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Alex,
I dont know how to ask out a girl without being gay. Could ya help me? Thx...
"Ladies!"- lol (link)
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Just go up to her and say, "Hey, do you want to go out with me?" It gets to the point quickly. Good luck with that.
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OMG!!!!!!!!! I FUCKIN LOVE YOU BUT I HAVE A BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!! and i no i will never have a chance with uu
what do i do ????????????? (link)
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Well, you could try telling me who you were first. That would help. Adios.
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i've been playing the drums and my best friends say i stink like farts. i cried and they laughed at me. i don't know why i stink at playing the drums. i know i am good, even if i only play drums once a week. that is enough right? how can i stop them from saying i am bad at the drums? (link)
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Well, maybe you should try practicing. If you do that, then they won't say that you are bad and they won't laugh at you.
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heyy alex ook im goin out with someone and i like him alot but it doesnt seem like he likes me as much or maybe like he will dump me ..what do i do thnx byee (link)
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Well, in a relationship, you should always trust your boyfriend/girlfriend. If he/she says he/she likes you, then you have to have trust in him/her and believe him/her when they say they like you. Also, I know for a *fact* that the person you are thinking of likes you because I am friends with that person. Good luck.
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My friend likes my boyfriend and that doest bother me because evryone can like who they want. But what does bother me is somthmes she flirts with him and stuff and it makes me feel unconforable(SP?).What do i do???? (link)
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Well, it's good that you don't mind your friend liking your boyfriend. You should tell you friend that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If you did, then maybe she would stop. Good luck.
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i got into this fight with someone and then i was like being mean to her... how do i get a boyfriend? everyone thinks im so mean and i have no friends becuase all i want is a bf
how do i get 1?!? (link)
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Well, wanting a boyfriend can cause a loss of friends. You should try having friends and a boyfriend if you can. What I would say to do is apologize to her so everyone thinks your nice, and also just be nice to other people, especially the boys you want to go out with. Being nice always makes people think you are a good person. Good luck.
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this girl likes me and thinks im hot and wants to go out with me and i want to go out with her but i dont want to buy her a present for christmas, and my grades are going down, what should i do? (link)
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Well, if you really liked her then I think you would be able to buy her a small present at least. If your grades are going down and you want to keep them up, tell her you need to fix your grades first then try going out. That will usually work. Good luck.
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hey alex ur hott will u go out with me (link)
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Too bad I don't know who you are. I'm assuming it's a joke from someone anyway.
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hey, umm i want a gf but i dont know who to ask out and i dont think anyone likes me, can you help me out without giving me any gay answers? (link)
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Well, you must think some people are hot. If you didn't, no offense, but I would be a little worried. Why don't you ask someone out that you think is hot? Or even better, if you like someone, ask them out. It doesn't matter if they don't like you before you ask, because the girl might think that you are cool after you ask since you were brave enough to ask her. That happens a lot of the time. A girl doesn't like a boy but says yes and they get to know each other and she ends up liking him a lot. I know a few people that that happened to. Good luck.
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hey alex,
i like this boy and he thinks im hott...so i think we would be the perfect couple....but the only thing in the way is that he has a girlfriend and nobody likes her
please help :) (link)
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Well, you shouldn't try and break up him and his girlfriend. If they did finally break up, he wouldn't go out with you because of the fact that you tried to do that. The only thing you can really do is wait and see if they break up. I'm sure if he realizes that no one likes her that he will dump her and most likely go out with you. Good luck.
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heyy alex
ok...umm.. i like this kid hus like my best friend cauz ive known them since i was lke 2!! i dont knoe wut to do becauz i like them and all but they dont like me bak..they prefer to be friends... any advice? (link)
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Well, you can't make someone like you. That is the hard part about this situation. You really like them, but they don't like you back. You can try to accept the fact that he doesn't like you and just wants to be friends. Another option is to tell him that you like him and see what he says. If you never tell him, you'll never know what he thinks. Lastly, you can try to suggest to him that you like him. I say suggest as in almost flirting with him so he knows but not too much. That's about all I can say on this one. Sorry. Good luck.
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ok, you see sometimes i really wanna say sumthin to my friends but i dont wanna get into a fight with them. Sometimes they say something that bothers me and i wanna say sumthin bak... i dont wanna be mean so i just dont say ne thing, but i really wanna. ?????? (link)
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Well, I have a few options to this one. One thing you can do is next time they say something to you tell them not to say it next time. If they continue to say it, tell them how you feel. I know how it feels when someone talks about you like you won't get hurt by what they say. Tell them that you don't like them talking about you disrespectfully like they have been. Good luck.
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i like this boy and i asked him to the dance and he ended up saying no it didnt bother me but wat does is wen online and stuff he is the nicest kid ever but then in skool he goes around calling me a blimp!! i mean i didnt do anything to him and i think he does it because he wants attention because some of his friends do it to. Ive told him before to stop acting fake and he wont stop he keeps callin me that how can i tell him to stop acting fake so hell listen to me he treats me like crap and im sick of it! (link)
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Well, no one (including me) likes to be called names. I know how you feel. It sounds like you have tried saying no but it didn't work. The next thing you should try and to just tell him right in front of his face why your mad at him. It will be even better if his friends are around, to see you stand up to him. Last of all, if he keeps doing it, just don't talk to him, in school or on aim. Just give him the cold shoulder. Good luck.
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hey alex i kno zap is soo soo soo old but i really like this guy and i want to ask him out but if he says no and thinks that i really do like him (witch i do) i think he'll make fun of me so u u think i should just have one of my friends zap me to him and then ask him or should i just ask him out
does that make sence ???
plzz help me (link)
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Well, if you really want to ask him out, then do it. It doesn't matter whether it's from a zap or just a regular ask out. Just to be on the safe side, I would go with the zap. That way, if he does say no, say you don't really like him and that you only did it because it was a zap. Even though you really do like him, it was save you from embarrasment. Good luck.
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Dear Alex,
The dance is coming up soon and my bf just said he didnt want to go. Then he said if he did go he just wanted to go with his friends and not with me. Yet I really want to go with him.
Even though he did not say anything about breaking up does this mean we are not going out any more? If it means we still are going out should I say sonthing to him? Also, is wanting to go with him selfish? (link)
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In my opinion, I don't think it means your not going out. Maybe he hasn't had time to have fun with his friends in a while. If he said he wants to go with his friends, he probably does. I think you should let the man have his fun. And no, I don't think it's selfish to want to go with him. Good luck.
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Hi Alex!! I am going out with this guy who i really really like. Every1 says he likes me.My old friends say he doesnt really like me and sometimes I feel like he really doest like me and he likes someone eles 2. I think the only reason he went out with me is cuz he knew i liked him and he felt bad. Can u tell me wat to do?
From,
clueless (link)
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Well, I have a few answers to this. First of all, if your going out, he must like you. Second, you said your old friends say he doesn't really like you. If they're your old friends, most likely they are going to be rude to you and say something like that. That is probably why you aren't friends with them, because they were like that. Lastly, a relationship won't last unless you guys trust each other. If you've asked him before and he said he doesn't like anyone else, then you should believe him. If you don't believe him, he could think that the relationship won't work. Good luck.
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so hey alez first i think this advice thing is cool
well i like this kid lets call him bob and some one told me he was gonna ask me to the dance and i was going to say yes but i freaked out.. and everyone is sayin if he does still ask me say no cause hes not a good person and now when ever i look at him it doenst fell the same
plz help alex (link)
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Well first of all thank you for the comment. The answer to your question I would have to say is to maybe try and talk to him more before the dance comes. Get to know him if you can. Then you can make a decision whether he is a good or bad person. Of course, if you don't get a date to the dance, you can always go with your friends as a last resort. Good luck.
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hey alex,
me and my 3 friends want to ask caitlyn costello out and we want to know if you think she'll say yes or not?
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Well, I wish I could say yes but I don't know what to say. I'm only here to give advice, not to tell the future. Also, how would I know if she was going to say yes if I don't even know who you are. Good luck.
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hey alex...i really like this boy but my best friend is goin out with him...we neva talke ne more...she never calls me ne more and she like hates me...i want to stay best friends with her but idk how to get through to her that i love her and that no boy should get in the middle of our friendship..ive tried talk to her but it didnt work so well...plz help me:( (link)
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This situation happened to me, too. Of course it would be different because guys would react to this differently than girls would. What I did to get through to my friend was instead of waiting for him to call me, I called him and made plans with him. We kept hanging out and eventually the two broke up. Just remind her that you will always be there for her because you are her friend. Good luck.
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dear,alex
my parents forbid me to talk to this guy, i like him alot though but the problem is he thought i liked one of my friends mike and he told me that it wasn't easy for him to get over me but i'm not so sur i'm totaly over him but i don't want to put him in that situation agien what do I do.
love,bee (link)
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Well, I know what your talking about. This EXACT same thing happened to me .. .. .. but it's over now. I'm not sure what you mean by you don't want to put him in that situation again. I'm not sure if your saying you want to like him again but you don't want him to have to go through with that all again. I think you should try not to like him again, because I'm a guy that went through this EXACT same situation and I don't mean to be a pessimist, but I don't think he will like you again if he went through something like that. Well, at least I don't like the girl anymore so I don't think he will. Good luck.
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