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OK i asked the question earlier about the guy i met on vacation...all i kno is that he lived in north dakota with his dad who is in the air force and is moving to tennesse soon...i kno his mom lives in california and his first name is brendan...i guess ill never find him since i dont got his last name..:-( o well any tips on getting over him? (link)
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i've been through the same situation as you!!! what i did to get over him is, i just kept myself occupied all of the time! i signed up for sports teams and i always chilled with my friends! and you have to go out and meet new people. Like, ask your friends to introduce you to their friends so that you can meet new guys and stuff... or go to the mall and have a little fun! meet some ppl, or to like a fair or something (im not saying to be a slut!!! im just saying meet new people) so yah, keep yourself occupied and find new ppl. in my situation, i found the guy i was looking for, and he recognized me as for how i looked, but he had no idea of like where he knew me from or what my name was... it sucked. so don't give your hopes up like i did.
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ok...i LOVE my friend with all my heart and shes amazing i mean weve been bff for 6 years...im not mad at her cuz i no she has good intentions...but i mean like everytime i introduce her to sum1...she like takes them over....and im mad cuz im always there first for everything but i always just get erased...im the one who LOVES the kid for 2 years and wanted to go to a concert with him but i think hes starting to like her and she always just like takes over my friends....i cant talk to her about it cuz...idk im just not like that with myf riends theres no way ive tried sooooo hard but ive been crying all week cuz i never feel good enough anymore...what can i do to become prettier and better for everyone else???? please help! (link)
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first of all, don't think like that! don't EVER change yourself to be better or more perfect for sommeone else, EVER!!!! and second of all, i know EXACTLY how you feel. i have the same kinda situation. the thing is, you have to get over your fear and talk to her about it. but dont just bring it out randomly! like, if you're going to invite her to a guy, pretend his name is bob, and you really like bob, before you introduce her just be like "i really really like bob so i would appreciate it if you just acted casual around him" like, although he isn't, kind of act as though he's your property, but don't be a bitch about it. It sounds cheesey but it actually does work! just sit down and let EVERYTHING pour out... i did that a year ago with my friend and we're so good now
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My bf doesn't love me... I know because I know .. The way he looks at me blabla .. yeah .. I feel like shit.. I'm pissed because I know he doesn't love me, I'm really sad and I have 3 days I just don't stop crying ... now what? (link)
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The same old answer... talk to him! just be like, "i really love you and i don't think you feel the same way about me and it's really starting to hurt me. If you dont love me, tell me the truth and we shoudl stop seeing each other now until things just get worse and worse emotionally for me." Honestly, if he doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel about him, it's best for you guys to break up or it will just keep on getting you more and more depressed. i hope i helped!:D good luck
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alrite..this is confusing and will sound dumb, but anyways i`ve been going out with my boyfriend for..awhile now and i wanna make out with him but i dont know how to bring it up...i don`t rly see him that much so idk..any ideas? (link)
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Well you can do two different things in this situation...
1. You can invite him over, or go over to his house when no one else is hope... and just like be watching a movie or whatever and then keep on edging closer and closer to him during the movie, and eventually lean in for a kiss and let it go from there. At the beginning, it may seem weird, like you may feel awkward or you may feel as though he has no idea what he's doing, but he'll catch on! believe me! or...
2. You can have a casual relationship chat either over the phone if you're too shy, or in person, which is a better choice, (NOT ONLINE!!!! it's just not real) talk about how long you've been dating and how far you've gone, and then just be like i want to take it to the next level or whatever... and as i said this is a lot better in person because he will probably just be like "i think so too" or whatever and then you guys can make out then and there!
i hope i helped!:D good luck
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Well me and my ex boyfriend Kevin just broke up yesterday....well today someone called me and was like you dont know me but i am one of phylicias friends and do you care if her and Kevin go out so i sed no...nut i really do care alot...Phylicia is like my BEST friend in the world and i still like kevin but i dont know? What should i do? (link)
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Personally I think that you should definitely talk to phylicia. You should tell her that she should talk to you herself, and that it just makes things worse to have someone else ask for her instead. Also, well you just broke up with him, and it's really soon for you best friend to be going after him I think. If you feel the same way, just talk to phylicica and tell her that you're fine with them dating, but that you would appreciate it if she waited a few weeks first because it was too soon for you. i hope i helped:D good luck
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