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Q: Does PANTENE TIME RENEWAL really work??
yesterday i got the Time Renewal Shampoo and it's Frizz ControlConditioner. Both from Pantene Time renewal type

i was wondering if it really works.
Thanks
probably idk

Q: Why are guys turned on by not wearing underwear? I once told this guy I was, and he was like running out of breath ;]. haha but seriously, what's so great about not wearing underwear?
well if you are wearing a skirt with none on he mite even die

Q: 16-female

i like this guy ..he is in 8th grade and im in 11th so in age there is like only a two year difference but i still think its awkward. but nobody really knows but i think he gets the idea because on the phone i was like why are you going out with this girl you could do so much better!! and hes like well who else am i gonna go out with? and im like ME!!! and hes like alright when i break up with her i'll see! so he might ask me out sometimes and i would really want to go out with him but i always hear people talking like oh my god i think it makes girls look bad if they go out with younger guys and all this and my cousin is the same age as me and was talking about another 8th grader she thought was hot and her mom was like OOHHH GODD! thats pathetic, he is so much younger than you!! and all this and i was just thinking oh jeeze this is great. im scared of what people will say but i really wanna go out with him but i would be embarassed if people found out, not embarassed of him but just our age difference. i just dont know what to do!!
My bf is younger to and people do say stuff about it but age and grades are just a number they dont mean anything if you like him go for it you cant deny your heart

Q: OKay i come from a fairly rich family and im about to turn 16, my grandparents are buying me a car and a chose a Mercedes-Benz. So i took the brochure to school the other day to pick out which model i wanted and some of my friends are like "wats u looking at?" and i said "im picking out my car." they were like "ur getting a new Mercedes?" and i said yes and they started yelling about me being a spoiled brat and now some of them wont talk to me anymore... wat shold i do???

Cody
forget those biotches!!!

Q: 16/f, my friend, 16/m and I used to be best friends. Then we just stopped talking for awhile, now we're trying to mend our friendship and get back to our bestfriend status. He has come over the past two nights, which is what he used to do when we were best friends. What are some things we could do, I always feel like he gets bored and won't want to come over one day? Anything except sexual things, thank you.
,movies, dinner concerts skating concerts each others house, concerts hope i helped!!

Q: okay my boyfriend cheated on me multiple times.
i really need to get back at him. how can i
make him really jealous or heartbroken?

and trust me when i say this.. HE DESERVES THIS
i know that revenge isn't good but sometimes
there is exceptions. dont start lecturning me
because i wont listen. k thanks
hang out with him and then go up to a guy while your bf is beside you and flirt with him

Q: i know questions like this are not enjoyed.. but hear me out. i would like to find some songs that connect with the way i'm feeling right now. yesterday my boyfriend & i got in the biggest fight we've ever been in (during the past year of being in a relationship). it was bad. we made up & are still dating.. but i'm still hurt by the things he said to me. anything song that would express those emoitions would be great, thanks.
RUNAWAY LOVE!!!!!!!!1 this song is awsome
here are some lyrics of it

Now little lisa is only 9 yrs old she steady trying to figure world is so cold why shes all alone and aint never met her family mamas always gone and shes never met her daddy part of her is missing and nobody will listen mamas on drugs gettin high up in the kitchen bringing home men diffrent hours of the night starting with some laughs usually ending in a fite sneaking in her room when her mommas knocked out trying to have his way but little lisa says ouch she trys to resist him but all he does is beat her trys to tell her mama her mama dont believe her. dont rember the rest sorry and try um........ thats all i can think of write later bye!

Q: okay so basically i'm 16, turning 17 in april and i am a 34/b but it doesn't look like that at all. my friend is the same size as me but she is bigger than me & i def don't want to get implants i just want to be bigger (like most girls).. i got my period when i was 13, do i still have time to grow any more? also my mom, grandma's & aunts all have pretty big boobs does this mean that i'm just a late grower? also i've done gymnastics all my life does that have an effect as well? let me know thanks!
most girls grow until they are 17. i am 13 and im a 36c so dont worry youll grow!! and sometimes it mite be the bra!! so dont worry you mite look like pam anderson!! lol

Q: f/13 ok. two of my close friends(both female) despise each other and fight sometimes. i don't know what to do. i dont pick sides. but the thing is, i have a crush on one of them. and well, my main problem here is: how could i get them to get along? or at least tell them what they should do?

help me..
girl you need help for being gay go get a bible!!!

Q: so me and my friend jamie have been friends since kindergarden(now were in 8th grade). but recently she has been ditching me for my friend shannon. i mean shannon isnt a bad person or w/e, but i just want my friend back. i didnt know why she WAS ditching me so i got all mad and just assumed she didnt want to be my friend anymore, bc she was like ALL OVER SHANNON! like her and shannon did EVERYTHING together. so one day in class i drew this really mean picture of her bc she was ditching me. then at that recess someone asked me what was wrong and i told her the story how jamie was ditching me and i called her a biotch. i mean i HAD to! jamie gets mad at me for the gayest things. like on valentines day i didnt get her a present, so she got all mad at me! and that made me cry in class! UGHH she gets on my nerves sometimes. oh and by the way she bacically STOLE everything from me. (for example:im always gosh your so retarted hahaha duh duh ..and now SHE does that) and it has been rumored(by me..duh..well i think this) that she only wants to be my friend bc i know 2 girls that are like popular and stuff and really fun to be around and were like bff and jamie wants to be really close to them too.

today(feb.28)i sent jamie a note saying how sorry i was and how i thought she was ditching me for shannon. idk whats going to happen next, but knowing jamie, she will not forgive until i give her a present or w/e. wow some friend!

i want to still be friends w/ her bc weve been friends for so long and i dont want to ruin that, but shes so rude(when its just me and her) and idk if i can be friends with someone that. if she doesnt forgive me, my life will be even more ruined than it already is. she takes OVER my life. i mean seriously. when its just me and shannon, were like bff and have so much fun, but when jamies around IM LEFT OUT.

and i cant find other friends bc then i would have to like start over with my friendship and stuff.

please help
ok so..........tell her that youve been bffs and that you hate fighting with her i mean your her best friend. Just tell her that your sorry and that you would like her to forgive you. Tell her that you didnt mean anything tell her that you feel like shes ditching her for shannon. i dont mean to sound rude but...........IF SHES YOUR FRIEND THEN SHELL GET OVER IT!!!!!!!

RATE ME!!!!!

Q: Hey. I take a shower every night. I know this is going to sound gross but the problem is my hair is practically greasy by the next night and it's really bothering me. I've tried numerous shampoos and I can't find the right one for greasy hair. I've also asked people at the store that work there and the shampoos they gave me never worked either =(. Any good shampoos for greasy hair or any tips? Thanks so much in advance! =)
If you use conditioner evry night it should work but if it doesnt then try it once every week.!!!! it will work!!!!!!!!!!

Q: 17/f
Last year I was head over heels for a friend of mine, let's call him John. We don't know each other too well but we had classes together and would talk through IM and stuff. I fell in complete love with him and it took me the better part of a year to get over him.

Since I've gotten over him, we've stayed friends, dated some people, etc... Now I'm single, and have been for a while.

I think I may be falling for him again. He told me last year he doesn't think of me that way, but we talk almost every night on IM about personal things and we can really open up to each other.

What do I do? I don't want to have to go through the heart break over John again.. after finally shedding these emotions.

He drives me crazy. I need help...

P.S. we've been talking about hanging out together outside of school, too. Any advice so I don't come on too strong for him? thanks.
One day john will fall into love woth you and you mite or mite not be in love with him. Dont freak him out by saying stuff i love you!!!! that woiuld be weird. Hope i helped rite back and tell me KEEP IT REAL!!!!!!!!

Q: hey does
anybody
know any good like New rock or rap songs
because when i sit down to download some..
i totally forget
so if you know any

thanks in advance
I wanna love you , rockstar, runawaylove , those are my favorites

Q: this is probably under the wrong category, but i couldn't think of a better one.

i haven't had my period in like three months, and it's never been regular but i'm really paranoid, and i'm also wicked modest or whatever so i'm afraid to go to the doctor. i'm a virging but i'm scared that sperm like, seeped into me. i know it's ridiculous but i can't get it out of my head. sooo, i'm wondering what the problem could be? like, my sleeping pattern has been SO SO SO messed up lately. from like 4am - 5:30 pm, so could that be the cause? ): help please.
Stress can be one cause of that.......try less to stress. oh yeah and gurl PROTECTION!!!!!

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Heyy!! i am a 15 year old southern belle! i am very talented and shy when you first meet me but when you get to know me i am a very outgoing fun person! i love my wonderful boyfriend with all of my heart!! its been six amazing years!! and no one comes before him!! (none of my so called friends! he's up there with me family! :] ) i have come to realize drama is dumb and shouldnt even influence your life. and i am looking for a few good friends so if you would like to be friends let me know!!

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