hi . . . errr . . . i like giving advice but not sure why! i have blonde hair and blue eyes! i enjoy sims (best game invented), i like to read, shopping and all the other stuff, ordinary for a girl of my age! i answer pretty much any question that int just stupid!! hope i can help, anna
Gender: Female
Location: Manchester, England
Age: 14
MSN: annasz150@hotmail.com
Member Since: April 14, 2005
Answers: 41
Last Update: August 8, 2005
Visitors: 2538
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Okay my boyfriend(Steve) means alot to me and i mean alot to him. I care about him so much w/ like everything i've got, i am so afraid of losing him, me and him have been thru way too much for us to break up now. We've been together for like 9 months now and he has become the love of my life, the person i wanna be with forever, he has this friend(Shana) and they've been freinds for like mad long before i ever came in the picture and i dont want them to stop talkin but at the same time its like i am VERY VERY jealous of the girl, i dont know why i am but i am. Its really weird cause theres other girls he talk to and i really dont care about them, but her i do, and he's going into the air force in 75 days and i know for a fact that i wont do nothin wrong while hes gone , and i trust him but what if something happens and he finds someone else and doesnt come back for me.. In the past i have done shit that maybe gives him a reason to not trust me like i cheated on him ONCE and never again and i lied to him about cigarettes, but after all that and we talked about it i dont think i could lie or cheat on him again, the reason why i know why i wouldnt cheat is because that was like at the beginning of the relationship and all the shit we've been thru after that happened i dont think i could do that to him, hes the reasom why i made it thru all of it(it was a big mother-daughter-moms bf thing).. i love him alot, i dont even think LOVE is the exact word but its the closest. He is the best tbig thats stepped into my life and i am afraid of losing him, we also argue alot too, and we both accuse each other of things but then we talk it out. please what do u think is the future for us?
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Your clearly very worried about this. it seems to me you have one choice. you have to come straight with him, ask him how he feels for you. if you feel the answer isn't impresive but he is still saying he loves you, you can ask him about Shana, but whatever you do, DON'T sound patronising!! however he may tell you he loves you and give an impressive answer . . . if he does you shouldn't really worry about Shana. if after you're still feeling jealous then don't be afraid to ask him. if he tells you, you have nothing to worry about then trust him!! Good Luck i hope it works out... let me know how it goes!!
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