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I'm blunt. If you want me to answer your questions, expect the truth. I'm not going to sugar-coat it for you because that's just a fancy way of lying. I love helping people with their relationship problems. Since I was twelve, I've had family memebers and people I don't know spill their guts to me. Why? I have no idea. People find me easy to talk to, apparently, even though I rarely open up to anyone, even my best friends. I feel that I'm here to listen, not to talk and that if I can help them with their problems, I can get rid of my own. I'm an really odd person. You can know me one day and the next I'll be someone different.

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E-mail: SmallHyperGurl@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Born in Arkansas but raised all around the world.
Occupation: Student
Age: 17
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Member Since: February 11, 2004
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Last Update: November 30, 2007
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i am so confused. i have never met my father or any of his family. My mom has told me the story of how they met and has given me a picture, but that just isnt enough. i want to go to sacremento to find my family from his side. should i travel across the country alone? who should i tell? i dont know what to do. where do i belong?

Heheh...There is a book you need to read. Its about a Japanese American little girl who's father died in a car accident after his parents disowned him for marrying an American. The girl, Kim, is just like you. She acutally does travel to Sacremento [wow...that's weird how the story fits you so well.] by herself. But! Her baby sitter found someone she could stay with while she found her lost family. The book is called Kim/Kimi. I suggest it because it may help you figure everything out.
*Family is family, no matter how little you know*
Abby

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HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE!

-.- Valentines day is the worst day of the year sometimes....

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I have a biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig butt. Every guy just stares as i walk into the room because my butt is sooooo big. I don't want people to see me as a small waist and a big butt. Please tell me how to make my butt appear smaller

Hunny, I wish I had your butt. I have NO butt what so ever. I only weight 95lbs so I'm a stick. Basically, sweetie, what I'm saying is don't fret over a big butt. It's just appart of who you are. The only way to make people see you for you and not your butt is by accepting your body as a beautiful work of art. When you finally do this, you will have a beautiful glow about you, showing off not only your body but also your face.
*Being yourself is the key to being Happy*
Abby

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I really need more sex moves me and my husband have sex in the morning for about and hour and at night for about four.So we have sex alot and we don't have any new moves.Tell me everything you know please.

Wow...like rabbits are we? Well tell me, are you hoping to get pregnant? As for your question, a good idea to find sex moves and other fun things to do in bed...or out...go buy one of those sex books that has all sorts of different ways to do it. Take up yoga as well...you AND your husband. Some of the sex moves in the books are rather hard to do if your not flexable. Also, I recommend, to keep the sex afresh, stop having sex at least one week out of the month. In fact, barely speak with one another and don't sleep in the same bed if possible. That way, when you go have sex again, you are craving him and he's craving you with a strong passion. It'll wear both of you out and you'll be amazed how long it can last.

*Sex is the only way to please your body totally and surely*
Abby

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dp you know any other moves me and my husband can do I tried what you said last night oh the look on his face just so you know I'm 18.Yeah I know it's kind of weird that I'm already married but I've liked my husband since the 3rd grade.I guess you could say we are soul mates.Anyways you seem prety experianced hopefully you have more sex moves I can use!!!

Hehe, I'm not *really* experienced but I am, lets say....Ultra Kinki? Have you seen those sex swings you can get to hang up on the ceiling? The girl sits in the saddle and there is straps on the sides for her legs to go in and be open. All the guy has to do is slip in! What I absolutely love to do is start up a duck. If you've ever watched Dharma and Greg, you'll understand. But if you haven't I'll explain. In this game, you have to have as much sex as you can handle. But the catch is...you have to have sex in public or some other risky place. It's a contest between you and your husband agaisnt another couple or couples. I've been doing it with some of my friends and I have yet to be topped!

*Sexual pleasures are the sweetest of all*
Abby

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I would like someone to tell me how it really is in the airforce and what its all about. I am planning on signing up soon. I would like to know everything, good and definetly all the bad. Thank u =)~

I'm an Air Force brat. My dad has been in the military for almost 30 years and is retiring in August. So my entire life has been military style. We have never lived in one area for more than four years. As a kid, I hated it. Everytime I'd make friends, I'd have to leave them again. But, from a explorer's point of view...I've been everywhere. London, France, Italy, Japan, Germany, Korea...You name it, I've probably been there. It's been the best experience in my life. I can speak four different languages and I have no problem learning new ones. In the Air Force, you will move a lot. But it's not always bad. You know people EVERYWHERE. It's an awesome experience and I truely recommend it.
*Military Brats Rock*
Abby

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Do you know of any good sex moves or fun stuff that me and my husband can do in bed?

Yup...But they have nothing to do with a bed. Because you two are married, you're sex life is probably getting pretty boring, isn't it? Spice it up! Get kinky with it! Surprise your husband one day by pulling out hand cuffs and teasing him. Get one of those little outfits that have no crotch and little holes for the nipples. And get out of the bed! Hey, you could even have a nice romantic date then jump in the back of the car and do it. Do something that you know if you get caught, you'll get in trouble for. It makes it sooo much funner. And funnier for us if you get caught.
*Do it in the backyard while it's raining*
Abby

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What do boys REALLY like in a girl? All these magazines & stuff say that they love what's inside, not outside. Is this true or is it crap?

IT'S CRAP! Yah, all girls dream of finding a guy who all he truely wants is a girl with a great mind and wonderful personality. But look at the photos next to the articles in the magazines...ALL OF THE GIRLS ARE BEAUTIFUL! Every guy wants a girl with a nice breast size and big butt and a small waist. 90% of the guys in this world want nothing but sex from a girl, that's why they get the hot ones and trick them into thinking they want to 'show their love' by having sex. The truth is no guy in this world can acutally honestly say he doesn't want a pretty girl. Nope, nu huh, it ain't gonna happen! Sure, you find a guy that truely does care that you're a good person or have a beautiful mind, but he's also got a thing about the girl being pretty. Guys are animals, they only think of sex, sex, and more sex. Remember that when the next guy says, "Having sex is the only way I can express my love for you and your wonderful personality!"

*Slimballs are guys in a cuter package*
Abby

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I like this boy named Robert. The only problem is he doesn't know. How can I tell him? The next problem is he doesn't know my name. I think I'm cursed. What should I do?

Cursed, are we? Nah. You've just got a little bad luck. If you like this Robert, introduce yourself. Does he have any special qualities? I remember a guy that I had a huge crush on that didn't know I existed till I made my introduction. I walked up to him and licked his cheek and said, "You're cute and you taste like candy." Thankfully, he just laughed and asked my name. Since then, we've been great friends. If you wanna talk to Robert, be original! Don't be all, "Hey, my name is Lucy and I think you're cute." Be creative. Guys dig girls who don't have a problem with being open about themselves or hiding who they truely are.

After you two talk on the phone alot, get him to play twenty questions. About ten questions into the game, ask if he likes you. And go from there!

*Individualism is the best thing that happened to women*
Abby

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if your boyfreind was wearing a condum could you still get pregnat i mean does the sperm go through the condum?

I only have three words for this, "Hole in Rubber." It split or it had a hole in it. But you know, that's why the condom package says "99.9% effective." It's great that you use protection of some sort, but as a backup incase the condom does break, I suggest taking birth control. Both ways are only 99% effective anyway, so if you have both, the probability that you will get pregnant is so slim it's practically nonexistant. Use everything you've learned about safe sex, even if it means not having sex at all.

*Safe sex, best sex*
Abby

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