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Andrew.... I really have a serious problem. This one guy who is my friend is like...well...always trying to go down my effing pants and i can't get him to stop. I told him to stop in person and online but that doesn't work so the next time he "tried" to do som'n i slapped him across the face as hard as I could but it still didn't help. I try ignoring him but he follows me around every where. It is REALLY starting to freak me out cause he keeps saying he is like gonna rape me in my sleep or som'n and he is always trying to get down my pants. i can't stand it any more I don't know wut to do i have tried every thing but nothing seems to work. What should I do?
tell him hes being a huge fucking asshole. and tell the principal for assult. and im not 100% sure but i think you can get him in trouble with the athority. threaten him to stop or you will do it. this guy sounds like an ass, if i know you give me his sn. if hes got one.
andrew...i have this friend, that i've known seens the 2nd grade. We were best friends, and now all she wants 2 do is b like me.She copys everything i do. Like, i got vans, then she got vans, but then i finally got adios. And i go 2 like hollister, american eagle, ambercrombie & fitch, now she goes there. I'm really annoyed with her doing that stuff. But now she is friends with some popluar girl, and now she weres these slutty clothes, and talks really stupid. How can i break it 2 her 2 tell her just 2 b herself?
talk to them about it. see whats going on.
I have a friend. its a guy. and when hes not around his friends hes really nice and when he is around his friends he pretneds i'm not there. or hes just rude. but i don't want him to be like that and i no i can't change him. is that just a guy thing? how do i get his attension? should i just leave him alone when hes with his friends, i mean i'm his friend too.
Well.. you dont want to get in the way. i dont really think its a "guy thing" but maybe the kid is like.. the 'follower' of his guy friend. so its okay if you try to talk to him every once and a while, but try not to do it too much. and yeah ur right, it is a little rude, but just keep trying. talk to him about it, WITHOUT any one around. you could try calling too, but dont feel embarraced. there is no reason too. so.. good luck, and if u need any more advice, leave another question but mark it so i can tell its you. keep trying!
well theres this guy and he sort of likes me, but I don't really know now and hes a good friend, but I like this other guy, a lot. when he found out who I liked, he claimed he didn't care, although I know he was lying. he says he's not lying but the way he talks about it and asks me about it I know that he's lying. I really want to wring his neck and tell him that it's really annoying since I know that he does care I like this guy. what do you think I should do?
I think you should give this kid a chance. you never know, he might mean it, might not. I dont see why you would care if he did care. because its not like he would do anything about it. and if you find it annoying.. well i dont know what to say, i think hes just trying to get your trust back.. he wants it probabley.
andrew, i am worried. I am 12 years old and im single. i had my period. i had sex. without a condom. i haveny had my period yet. ive been having cramps. i have been vomiting. ive been hungrier then ever. i think im pregnate. whhat am i going to do???
uh... i dont think i can really answer that.. go to the doctor or something
guys are confusing cause they always seem to like you but then never do. how do you get someone to like you more and know if they do?
Be nice to them. if his friends have a problem with you ignore them. get in the way of every other girl, but not completly. tell jokes, talk a lot. after almost close friends. like, when ur just.. friends. start calling a little bit. trust me, if you send the right messages, he will know what you think. so if he does, and you can kind of tell, but ur not sure and dont want to make a fool of yourself. make fun of him as a joke, not too much, and not to intense though. it always makes things intresting. so once almost good friends, dont forget to call. dont be embarraced cause you dont think you will have anything to say. and if the other person says they have to go, dont think its because another reason, because if he wanted you to just go, then hes an ass. maybe. so just be carfull of that. talk on IM a lot. but dont get all, obsessivly annying. cause that we do NOT like. alright.. pick it up from there.
Hello andrew,
Im dating this guy and like i really like him a lot. but he seems to always be talking with my friend and stuff and sitting next to her and stuff and acting like im barley there but then sometimes he like touches my leg and hand and stuff. but he never tries to hold my hand or anything and i really want him to. how do i tell him i want him to hold my hand? i mean to i just say HOLD MY HAND!!! and like what should i do about the friend thing?
--Confused--
just talk to him, tell him you would really like to hold hands sometimes.. because it makes you feel good. and do NOT get your friend too, he will think your friend was just being.. strange? and wouldn't think you wanted too. it would be odd and have almost no affect on the matter. sometimes if he put his hand on your leg, you could even put yours on top of his. he will most likely look over at you, and with a smile on your face he may understand what your asking. if this guys for real, he will do it. and what friend thing? i dont think i know who you are.. wait i might. send me the question you asked about your friend, and i'll answer it. good luck.
This guy i like like still hangs out with his ex and he likes someone but he and his ex wont tell me and like everyone thinks he likes her. Then she told me that he likes me, but then she said he didnt and i knew she was lieing but i didnt know. Now the guy wont tell me cuz he thinks ill tell everyone. What should i do? I know i should make him trust me more,but what else?
Talk to him about it. tell him he can trust you one time. if you told, he wouldn't have to ever talk to you. be like that.
Andrew, im worried about my friend. she has been going through a lot and lately shes been asking me guestions like what would you do if i died, and she said to me once whatever happens ill still love you. im really worried that she might do something, she use to cut herself but some reason she stopped. but now she acts happy in school but on the computer shes so depressed and when i call her shes always like crying, im worried. what if she kills herself or runs away? shes been like painting her nails black and shes been wearing long sleves again and im scared. shes ur close friend though...i wont say more because i dont want her getting mad or even more upset, i know she has a boyfriend and stuff but she seems like shes so depressed and i can tell that shes being torn apart inside...i dont know what to do. Please help andrew. i mean do i tell someone? or what?
sincerly,
Worried about a friend
you obviouisly need to talk to her like i said before. just talk to her. if shes one of my friends, i'd like to be imformed of whats going on. talk to her and find out. if you break into her feelings, and dont know what to say from there, come back and i could tell you if you give me strong detail.
Andrew, im worried about my friend. she has been going through a lot and lately shes been asking me guestions like what would you do if i died, and she said to me once whatever happens ill still love you. im really worried that she might do something, she use to cut herself but some reason she stopped. but now she acts happy in school but on the computer shes so depressed and when i call her shes always like crying, im worried. what if she kills herself or runs away? i dont know what to do. Please help andrew.
sincerly,
Worried about a friend
well... set your friend straight. you want an answer and you want it now. tell them you need to know what the hell is up with them. and why they are asking such things. you should really talk to your friend about it. you need to actually. if your a real friend, you will find out how to get it out of her. seriously brittany, i dont like what you say. you have to find out. so basicly TALK TO HER
theres this guy and i'm not sure if he really likes me. i mean were friends and all but i'm not positive he even cares about me cause he treats me like crap sometimes and sometimes hes nice and funny. i think he hates me now. he never really talks to me and i think its just cause we went out and i don't know what i should do. please help
well.. i dont exactly see what you want me to help you with. if you fill me in a little more i might have something to say... but one thing i can say. just because you guys broke up, doesn't mean he hates you. you dont really need to worry about that. if he does hate you he might have a reason, or its because u broke up. if its cause u broke up hes a loser and you shouldn't stick around him. sorry.
its me again...the one wre i said i like a guy and he is 2 embaressed 2 get 2 no me..well...i have something else 2 ask..im really in love and im really scared 2 talk 2 him..cause i dont want him 2 not like me, cause then he will tell every1..and will avoid me..should i shot 4 it,and get 2 know him, then ask him out..or just dont try? Help Please!
eh, just got for it. if you like him, you porbabley know him enough.
A lot of people say im ugly and fat. I know you wont care but like everyone notices it in me and they dont look at the inside or me..only the outside. Will i ever find love? or just be a loser the rest of my life?
Yeah, you will. Even if you think your fat, your not close. have you ever seen some people that look likr hippo's trying to hug? i did in canada once, it was funny. anyone can find love. even someone with mental issues. your not going to be a loser forever, people doubt themselves enough. cause you think it, doesn't mean its true. and cause some ass hole says it, doesn't mean its true. because opinion is not a fact.
How the guy act around me::(i asked the last quesiton) Well in my one period class, he like looks at me and like shakes his head cause its a joke with his friend and like now he just kids about it but like whenever i like talk to someone and they want to know something or i want to know about this guy by someone else, the guy i like says "you like (whoever i talk to)" and i say nooo and like hes like okay. but like we were walking to our bus together today..he doesnt go on my bus but me and my friend were talking to him and like me and him were close together and like touching and i like that feeling and like he didnt try to escape that much but like i dont know if he likes it too..should i do anything? and do you think he likes me?
I think he likes you a little. he might still be a little undecided. from what had happend today, might change his whole point of view for you. which could be a very good thing. and if he brings up one joke a lot, usually i would do that when i dont know what else to say to a girl but i want them to like me so i talk about it anyway. he just wants to talk to you probabley, and thought that he can just bring that up whenever he doesn't know what to say.
so badicly, i think he likes you a little. just not very sure.
Some people think this guy i like sort of likes me but is shy..they think..but like he doesnt talk to me much other than asking me to tell him this one thing, i want him to talk to me more, but i dont know what to talk about. Also the other day, like a week ago actually, he said i was ugly. But i dont know if he really thinks that or not, what do you think i should do about that, should i ask him if he does?
The 'people' are most likely right. if you tell me how he acts around you i could even give my own opinion on how he feels. ok and the whole ugly thing, if it was a friend that told you for him, dont belive it. people are filthy liars. if it was on IM, make sure he didn't have a friend over trying to mess with his friends head. make sure of that. if he told you in person... make sure it wasn't a prank. if its true, this guy is a jerk. and you shouldn't take it. if true, dont feel bad. cause jerks are jerks and... are just assholes i guess. so dont worry about it. but do make sure.
ok..i have this friend..and she asked out a guy..and he said no. They went out before..but anyways..now he avoids her..and doesnt wanna talk 2 her at all...what should she do 2 get hes attetion back?
from the way you ask, this is you asking for advice. there is nothing wrong with asking for help, expecially when i dont know who you are. but, try to.. talk to him about it. if he trys to go make him stay. there is nothing wrong with being forcefull with an important matter. talk about it and mention everything you may be thinking at the time. who knows, after the talk you might even comepletly change your point of view for this guy. after the talk.. wait a day for the tension to cool off. if still un easy and not so able to talk to him, make it two or as many as you need. just no longer then a week. but, if you give him time after it, he may think about you like i have from past experience.. (other people) so just, if hes not a brain dead moron, he will think of you, and maybe say hi one day. if he greets you, then go with it. dont blow the first chance to become friends again. if you do.. you'll be waiting a little more. so pick it and and start it going. sooner or later you will be talking on a regular basis. if not long conversations, dont worry. doesn't mean he doesn't care. (if more advice needed, ask again with more detail)
I'm the same person with the phone call one but, like he doesnt talk to me that much other than when i talk to guys i turn to him and he asks me if i like that guy cause he thinks i do and i dont and i just dont know how to tell him and like since he doesnt talk to me much, he doesnt really talk to me other than asking me why i called. But like at the lunch table, this girl that asked him out like always sits next to him and stuff and like we all want her to leave but she wont and like she asked him out but he said no and like i dont know what to do because she is like always with him..and whenever i do sit next to him, someone tells me to move over. But should i just sit across from him so he can actually see me or what?
ok the girl.. forget her. he said no and its over. sit across from him, it makes it easier to talk anyway. maybe he doesn't talk to you much because you dont talk to him much. if your more open, and chat with him in between classes or at lunch ask questions, but dont talk too much. and when he asks who you like or something, it might be because he secretly likes you, or thinkes he does. but he might be shy and not very good at showing his emotions. so... just be open more.
should i ask someone out if they are a little close to me and i like them more than a friend but they dont know it?
Be nice to them for a while. nice like they are your bf/gf. if you do and they appear to like it, then make the move because its the right one.
well lets just say me and this guy are friends, he wanted to know why me and my friend called him the other day. The reason was is that i like him and i wanted to nkow where he was going that night because that is the night everyone goes places. So i call him and he got kind of annoyed cause my friend was supposed to talk but she wasnt. Now he wants to know why i called. Should i tell him i like him or should i tell him i just wanted to know?
oh deffinatly, simply tell him. (need more "actualy" advice, just ask again with more detail)
call him more often, if your friends he will grow to aprisiate you. he will like it, i always did.
ok..i like this guy...but were not friends, and he wont get 2 no me, cause he is 2 embaressed. Im so in love with him, cause i've loved him 4 a long time..what sould i do? im really confused, and my friend said ur a great guy, and u give good adice..so thats y i caame 2 u..what should i do?
Make it so he isn't embarred. i mean acting closer with him, and that he can trust you and talk to you easily isn't very hard. you should just talk more, be loud. and tell like things you like about him. and if you arn't friends... you will be. just talk, a simple conversating can go a long way. tell him you do after your friends. in about a week of fun and laughter everything should seem good between you. also once you are friends, you may also realize you only wanted him to notice you. so just be friends if so. tell him, talk to him, good luck.
(if need more advice just ask again with more detail)