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There's this boy that was in all my classes last year (in the 7th grade). Jock. Jerk. Popular. Biggest S.O.B. to walk the earth. Everyone liked him, but I loathed him. He would make fun of how unpopular and "weird" I was, he'd laugh with his scruffy friends during French whenever I made a mistake, he'd even call me bad names sometimes. So I got even with him and stole his baseball hat, and hid it, and laughed and made fun of him whenever he made a fruitless attempt to find it. I didn't even get in trouble! After a while, he found the hat. This year, he suddenly started being nice to me. He gave me compliments, started sending me IMs, etc. I was nice back, and in a suttle way we became friends, but I didn't forget how much of an asshole he was last year. Friday, this guy I barely know told me that he (the boy) said I was really hot and nice. I'm confused. Do you think he likes me or he's just scared I'll steal his hats?

i know i answer every question saying this but- really, either ask him about it, or have a friend ask him about it. its hard- but talking it out always works :)

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Hey!
this guy I like IMed me & was like " hey babe" & when i said i g2g he did the crying face.
Does this mean he likes Me?
ill rate you a 5 if you can help!

the only thing i can say- ASK HIM ABOUT IT

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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and sometimes when i am alone with him in his room i get sexual moodswings, like i want to do more with him, like today i went up there and we was all over each other, we was laying in his bed kissing and all of a sudden i looked and i was ontop of him literally making out with him, i have started my period and i dont want to push myself into doing everything but the question is,how do i stop myself from having those moodswings and were i have started my period if me n him actually did anything what would be the chances of getting pregnant? Please Help me, No sarcastic answers or i wont even rate u but if good answers i rate 5's.

theres not really a cure- but the best thing to do is put your mind on other things whenever u wanna do something... not good :-p

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Well I'm dating this guy... and he's really hott and I like him SO much... but it seems like everytime we hang out all we do is makeout and other stuff like that... and once I didn't really wanta do it and when I said I didn't feel like doing that he was like whatever and left! So I feel like thats all he's in this relationship for! And of course its fun... but I don't want only that in a relationship... and I kinda want to break up with him but I just like him so much! And I don't know why and I don't know what to do!

i think u need to talk to him about it- if he even wants to talk. if u dont want to talk to him about it- think of ideas of other fun stuff you guys could do together- to see if hes intrested in any other things.

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Okay bear with me on this....
See actually I see people give advice on my question alot but its not a really good answer so people that know please help... Well I am a freshman in high school and have never had a boyfriend. Ever. I mean I have grinded/danced with tons of guys but never had a boyfriend. I'm 14, thin naturally, etc etc. My friends are all like " I would not be suprised if you were nominated for Homecoming Court!" & "your so pretty!" and stuff uhh okay if I am good enough for that then why have I never had a boyfriend?? Ughh. I'm not shy. And how can I like meet guys from other schools? I mean I like the ones at my school too but I want to meet more... I mean I know where to go (like sports games, dances, etc.) but I can't just walk up to hott guys, I need conversation starter or something ya know? Please help! I rate high...

if your REALLY pretty- u can just ask sum guy if he knows where something is [ punch table, bathroom, etc ] but if theyre free, and they like your looks- then they'll notice u. I know it sounds like somethin from a movie- but it does SOMETIMES work!

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