Casiaroox's advice column

ok i feel like such a retard, but this guy wants to go to the movies..but idont know what to do! like i'm such a retard when it comes to guys..is it like, weird to go with them if you're not going out? and do you lean toward them..and if they put their arm around you...ahh help!

just go! its gonna be fun talk during the movie and laugh its not weird its like a date thats all

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What does lol mean?

laugh out loud

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everyone says it comes natural..but i don't realluy see how..i'm going to the movies tomorow night with my b/f and i know he'll try to kiss me.how do you french kiss?..what do i do?..move in close my eyes then what?! i'm guna cry..lol i'm 14 and it'll be my first kiss?..any step-by-step advice or encouragement is greatly appreciated

well all you do is basicly kiss them then open your mouth and stick your tounge out and massage it with theirs and making out is the same thing but you stick your tounge in occasionaly and your french kiss over and over again its easy!!

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hi. i have really long legs and im very thin... great rite.. well whenever i go anywhere and im wearing a skirt or short i get really dirty looks and stares from other girls! i cant stand it. i feel awful and so uncomfortable. Is there something wrong with long legs? do i look like a giant or something? they make me feel out of place :(
what should i do?
thanks

omg you must look gorgeous then. i am tall and i am skinny and people in the model indrustry like that belive me. i was one. so dont care about what they say screw them your gorgeous no matter if they think anything

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hi. im going into 9th grade and in 4'9 and i weigh 74 pounds. Im so tiny short and skinny and bcuz of that i look like a 3rd grader! i always got things like what grade r u in? and "i think ur lost little girl" like i just graduated 8th grade and on the 1st day of skool i was going to home room and this new girl saw me and shes like 6th grade is downstairs this is 8th grade. i hate it! now im going into high skool! im so worried n upset! in going to b with 18 year olds! Im gonna feel so out of place. help

LAUREN

you will grow just say um im 18 or whatever im on the right floor dont take it seriously so what if you a little short? does that take away any of your talents or anything??? no.

hope i helped! casia

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ok i'm almost 14 and i've known this guy since i was 7 everyone thinks that we will end up together but he's 5 years older than me i've always had a crush on him but it's one of those little girl crushes and everyone won't shut up about it how do i get them to stop

everytime they say something change the subject!

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hey yall im really skinny :/ it gets annoying bcuz i want to gain weight cuz im lack a sick of bones and its not vey healthy looking and im kinda flat and have no butt.. i tryed eating more! and i eat ALOT. i just dont gain weight. my friends tell me not to worry and that theyd kill to b as skinny as me. what should i do?

eat more i guess im really skinny too and my friends say that they want my body but its good to be skinny cuz you wanna stay skinny all your life!

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ok well i saw someone ask do guys like brown or blonde hair better? and then they said "blondes hot browns sexy" but honestly..which one do u prefer?

well imma brown so i prefer browns but blondes are sexy [imma girl and not a lesbian im talkinga bout guys]

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okay ive been messing with the new layout and i dont know if i should change anything about it... could you check it out and tell me what you think?

love Michelle ( blackmamba)

ITS AWESOME

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hi. my rich grandparents just bought me a saleen s7 for my 16th bday. I LOVE THE CAR and ive always wanted it. The only problem is, even though my neighborhood is fairly nice nobody has a car like mine and everyone is making fun of me! they say rich girl, spoiled brat, snob and stuff like that. My car got egged too :(. How can i make this stop??
thankz

just say im not rich my grandparents fot it for me its not a big deal by the way i want your car.

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Hi. Im 14, 5'4 and 93 pounds. I no thats not considered overweight, but when i look in the mirror i feel fat. My friends tell me that im skinny and they wish they were as skinny as me but i think they are just trying to b nice. ahh i think i might have an eating disorder but i also feel fat! help me
thanx

omg i have the same problem i weigh 90 but i feel fat sometimes too it annoys me also you dont have a eating disorder its normal dont worry about it

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Theres this group of really kool hot guys that r obsessed with me. They say all this stuff and they started doing it it front of my mom. like one time i was on the deck with my friend and my mom was in the backyard and there like hey sexy, they grap me in certain places, and they keep looking me up and down! SO UNCOMFORTABLE!!! they do in right in front of my oms face!! i dont want to lose the attention from them but i cant have them doing that in front of my mom! HELP thanx srry so long

ErIcA!

then tell them to stop doing it infront of your mom cause you dont wanna get in trouble, sometimes you really could

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I get emails from alot of secret admirers who i guess go to my school. They say that im the hottest person they've ever known and want to fuck me and stuff like that. They also talk about specific parts of my body. Like they talk about my ass n boobs n stuff like that and its creepy! its happened more than 3 times. I feel like im being stalked! Help what should i do?
thanx

write them back telling them they are freaks and they need to back off or you will find out who they are, thats freaky!

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i have and incredibly small penis my friends call me my friends call me teni weni (my last name is valenTINI)my girlfriend went dowm my pants and she asked wheres ur penis and the looked and laughed and left my house
how can i get her back?
i love her

if you have a small penis uhh so? she should love you for you not for your penis thats stupid and i personally think you should get over her cause thats not funny and if your friends call you that laugh with them so then they think it doesnt bother you

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Okay, I'm 13 and I wear a B size bra, and thats like all guys like me for. Im tired of them making rude comments about it. I'm always afraid to get a boyfriend because i think thats all they like me for.. please help!!!

just say something back if they say a comment and make sure your boyfriend doesnt do anything if you get one if he keeps looking at your boobs he is not good for you

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me and eddie ( me exboyfriend ) broke up about 2 months ago, we went out for 3 years and things were really serious. i was 12 wen i went out with him and now im 15.i lost all my friends, and he lost all his.he broke up with me about 2 years ago and he was cheating on me for the last week of our realationship.i finally got over him and he came back to me.so we have been going out ever since.eddie is very controlling.he wouldnt like it if i had on makeup,he would get mad when i wore a thong to school, i had NO guy friends, and it was jus bad. i broke up with him bout 2 months ago cuz i couldnt take it anymore. he had an anxiety attack and went to the emergnecy room. he begs me everyday to go back out with him .ive been talking to a couple of guys and hes been threatin them.i have to admit- i do play with his head, one day im havin sex with him, then the next i dont talk to him. but now im really sick of it cause we still fite wen we dont even go out. i think i love him but idk if i shood talk to him or jus not talk to him at all. but if i hear he is with another girl ill get upset. im really confusing but i just need advise , should i not talk to him again? [ me and him cant work out as friends ] or jus try to aviod him..oh ya i saw ur pictures ur madd pretty

hmmm i think that you need to let go if hes that controlling and if you still love him sure but tahts hard to deal with seriously

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iv liked a guy fer 2years..and we have had our "thing" but now its done and he dsont want me ne more...n i havent had a b/f n ferveer...n im jsut at the point where i want to come 2 some1 i love and who loves me to and jsut be able to have some1 who cares for me like that yah know...its been ferever...n its killing me jsut like seeing coupples 2gether knowing i dont have that*

omg im here with you i want to be in a "relationship" bad too, just find your guy flirt like crazy and he'll come

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just went to put this awsome background on my page.. and it wouldnt work ((this is advicenators im talkin about lol)) help me i totally screwed it over and it looks like pure crap help quick ill rate u

i can help you ive done alot of peoples advice colomn give me your screen name or im me ill help you my screen name is casiaroox

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