Ask Legna026!

Advice Column | Ask a Question | View Feedback |

About Legna026



Well my name is Stacy, I am 16 years old and I live in Washington state. I like to hangout with friends, have fun and talk to my beautiful boyfriend :) Anyways, I have recently made a screenname for you so if you need some advice and don't have time to post and wait for me to answer then you can IM me on that screenname. Do not IM me on my personal one for advice, only the advice sn. Here it is --- >> x0o ADViCE F0R U
Also please rate my advice. It only rakes 2 seconds. Thanks

Ask Me For Advice
View Feedback
Make Favorite Columnist

E-mail: Brunettebombshell52@Yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Washington
Age: 16
AIM: Legna026
Yahoo: Brunettebombshell52
Member Since: July 5, 2005
Answers: 49
Last Update: July 14, 2005
Visitors: 2589


Favorite Columnists
sO_triLL

Advicenators.com



I want to have sex with my boyfriend but he wont have sex with me what should i do

Well first of all you need to look at the reason why he doesn't want to have sex with you. If its because he wants to wait, or wants it to be meaningful then I deffenitly think you should wait, cuz that shows that he really cares. Let me know if you need anything more

[view]


Ok.. i've liked this kid for 2 years today.. but i don't wanna tell him cause im scared of rejection :( & also, he goes to a different school so i only get to see him in the summer. :(

Two years is a long time .. but you don't have to just come out and say it. You should give him some signs that you like him and see what he does. Goodluck

[view]


okay, im a 14 year old christian girl and God is my whole life. Well see my family...my family is something i would definetly call disfunctional, my dad and mom are split up...my older sister is a complete pot head..and so are my parents...my aunts my uncles, all of them smoke weed. And its so hard for me to be the only one not doing all of this. I live with my mom most of the time, and my mom has a boyfriend that i cannot stand and he is like over 24/7. I love my mom so much and i just wish she would stop smoking crap..all i want her to do is just start going to church and change her life around and get to know God...but its so hard! Any advice??

Well have you asked your mother to stop? I think that you should sit down with you mother and tell her that you really want her to stop doing what shes doing, and that it would really mean a lot to you if she'd quit. Let me know if this helps please !

[view]


I have this guy that i really like, and he claims he likes me too, but he does a lot of drugs but i told him it was either me or the drugs, and he said hes quitting and that made me feel really good. but he has a reputation to cheat on his gf's, but that was because he was like high or something but now that hes quitting we decided to go out once he was clean. but everyone is telling me he will just cheat on me and hurt me and that hes lying to me, and at first i didnt listen but now so many people are telling me its making me start to believe them, and i just dont know what to belivev or do anymore. well my names brittany and in 13 years old, his names dave and hes 14.

Well I don't think the reason why he cheats on his girlfriend is because he is high. That is bs. I know a lot of people tell you that he cheats on his gf's but you can only do what your heart tells you. Ask him if he has ever cheated before. And he will probably tell you no, but if he does in fact say that he has then its deffenitly not worth it. I know you really like him but your just gonna get hurt by going out with a cheater .. Once a cheater always a cheater ! Goodluck

[view]


Well..See, I like this boy. And well he doesnt like me like that...i have expressed my feelings to him about him and everything i think im trying to hard..but idk..and He said he just wanted to be friends..
WEll my cousin talked to him and she said it isnt about looks or anything..i mean i dont think im pretty at all im captain of the cheerleading squad though..but still...and i dont think im all that skinney..im 100 pounds but i look fatter...im not supposed to kno this tho..but i guess there is a rumor about me going around and me playing sumone or sumthing...he wouldnt tell me cousin..but i just dont kno wat to do anymore..because i REALLY like him alot...


im soo confused

Well first off you shouldn't worry about rumors. Everyone has had a rumor or two going around about them, including myself. But if I were you, I would act like you don't want him, or hangout out with some other guy and make sure he finds out about it. That will make him want you even more and then you will really find out how he feels about you. Let me know if you need more advice.

[view]


I like this guy a lot and he says he likes me and we are "talkin" but he got drunk the other nite and made-out with another girl..and he said he was mad at me b.c I d idnt call him in two days do you think that was really it? or do u think he really has feelings for his girl b.c they used to "talk" and i asked him if he liked her and he said he use to like her a lot a long time ago!

I hate to break it to you, but if he really liked you he wouldn't go make out with another girl just because you didn't call him. And him telling you that he use to like her doesn't answer your question. So tell him straight up that you want to know if he honestly still has feelings for her and what he'd like to do about you two. Goodluck, let me know if you need anything else.

[view]


Me and My Boyfriend broke up almost 3 months ago and i`m still not over him. i`ve tried everything. being mad at him, ignoring him, liking someone else, but none of it worked. everytime we got in a fight, i would be so close to getting over him but then he would just talk to me & nothing would matter, i would fall for him all over again. Last night, I finally got the courage to ask him if he was over me. He told me that he basically is, not saying a straight yes or no. Now this morning, my friend told me that she was talking to him the other day and that he said he wishes that things would go back to the way they used to be, as in us going back out and everything. I haven`t gotten to talk to him yet, but when i do i don`t know what to say. Wonder if my friend was lying or something, and he really WAS over me, and then i told him how i felt. he would make fun of me FOREVER !! AND tell EVERYONE !! Legna026, PLEASE HELP ME !!
From,
Still-In-Love

P.s. I am a female and i`m 12 years old, but i`m obsessed with him !!

It seems to me that ignoring him and that stuff has worked. If what your friend is saying is true, then I deffenitly think it worked. I think the reason why he basically told you that he was over you was because you did all that stuff. I would really consider asking him how he honestly feels. And if hes going to make fun of you for it then hes really immature and deffenitly not worth it. Another thing you could do to find out if your friend is telling you the truth is to 3-way him. I know that sounds dumb but its the only way to be sure, besides asking him. So if I were you I'd just have her 3-way him with you on the phone and have her ask him about you. Let me know if this helps at all. Hope this works !

[view]


Hi, its me again. the one with the friend who is a total bitch now .. well, ive tried talking to her a while ago. she said "Give me a second chance, i promise ill change. I never realized how mean i was to you," things were good for a while, but then it went back to the way it was before. im sorry but i forgot to tell you that part in my first message. what should i do?

You should deffenitly talk to her again. I suggest telling her that you don't deserve to be treated that way and that your tired of her treating you like crap. Tell her that you aren't going to allow her to treat you like shit anymore. Let me know if this helps.

[view]


my best friend has become a total bitch, what do i do?

Well have you tried talking to her ? If not you should really conisder it. Just tell her that you'd like to talk to her and ask her why she has changed. Let me know if you need anymore advice! Goodluck :)

[view]




<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker