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ok last night i went to the movies with my friends peter and jules we saw the return of the king well all threw the movie i would talk to peter and stuf but forget a bout jules (i was siting in the middle of them) but i like this kid sean and then my sister is haveing her bday party today and her friend brian came over hes my age (14) and he had his girl friend with yhim and i was jelouse can any one tell me what this means
boy crazy (link)
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I think it means you like attention from guys, which isn't necessarily a bad thing. It just sucks for you when you're not in the spot light. But, don't worry. I'm sure that will all change once you get a boyfriend. And, if it doesn't, my advice to you would be, work on dealing with not being the center of attention to some guys all of the time, and just be happy the way things are. :)
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ok well here is the deal i hate these things because they are all alike but i need to no
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ok my friend and i are semi close and he isnt really that cute but today when i passed him in the hall in the morning his eyes caught the light just right and i literally stoped and just stared at him and i mean last year he would make my knees go weak and melt every time i looked into his baby blue eyes (they are like brad pitts eyes in interview with a vampire when he is a vampire not before) and he has the most gorgeous lips but i have to say an ugly nose lol any way the other day i told him his sister told me he had little pink piggy's on his boxers and after i told him hes like well i do see and he showwed me cuase he was wearing them that day and omg i cant stop thinking about him but what i want to know is it love cause i am only in 9th grade or crush or nothing oh and jsut to let you all no io posted before and the title of that post was snibble it was under love relationships (link)
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Well,I wouldn't call it love. I would call it, you being very interested in him in a boyfriend way. He's seems to be a little flirty. So try dropping hints to him about maybe going out, and if he seems to be giving you positive hints, then talk to him about it. But, don't rush things just yet. Don't want to scare him off. Good luck.
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Ok. So I have dated this guy since summer, and he's a really busy fellow. We'll call him Chris. Unfortunately, so am I. So we've had maybe a date a month on average. I like him. He "loves" me. I am scared to say I love him because I still think way too much about the last psycho control freak guy I dated. (It has got to be sex). He doesn't communicate well with me. Its hard to have a conversation about what I called him for in the first place. He is waiting until marriage to have sex. Its a little hard on me, but its nice not feeling pressured. Chris has a tendency to postpone dates for gigs or other reasons. I understand he needs to work, but give me a break.
Well, I am waffling and waffling. In the meantime, a really interesting fellow has "hit" my personal ad. I want to call him, but as of Sunday things are better with Chris.
So choice A: call new guy anyway.
choice B: don't call new guy
choice C: call new guy and tell him about Chris
choice D: get over yourself you silly brat (link)
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Hm.....I say try to talk to Chris about this. And if he gives you a bunch of crap about it, dump his sorry ass, and call the new guy. Unless of course, you start to really feel deeply about him, then you should try at it.
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Whoo, it's another question suspiously similar to every other question asked here, but is getting asked here because the person who is asking it thinks that their situation is somehow inherently special and different from everyone else's.
So, still want to help me?
Ok. I've been friends with this guy (I shall refer to him as... um... Blarg) for about 3 years total. (I am in 9th grade, as is he.) I started liking Blarg about 2 1/2 years ago, and I've told him I like him, abeit via other people. I *suspect* that he likes me "as more than a friend" (I DESPISE that phrase but it will have to do), in fact I'm nearly positive, but recently something happened at his birthday party that made me wonder.
He invited me to his party (I was the only girl he invited) and most of the party was taking place at an arcade. The party guests and Blarg stayed at his house for about half an hour before getting in the car to ride to the arcade, where he was continually teased about liking me, and I about liking him. We had to sit next to each other in the car on the way there for space reasons, to the great amusement of the other partygoers in the car. We were sitting in the car for about 10 minutes or so because his parents were still in the house, and we were getting teased unmercifully. Finally Blarg says, "I don't like ***** (me) as a girlfriend, ok?" I was a tad bit startled, and since then I've been wondering if he said what he meant or if it was just to get the other people off his back. I did ask one of my friends about it and she thought he just said it to get them to shut up, but I decided to bug the entire internet because you're all so special. :P (link)
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Boys tend to be immature and embarrassed when it comes to this kind of stuff. So of course when his friends are hounding on him about it, he's going to deny it. It's a guys natural instinct to deny the truth when they're being teased. But, to know for sure, you need to ask him. And if I'm right, which I think I am, you guys would probably end up hooking up. I mean it'll never happen if you don't talk to him about it. So, don't worry, and ask him about it. I hope this helps.
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Ok, I had a boyfriend let call him (troy) but anyway I really like him but i broke up with him to have sex with someone else. he stop talking to me for a year and now we just started to talking again we are closer than ever. he said that he would take me back if his two friends give him a good reason to go back with me. But i don't understand what he means? I think he cares about me but don't like me. Because i fall asleep in the cafeteria and no body woke me up. BUT HE DID. So does he like me or what? (link)
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It sounds like he does, but is friends don't think that he should go back out with you because you dumped him to have sex with someone else. Friends are very protective, especially guys. Odd, I know, but they are. My advice to you would be, talk to him about it, ask him what he means. And try to show his friends that you wouldn't do that to him again. I'm not saying prove yourself to them (because you should never have to prove yourself to anyone), I'm just saying let them know they can trust you not to hurt their friend again.
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