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Okay, I've got something wrong with me... I'm scared to eat. I'm only 14 and love to eat, but recently (3 weeks ago today) I scratched my throat or something and it's really weird and hard to eat. Here are some details:
1. I've dropped 15 lbs.
2. I've thrown up twice.
3. I've gone through a lot of stress lately. Maybe that has something to do with it?
4. My mom's letting me get out of school to go to the doctor tomorrow.
5. My grandpa, stepmom, mom, and dad think I'm anorexic (yeah right, a fat anorexic girl! lol no joke)

So if you can recommend anything to help me, if there is anything you can possibly do, I'd appreciate it! (link)
hey ok sweety you sounded exactly like me ..im not saying you are but...first not all anorexic people are thin...and i think you should at first check with your docotor to make sure you are just not ill....but the stress can effect your eating...some people when they are upset/stressed eat alot some on the other hand loose their apetite...you might be like that ...thats how i was and i went from about 105 to 95 unintentionally because i lost my apetite becaue i was upset over some issues...when your rly depressed you can throw up it hapened to me its common....but sweety you need to eat because if you dont your stomch will shrink and your body will get used to eating a little a day.....nutrition is everything it is what keeeps your body going..so i would suggest eating little by little and if your having a hard time go to the store and buy those meal replacement drinks like ensure or boost...because when your body does not have enough fat it starts to eat your muscle...including your heart muscle which can do permanent damage to your heart and it stunts your growth and your body just starts to shut down.....im not sure what your weight is but if you are thin please try to eat and it rly helps to get a counseler to help you if you are having issues...but dont let anorexia sneak up on you thats what it did to me...anorexia is not just consumed by people who think they are fat ppl dont decide to have anorexia..its a sneaky disorder it comes when you can be super depressed or work out obsessions or people who are on diets and cut back too much....but dont let ur stomch shrink it is hard to stretch back out..and dont worry im not pulling this stuff out of my ass i have had anorexia for 2 years and have been hospilatilzed in all for maybe a month and ive talked to all the doctors and counslers...im not acussing you of being anorexic i just want to help you ok you dont have to read anymore...hope verything goes well and im always here if you have any more questions


I searched keywords for zit remedies, and it gave me some good ideas (so sorry for spamming). But I'm fifteen, and I've never really had that many zits. I mean, I've had occassional ones, but i have two big ones on my chin, and one coming in between my eyebrows, and I start school on Thursday (yeah, I'm lame. So?) and I want them (or at least the bigger ones) to go awayyy. I know they can't go away completely, but I at least when the redness to go away. I've read about ice and such, I tried toothpaste on it, and stuff. I'm probably irratating it. But what about the redness? Helppp. Thank you. (link)
hey! im new to this site but i totally feel ya myself having horrible acne and ive tried every acne medication in the book and i kno having zits during high school is horrible! well you seem to get only the occasional big ones and my guess is your skin is sensitive since you had a itchy reactcion to the one the spot treatment wich main ingredient is saylicic acid sooo i would suggest something more herbal like tea tree oil....which you can buy at trader joes and other herbal food stores it helps reduce redness while cleaning and healing the pimple but watev you do dont pop! because you dont want a fat purple mark on your face for your first day! and in the mean time use a concelar to hide the blemishes use one with some medication in it ...u can buy that at drugstore...or mineral makeup is great and dosent clog pores....since your skin is sensitive dont be too harsh because when you dry out ur skin too much it actually creates more acne because it dries out all the seabum and natural oils ur skin needs and it it tells your body to make more of these oils which we dont want ....rmeber to always mosturize no matter what use a oil free one......ok well i hope my advice has some impact i hope your skin gets better and im sure youll look hot for the first day of school!




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