..Hi i'm Kelsey Larson..
Hayy.. life can bring a whole bunch of un-expected problems nd` shit and sumtimes we just need someone to talk to and listen. I`m always open to talk to and i give advice. IM me at X kare 69 bare X or n3ver Endiinq x3 if you want know more about me.. i love you brian!!
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okay well my ex boyfriend cheated on me a couple of times...the first time he was just all over this one girl the second he fingered my one friend[yeah i know some friend] and then he always made out with this other girl and told her that he didnt have a girlfriend well when i heard bout tha first time he cheated on me i just kinda let it go->he broke up wif me n then went out with that girl then like 3 days later me n him got back 2getha so i was happy then wen i found out bout tha 2nd time i got reallii pist i mean i couldnt even look at him with out coming near ta tears i ended up breakin up with him like 3 weeks after tha whole fingerin thing but see i still reallii reallii love him! he was my first love n no matter wut i just cant get ova him! and i just dont knoe wut ta do ne more i have a boyfriend now but i dont love him like i loved my ex n i dont knoe if im jus goin out wif mah boy now bc iono i just need sumone or wut but i dont knoe should i give mah ex anotha chance sumtime in tha futre{like wen me n mah boy now break up} urg i just dont know what ta do my ex hurt me so much! (link)
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aww, you can do soo much better then a guy who cheats on you!!! you shouldnt care about him that much because obviously if cared for you as much as you care for him he wudnt have dun it in the first place! :( .. now i know he was ur first love.. but stick with ur new bf! im sure ur new bf loves you more than ur X does.. so just think about it...
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hey hey hey,
well....my mom wants to breack up with my dad and it is just to hard for me and i mean is my dad lives right there in the house hould and i dont hardley kno him!! also me and my boy friend just brock up and we have been togethr for 2 years and i kinda miss him and i stll love him and i am with this outher boy and like i like him to..... anyways i dont want to move away from all my friends and i is just to hard ...........
love you lots
can you help me? (link)
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theres nuthin you can do about ur parents relationship! its just a really hard thing to deal with. and you shouldnt be with that guy if you still really like ur X. its just not fair to him. tell ur mom/dad that you wanna stay and you dont wanna move! its the best you can do!
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will u go out wit me
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umm.. i dont know you! IM me and tell me who you are! *X kare 69 bare X*
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ok...long story.. me and this kid carlos started dating online.. which i know isnt the safest thing to do but... we really started to like eachtoher and i saw his piocture and he saw mine adn we really got to know eachother before we started going out and stuff and we have talke don the fone a few times... we had broken up a few times over silly things but we always ended up back together and about a month ago he broke up with me because we didnt get to talk online or fone for like a month cus i was grounded and stuff lol and now he says he still has feelings for me and he LOVES me and i deffinitly LOVE him but i mean i cant tell my parenst about it and if he asks me back out i dont know how its going to work... i need help faast!
-please help me....:/
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ive been in one of those situations.. i totally understand! it depends how far away he lives, and how old you are. but the best thing to do is not go out with him. because in my opinion -- its kindof a waste of time if he lives on the other side of the country. Soo i needa know a lil more info about it.. IM me and i will help you!
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2 major problems... ok n u gove great advice so i will ask u... ok this boy i am soo sttracted 2 is like soo hot n asked me out... but he is kinda shy.. and the other boy is not soo hot but he talks 2 me more... which 1 should i date??.. and another prob. is this boy askes me 2 homecoming and then dumps me for another girl.. should i still talk 2 him or ignore him for the mean things he did 2 me...??...thankx alot (link)
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if he did sumthin mean to you then hes not worth your time and love. go for the guy your heart wants! even though its on your left, its always right! dont concentrate on how hot he is.. yea its nice to have a good looking guy but the ones that arent as hot still care for you alot -- i say go with the one that likes you the most. then go from there.
*good luck*
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I know how to masturbate and everything but how do you finger yourself? (link)
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uhhh...i duno. ask sumone else that does it!
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My mom doesn't think I should have a boyfriend but I'm 13!!! I think this unfair because a lot of my friends have boyfriends. I had to reject three people I might have said yes to, including the guy I like.I try talking to my mom about it but she just won't budge. I can't have a boyfriend until highschool!
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thats gay. she just doesnt want you getting pregnat at an early age. so just go out with a guy without her knowing and dont have sex!
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im 13/f and my sister whose 19 moved out about 1 1/2 yrs ago nd recently moved back in. She had a really controlling boyfriend and they were hooked on heroine. My mom had agreed to let her move back in if she stopped doin in. She moved back in about 2mnths ago and got rid of the old boyfriend. She got a new boyfriend but she's still using drugs. it's not just a once in a while thing either, its everyday, and as i said, my mom doesnt know and shes always saying how proud she is that my sister stopped doing drugs. I don't want to wreck me nd my sistersn relationship, but i think my mom needs to know because im afraid my sister will hurt herself.
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wow. u need to talk to ur sister about that one! tell her that you really want her to stop and you care for her and you dont want to hurt her. I know it is really hard to do that, but just dont be afraid to..it is sumthing that is hella important and if you dont talk to her she could die!! then if she doesnt listen tell ur mom.. ur sister will be really madd but she will thank you later in life.
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okay well i really need a guy in my life... someone who is there for me and can help me with my problems... because it seems like all my friends are like blocking me or something it just isn't fair.. :-/ i want a sweet guy who knows how to confert a girl... does anyone know that feeling?? (link)
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of coarse!! i think all girls at one point or another have that same exact feeling! find a guy that you like and GET TO KNOW HIM! if you dont then most likly it wont work out. once you get to know him then just start flirting and giving him little clues that ur into him!
*hope i helped*
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OK ive been going out with my bf for a week so far but I'm still kinda nervous around him cuz I like him so much. I want to surprise him and kiss him in like an empty hall tomorrow when we're walking together to show him that I really like him but I need like a game plan here lol can anyone help me out ? Thanks so much! (link)
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aww thats cute! i think when you two are walking in the hall you should say goodbye to him and give him a hug then give him a kiss! say i love you! cus most guys dont know how much a girl really likes them.
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ok... this boy..i like alot... pays my way in a movie.. we make out in the movie...hehe.. and he holds me and my hand as while we walk down a mall... he also asks me 2 homecoming.. but he hassn't asked me to be his girlfriend yet... does he have feelings for me like i do for him??.. i cannot tell.. how can i know??.. or should i ask him out??.. (link)
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i find that really odd. you shud talk to him. tell him that you have feelings for him and ask him if he has the same feelings for you. cus if he does all that and asks you to homecoming, i would think he does like you. maybe hes just nervous to ask you out or sumthin.. soo i think the best thing is to talk to him!
*good luck*
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If a guy likes you and you like him... but u've already dated him and u want to date him again.. what do you do?? (link)
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you shud date him. it doesnt matter if you've dated him in the past.. i went out with my ex and he chaged alot. and it was better then the first time. so just go for it.
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So this guy likes me and hes really sweet and gives me really nice comments every day like o looked extra hot 2day and stuff like that and well i like to feel good and that makes me feel good be he likes me and wants to go out with me and i dont know if i feel that way i dont wanna say anything to him mean but i dont wanna go out with him because then i will just break his heart ahh! wut should i do? (link)
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well, you need to hang out with the guy. go to a movie with a group of people or sumthing to get to know him better. maybe hes giving you those comments cus he really likes you...or he just thinks ur hot and wants action. And if you dont like him then THATS OK!! he would rather you tell him the truth then go out with him and not even like him at all. i really doubt you will break his heart. because you either break up or get married -- soo he will have plenty of time to find the right person. just explain that you dont think you are the right person for him!
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ok so theres this boy named brad..n he is soo hott...but he dates mii friend named sarah.. but it seems like he flirts with me.. i mean we make each other laugh.. n he waits 4 me when i ask him 2.. but his g/f sarah goes 2 another skool... but she is mii bff.. but i like him.. how can i get him 2 like me and how can i tell if he likes me?? (link)
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who cares if he is hot!! well if he is going out with ur BFF then 4get about him!! friends are wayyy more important then boyfriends! and he shouldnt even be liking you if he has a gf. you need to find some one else who is better then that guy. you both cant have him..so you need to pick.. brad, or sarah?
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Theres this girl that was once one of my best friends. But just within the past 4 months shes been hangin out with the "so called popular" peaople at my school.I felt like she ditched me for them. Then, this new girl came and my friend is totally attchted to her. She wont ever shut up about her. And this new girl happens to judge others while not evn taking the time to get to know them. She gives the people bad looks and thinks her shit dont stink, and that all the guys like her cuz she got T&A. My friend won't even say "hi" to me anymore, but instead gives me "the look" and goes off and whispers with her new "friends". I still want to be friends/aquantinses with her, or should I? (link)
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well i think you need to accept the fact that she is fitting in and making new friends. but if you really want to be her friend then just talk to her online sometime. she wont mind. ((btw im pretty sure i know who this is!))
hah* just to let yea know!
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Hey kelsey, i have alittle question. you see i met this boy who lives in my neighborhood and we started talkin online to each other. well one day he asked me out and i just told him that i wanted to be friends and he kinda got mad but said it was cool. i mean instead of a boyfriend, i wanted a older bro to lean on and when i told him that i was crushin on another guy, he got pissed and blocked me and all this other crap. and now that i think bout him even more, i think im fallin and i just dont know what to do. please help me girl. you have given me awesome advice before and i need some more now. so what should i do. love ya lots. ::confused&twisted up inside:: (link)
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hey hun.
he should have understood and respected that you just wanted to be friends. I think he just really liked u alot and when you turned him down he got really sad. But if you think you like him more than the guy u were crushin on, go on another screen name, explain to him that you were just a little confused at the time, and tell him you like him. *i hope i helped*
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my bf(15) and i(13) have been going out for a couple of months and we're ready to have sex together. we wanted to try oral sex first but i have no idea how to give a blow job or anything!!! can you tell me like what to do because i don't want to seem like a fool when it comes time to do the job. can you help?? thanks and love ya tons!!
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ur a little young to be doing that but if you want to watch old school or boat trip or sumthing! lol. cas i dont know how.
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how come you women play hard to get and keep us guys guessin? (link)
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umm.. look at the very first question i answered.
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this girl and me had sex down my the beach under a dok on a blanket. things got alittle outa control but i wasnt thinking, so i might not b a virgin anymore and im not shur...im interested in finding out if i still am,so should i ask her if..it went in?-signed helpless and horny (link)
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well i think you would know if it did¿ but if you dont know for sure ask her. *use preotection*
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hello.. im 14, and i've been having a lot of problems lately.. my parents have been fighting a lot for a while now and its mostly about me and my sister.. i always get yelled at for nothing and my dad gets mad so easily.. most of their fights r my fault cuz i always seem to do things to make them mad.. they yell at me for being on here too much but when i go by them they start fighting over something i say or just about anything.. also my sister has won herself the reputation of a whore.. and it bothers me because, arent u supposed to look up to ur sister? how am i supposed to look up to mine if she makes all these bad choices and lies all the time.. on top of all that my best friend found out i said something about her and shes pissed, i'm so stressed out over all this and when i get stressed i cut my wrists (any of u that read this.. dont start, i have sucha bad habit of cutting and it makes u emotionally depressed and it just makes everything worse) i no cutting is wrong but its sucha bad habit now i cant stop.. my head says it makes everything better but inside i because more depressed.. i think about suicide a lot but luckily i'm too chicken right now, i hate my life and sometimes i think that it would be easier to just pay someone to kill me.. my friends help me out and this guy that really likes me and i like is so worried about me and he said next time i cut hes telling my parents so the puts a lot of stress on me too.. its hard to quit such bad habits
i guess my question for u is.. what do i do with myself.. i need ur help.. please (link)
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ok. i know how that is.. i can really relate to ur problems. First of all, there are so many people that care about you. you dont realize it but they do. If that guy realy likes you you shud go out with him! he could really make things seem alot better! i know that cutting is a bad habbit.. and its like smoking, its soo hard to stop. But just think of this, in the future when you get ur physical, they will see your scars, and they will send you into rehab! so if you dont stop just count on that. Your scars will fade, but never go away. you will regret it! anyways, tell ur best friend ur really sorry for what you said and tell her ur situation, if you cant look up to your sister find somone else to look up to!
*i really hope i helped*
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