Our 2-bedroom is fine for us and our daughter who is almost 5 but we are thinking about having another child, and would like our kids to have separate rooms. Also, this street is very noisy. We went last night to look at a mobile home. It was nice and it even came with beautiful furniture. It wasn't as small as my husband thought it would be, but the bedrooms were kind of small. But after talking to the realtor, he found out that the rent on the space plus the loan payments would be too much for us. He is a mail carrier and I work part-time at a restauraunt. We were really dissapointed and depressed. I was kind of mad at him too, because he acted all enthusiastic to the realtor and then told me it was too much. I didn't hear what was said about the space fee, so I had no idea until we got back in the car to leave. Do you have any suggestions? Would a forclosure be better? My husband says we can't afford that either but I think he is just being negative. (link)
I say if you can't afford to support yourselves right now. DO NOT HAVE ANOTHER CHILD if you cant support yourselves how do you expect to bring up another baby??? you only have part time jobs, and thats just not good enuf maybe you should look into a better job that pays better and start saving but please do not have another kid you wouldnt be goving it a good life.


aaalritez.. im a 14 year old girl..im dealing with this guy.. ive been going out with him off and on for a while.. first 4 months.. now.. i forget.. i lost track.. anyways.. in february.. i was put on lockdown.. so i couldnt see him as much.. we talked a lot though.. but now i find myself getting bored of him.. but we have a history..n i would feel bad about dumping him.. what do i do? (link)
You need to break up with him if you don't feel a spark or connection anymore, he will be hurt but the longer you wait the harder it will be for him and for you. So get the job done soon!


I am 14 and a freshman in high school. A friend so many months ago got me involved in quizbowl. Later we dated. He is a senior. Now we never talk because of a quizbowl-related incident (I am a dork, I know). But another guy has shown up on the scene and I really like him. We went to a play together a week ago and he asked me to be his girlfriend. I don't know what to say. He's a sophomore, only 15. He's also involved in quizbowl.

How do you make enchilladas? (link)
am i dumb or am i the only person that doesnt know what quizbowl is??


ok, i have a BIG problem. i am the one with the pink sparkley dildo involving the cap. of the football team. so that whole thing is passed and know me and the cap. are going out. we have been dating for a couple weeks now and he wants me to quit using my dildo cause it interferes with our GREAT sex life. but i don't want to stop cause it's so enjoyful. what should i do about it. pleaz help asap!!

thanx

pleaz help (link)
I think that you should tell your boyfriend, that you are still going to use the dildo becuase you enjoy it, and maybe to spice it up a bit he could use the dildo on you! guys really et turned on by that. suggest it to him and see what he thinks


NB: don't read this if you are young/innocent/easily offended.

My boyfriend is 17, I'm 16. We spend large amounts of time indulging in 'heavy petting'. But when I give him a hand job (such a horrible way of putting it) he doesn't come unless he gives a hand as well. And when we were trying to sleep together he couldn't maintain an erection. My fault, his fault,nobodies fault?

What should I/we do? (link)
get a him a cock ring


I don't meant to sound mean, but if a person has flab hanging out, they should not wear tight, revealing clothes that a skinny person would wear. I'm tired of seeing women in particular wearing halter and short tops with their flab hanging out the sides, and their bottoms straining the seams of their tight, low-cut jeans. I'm not a skinny mean girl saying this, I have extra pounds on me and I try to dress in a way that flatters me and hides what I don't want to show off. Do these women think they look good? Are they in denial? What is the deal? (link)
You shouldnt care what other people are wearing all that matters is how they feel in the clothes, if they feel good then that's all that matters. Could it be that you a low self esteem and your self concious about your body?? and you wish you could feel as good as they feel??? i think you just maybe a little jealous.




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