Hey my name is Toni, i just ended my freshman year of highschool and like to give advice =) i figured if i started one of these i could help people since i havent done so in a while. Ask me anything and i'll answer you as soon as i can. =)
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Location: Mass
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Member Since: June 27, 2005
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Ok, here's the thing, I like this guy. He's also my friends boyfriend and I know she really likes him, but she's trying to hook us up together. I don't know, should I let her, or just ignore it completly? (link)
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wait.. your friend is trying to hook you up with her boyfriend? -Toni-
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ok i have a question??
softball rite i no im not that good but i want to play intill college maybe in.... but wat about basketball i like that too and volleyball im sooo frigen confused cuz im like not awesome at really nething so i cant pick and i hate how everything takes up so much of my time its crazy later
zig..
"thats great" (link)
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ahhh i knoww.. tell me about it haha. im excited. well lol, its pretty much up to you. Your wicked good at softball and basketball, though i never really seen you play volleyball. Softball in college you would get into shape, but basketball you would probably more. Softball you would get tan, basketball you wouldnt. But idk how much you run in volleyball so.. if you think of it another way, you get cool uniforms for college basketball and same with softall =) i personally wouldnt play volleyball, just cause you have to wear spandex =) haha. -Toni-
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my computer is broken and it bothers me....
i just cant take it any more!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OMG IM GONNA CRY
help me zagammmi!
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dude, wanna buy a dell.
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okay i asked if we could talk and he said no and i talked to him before at that party and at the end he gave me a hug and told me goodbye in the sweetest wat like he used to when we were goin out. tehn we ended up talkin ova this past weekend and he told me he still has stuff of mine like my pictures and shit like that and then he told me he doesnt like me like that nemore but idk if hes tellin the truth. how should i try to get the truth out of him?? i mean i misshim a lot but i really dont wanna go back out with him for a reason in which he broke a promise to me. i mean i still like him and i sometimes cry because of him but i have to find someone else. what should i do?? (link)
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dont keep running back to him no matter how dumb that sounds. the farther you are from someone and the less you talk about them the more u miss them and think of the past. well if you dont talk to him and try your best to forget about it he might run back to you. and him keeping the old pictures and stuff tells u something.. a lot of guys would toss that. keep an eye out on him but at the same time try to move on. -TOni-
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Ok....I really have this problem...I like 2 people in my school. Jon and Cory. Cory is very popular. Jon is not. Cory is better looking. Jon is nice. Cory is really mean to my friends. Jon is not. It's really weird. I know Jon sounds like the perfect one but I really like Cory. I have liked Cory for 4 years...but I know I have no chance with him, ever. I have liked Jon for 2 years and I do have a chance with him. But I love Cory, I really do. But he confuses me...he tells me he sees me only like a friend...but then he flirts with me all the time. Jon tells me he likes me but then he tells other girls that he likes them and not me. It's so confusing and I don't know who really likes me. Please help! (link)
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if you know you have no chance with cory.. try to focus more on jon. most girls end up going for the cory and get in uncomfortable situations. one day you could just be hanging out and he says something about your friends. that wouldn't make u happy, would it? You would only be happy only knowing that your with a good looking guy. And you shouldnt go for the popular guys. Jon one of these days can just change so fast. It happens to all guys. Everyone knows that. If you did go out with jon would u be scared to what people thought? cause if thats the case dont be. As you get older you start to care less and less.. and you realize you just wanna be with the person who makes you laugh and happy. Not the one who makes fun of your friends and is a jerk. Whoever is "popular" is most likely not a nice guy.. it just happens cause they get so caught up in themselves. uk what i mean? Hope i helped. -TOni-
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okay here it goes....i still am like in love with my ex boyfriend (even tho i dumped him). he told me he wood neva forget me and wood neva be ova me and wood be hard for him to find someone else, now he has a new gf and introduced me to her at a birthday party for a family member of his. i was so uncomfortable and since that party thing i have had more feelings for him and i feellike i want him back. and at the saem time i like this otha kid but he already has a gf so im giving up on him and just gunna go thru the summa having fun but then i will see my ex and things will really start to suck cause he will be here for like a month. should i try to avoid my ex as much as possible when hes here even tho ill b at my friends house a lot and he goes right near her house because of who hes living with?? please toni help me! (link)
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oh man =/ well, when hes at the house hes staying at alone ask if he wants to hang out. To talk and stuff. If you think that its your fault for dumping him dont feel guilty. If he loved you and told you that it would be hard for him to find someone else and that he wouldnt get over you, wouldn't it be a lot longer till he went out with antoher girl? i mean personally whoever this is, that girl hes goin out with is like 9439853945 uglier than you.. that usually what happens haha. Desperate boys. Just hang in there. And like i said, the only way things will be fixed is if you talk to him. You dont know how he feels.. unless your like me.. and psychic. And right now i bet you a lot of ca$h he still has feelings for you like you do him. Hang in there kid. -TOni-
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my ex boyfriend and i are pratically going out again, as my 2nd chance. but theres this other guy. ive known him longer, and ive hooked up with him a few times. even tho its summer, i wanna hang out and see him, but i dont want to make my bf mad. i almost feel like i like this other kid, as i love my boyfriend. i have feelings that make me want to go out with this other kid, but i have a boyfriend that i love. what should i do? (link)
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oh man this is tough. But i'll manage. Keep going out with your boyfriend obviosuly, but keep talking to the other one so you dont lose him. You might regrret losing your boyfriend if anything happenes with the other, cause thats usually what happens and then your misserable for a long time =/ idk who this is but i wouldnt want that to happen to you anyways. whoever it is. If your feelings keep getting stronger for the other kid.. write me back. But things change you know,dont make them both stress you out. Stick with the one you love, until you think u actually love the other too. -TOni-
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alright so, i think i might liek this kid, and a few people kow about it, but not too many. im wicked scared that he thinks im a wicked loser or something, and i really wanna hang out with him but im scared he wont want to, and well frankly hes such a cool kid that he has a wicked big social life and hes awlays out all the time, and idk if hell have like enough time to hang out, ya know? and its a real shame cuz i think i might like him alot. what should i do toni? please help me. (link)
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dont be so scared. ask him what hes up to. what hes doing this summer. Ask him to hang out. YOu wont know until you do it. You know.. like i said before, do you wanna be the person who looks back and says to yourself, what if, what if i did.. what if he said.. you dont =/ best to find out, then if he dosent like u or ignores you, move on. Its summer! we wait how long for this stupid thing? 10 months?! haha have some fun kid =) but find out! you never know. -TOni-
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zagami, i have a friend, we'll say her name is fran. she is such a nice kid. i love her to death. but right now fran has another friend who has been a jerk to her for like ever. but fran still doesnt want to admit this. fran wants to keep making up with her other friend even though i know her other friend isnt worth the time. ive tried talking to fran about it. but it seems like she doesnt understand that instead of putting all her itme an effort into her other jerky friend she could be making friends with other better people. i dont think fran realizes what an awesome outgoing person she is. idk what to do. should i tell fran what im telling you? idk. please help. (link)
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wow.. lol sorry. I know exactly what your going through. And don't worry, fran realizes it. Oh does she ever.. and yeah, talk to her. Tell her what you told me. I'm in the same position right now, except i'm fran =/ And i have this friend who i don't wanna lose but then again everyone wants me to forget about her. The more you hang out with her more she will forget about her other friend. I mean summer is here, things change so fast. DOn't be mean about it though, just tell her you care and so many other people do too more than her other friend. Make her be on your side, but whatever you do, dont be mean to fran. Everyone does that to me and it just pushes me away from everyone more =/ But the people who are nice about it i appriciate more cause i know they dont wanna hurt me. I get a lot of "i'm done with you toni" and if fran gets that, who knows what might happen. Just talk to her though, she'll understand. Sooner or later. Time can be nothing but your enemy, has been for me. But in the end, it always works out. That is definate. -TOni-
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hey toni...my dog is a big dog, but a really good dog, and he is the nicest dog that i have ever had. he always sleeps right next to me, hes so gentle to the family and listnes to everything we tell him to do. sadly last week he became alittle too agressive with a stranger and we had to give him away. right now i am seriously the saddest that i have ever been. it sounds so stupid but he was my best friend and now i dont know what to do. i heard my rent talking it kinda seems like my dad might want another dog, and i sorta do too, but i just cant replace him like that. and im afraid that if i do get another one that ill like forget all about him and i dont want too, i miss him so much, you have no idea, well thanks for listening i just really had to vent, ttyl (link)
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eh =/ i'm sorry about your dog =/ i dont have a dog but then again i had a mouse. Actually it was my sister ginas mouse. haha i used to annoy that thing just for the hell of it.. pick it up or w.e..until one day i went downstairs and BAM! it was dead. i was really sad too. Just remember that it hasen't died and that someone else is takin care of it. And as for the new dog. name it your other dogs name and throw a jr. at the end of it. I'm sure it will be just as good =) Oh man.. i have a bird.. this is gonna stink when it dies =/ 8 years i had that thing. Maybe i should just give it away... and giving your dog away will just be better then seeing it die anyways.. then you would be really heartbroken =/ -TOni-
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hey. i moved in the middle of the school year and i was going out with this great guy. we last about 3 months after i moved, but he got grounded and i didnt rlly see him all that much so i though i should end it before him or i got hurt. so i did. but i few days ago i found the card and pictures that he gave me and i guess started crying and couldnt stop. I finally found out that i rlly do love him. ive knew him since 1st grade and i like him back then 2 but im to scard to call him because i think he hates me. but if i dont call him what if he rlly felt the same way about me? i dont kno what i should do! (link)
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the best thing you could do is just call him. looking back on the card and pictures will just make u feel the same way every time =/ thats the worst feeling.. not knowing if you should say something then wishing you didn't, or say nothing and wish you had. You personally can't be afraid to tell him you love him eirther. I mean if you do, he might break your heart, yeah, but if you don't, your right, you could break his. Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done, or could have done. -TOni-
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I have this really cute shirt but I don't know whether I should wear it or not cause my pet llama came to me in a dream and told me that everyone would laugh at me if I wore it. But I don't know cause it's REALLY cute. I think. What do you think? (link)
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haha wow. if i were you i wouldnt wear it.
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hey there, toni. i hear you give some good advice! well, i have some problems about my friend- her and i have been getting into fights lately.. maybe thats because we hangout everyday. but still- we got in a huge fight this weekend, and today! i think she thinks my house is her house and she can do what ever she wants to it, such as show up at my house with ppl when i wasnt even home.. and when i told her i thought that was rude.. she didnt understand why i was mad? i was like "okay, i am mad cause thats is kinda rude, and you couldve asked me, to come ove, but plus today was a day i wanted to juust hang out and relax by myself! like what should i do now? she seems to be mad AT ME?! when she has absolutly no reason.. but just today i told her we needed a break from eachother- she agreed. but she is still making me feel like complete shit :( ah toni what the heck do i tell her (link)
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i know exactly what your going through. people do that to me too, and i'll be in my room and i hear my door open and people walk in and go hello?! and like walk around my house then leave. Obviously you shouldnt walk into anyones house if its not yours, thats definatly a definate no. And especially with other people too. Well my advice to you for that would be lock your doors, thats what i do. Pull the shades down in the room your in.. they wont see you. About the fighting.. just take that break like u said and just let things slow down. Don't not hang out with her for so long to the fact she finds someone else to hang out with cause then your just gonna miss her =/ Talk to her aboutit.. and keep explaing. She'll understand. and if shes mad at you, she shouldnt be. Or i'll walk into her house and be like wheres your fridge bitchh? and walk to her kitchen. see how she likes it. Plus, best friends should understand.. just give it time. it always works out. -TOni-
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alriightt, well theres this incredile boy that i lovee sooo much anddd he .:says:. he loves me..but weve been "together" for a while but were not going out? idk he says were going to go out n stuff but its been a while now. what if he doesnt really like me? blah thiss sucks.
love your confused writter (link)
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knowing him hes one of those guys who flirts all the time and makes you just like him more and thats what makes you annoyed. just give it time, and soon it will pull through. Don't think he dosent like you, cause he probably thinks the same towards you as you do towards him. There might be something going on with him too, like another girl, and hes just waiting for things to cool off. Just give it time like i said and i'm sure things will work out. If not.. then write me back. -TOni-
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Here it is I like two girls one I have recently hooked up with and another that I have never seen lol. I don't know which way to go. I like the girl that i hooked up wtih but don't know if she likes me I htink so but idk if it will lead to something. Then on the other hand there is a cool girl that I have never met want to but haven't. S o there are many possibilities that may or may not happen. WHAT SHOULD I DO!!! ALL KNOWING TONI!!! (link)
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i got this one. keep trying to figure things out with the one you hooked up with. But at the same time, try to get to know the one you have never seen a little more. Things might come together sooner than you think.. i mean did you try asking the one you've never seen to hang out? ask sometime. And when you do thats when you'll decide whether or not to be confused. Hey for all you know she might like you back and that possibly could lead to something if she lives near you. It seems like she dosent considering you never seen her before. But hey how far is too far.. ? -TOni-
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ok, i like this kid, and you know the story..he has NO more school, but i got school tmm, and now im screwd cause i didnt ask him out when i had the chance:( ya i kno, great job on my part...but hey, i cant drive either so:-P i think you know the rest! TONI HELP ME! ilu kid (link)
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oh man thats what i hate about the end of school. =/ all those people you liked you wont be able to see for like 2 months.. but hey, if you can try to get his sn.. and if you have it talk to him. maybe ask who he likes and try to find out some stuff, but go into it casually.. haha i know u kid, youll be like I LIKE YOU!. wait no.. i mean.. shit.. am i going to fast? haha i mean hey, its better to find these things out late than never. -TOni-
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