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*Name Kaela
*Age 15
*Height 5'2
E-mail: boycrazycutie27@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: *Missouri*
Occupation: *Student at SHS*
AIM: xOLiLcHeErBeAr4u
Yahoo: bOyCrAzYcUtIe27
Member Since: June 1, 2004
Answers: 30
Last Update: September 4, 2004
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I no this guy i think he likes me but im not 2 sure my friends think he is a cutie but me and him r shy to talk to each other i no his phone numba and all but im not to sure if i should call and ask him out what should i do??

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Inlovebutshy33 (link)
well first off just try to open up and not be shy but if your to scared to talk to him and everything maybe have your friends talk to him for you..like they could talk to him and casually bring you up and ask if he likes you! and then sometime just go and talk to him! even if its about something stupid just talk to him and try to get to know him! dont ask him out right away though cause that could scare him away..just get to know him and call him...like get to know him for a while and if everything goes well with you two ask him out or you never know he could ask you out too! dont rush your self into n e thing though because u could get hurt! just give it time and see where u end up!! sorry i couldnt help more! if ya need anymore help you can IM me or write on here again! good luck!


there is this guy named Joe and he is like such a babe and my boyfriend Floyd gets mad when joe talks to me floyd thinks i'm cheating on him and i'm not i just like to hold joes had and cuddle but i like doing the same thing to floyd what do i do i do have more feelings for floyd but my friends want me to date joe what do i do? (link)
you do what YOU want!! dont let your friends tell you what to do! its your life not theirs..maybe they wont be happy with your choice , but its your life and you gotta live it not them! FOLLOW YOUR HEART! but i will say that you shouldnt really cuddle with joe if your going out with floyd because yeah hes going to suspect something that way! maybe he is just your friend, but maybe floyd doesnt trust him and hes scared of losing you! some time maybe get the 2 together with you and floyd can see what its like when you 2 are around eachother and maybe he wont suspect cheating anymore! but the cuddling thing..no i would say to lay off of that cause that is going to hurt your boyfriend! im not trying to sound mean but thats going to hurt him! but i would tell you to stay with floyd since you have more feelings for him! good luck!!!


is watching pornos bad? (link)
lol i guess not..


Me and my gf are nearly 17 and weve been together
for about 9 months and weve talked about sex
a few times but haven't yet my worry is that
my penis is not that big and im worried what she'll think about it should i worry and does it matter to girls? (link)
i hate to say this but yes it does matter to SOME girls..not all girls really care about the size but theres a lot that do..if i were you i wouldnt really worry about it though because you guys have been together a long time and if she really cares about you it wont matter to her and she'll except it! if u feel uncomfortable about it maybe you guys should talk about it a little more and maybe bring it up or something..dont get your self worked up about it or anything though cause she may not even care! sorry i couldnt help you out more! good luck


Theres this girl who i went out with (not for very long) but i loved her ... i still do love her. She suspected me of cheating sneaking behind her back and playing her. I never did any of this.. im not sure if she didnt trust me or just doesnt believe me or what, but she always suspected me of bein bhind her bak. I still love her however im not sure if she loves me or is ready to be together because i dont want her to suspect anything. What should i do? How should i settle this? (link)
hehehehe!! ok well maybe you could just talk to her and tell her how you feel! maybe talk to her on the phone or write her a letter and just let everything you feel out! she may trust you but just be scared of losing you!~! girls can be over protective! but if you love her like you say, just talk about you two being together and explain everything to her and hopefully she will understand! best of luck!


ok i'm best friends with this guy named jack we have been best friends for about 2 years jack is goin to be in 10th grade and i'm goin to be in 9th so we were like its going to be fun next year goin to luch together with a bunch of friends and everything like that then later my friend tells me he likes me and i'm like WHAT no not jack and then hes like yea the girl i like i always see and i like alot i've know her for like 2 years and when i get the chance to talk to her i always do and i can trust her with my life then i asked him tell me who it is and he told me it was me and now i don't know who to talk to about like guy problems and stuff like my other best friends have problems of their own and when i talk to jack hes like always there for me and always tells me what guys would think and stuff and now i can't talk to him about the guys i like because he likes me what do i do to keep this just like a brother sister kinda thing? (link)
just be honest with him! tell him you just wanna be friends because you dont wanna ruin what you have!and maybe he will understand! all i can really say is just tell him how you feel but be careful with what you say that way you dont hurt him either!...3 of my friends were in a similar situation but they actually went out with the guys and then they broke up and lost everything they had! and if you are close with someone dont let a bf gf relationship ruin your friendship! friends will be there for you forever and guys just come and go! good luck


where is the best place to get fingered? at home or the movies? and if you pick the movies how do you stay quiet? (link)
haha..well theres not really a best place to get fingered..that parts up to u! just where ever your comfortable at..if you do it at home it might be more comfortable but you also gotta be careful and dont get caught! the movies works too though..and if you go to the movies its really easy to stay quiet just try not to make noises or anything like that! but if you think you will then you might be better off doing it at home..but thats really up to you =)


ok here is the story i like this guy named floyd and he is like kinda a bad kid but i try not to like him but i always end up likin him then i like his friend Stephen and i've always liked him and they both like me but my friends think they are ugly both of them and they are losers but i'm not a loser at school but i like a not popular but not loser u know but stephen is popular but my friend still think he is ugly and if i go out with floyd i oculd never talk about him with my friends and if i go out with stephen theny my friends would say ewww hes ugly then they would get mad at each other because they both like me and they are both older then me floyd is goin to be in 11th and stephen is going to be in 10th and i'm goin to be in 9th if i go out with stephen i'm goin to miss floyd and if i go out with floyd i'll miss stephen what do i do please please help me (link)
this situation is hard because either way your gonna lose one and gain one..all i can really say is follow your heart and let your heart lead you the way!..maybe just be friends with both of them for a while and get to know each one of them better and maybe that will help you determine which one to go out with..or maybe you shouldnt go out with either of them and just stay friends with them that way you dont hurt your self or either of them..but that part is up to u..but it really doesnt matter what your friends think about them! its ur opinion that matters! and your friends should always be there for you! they may think the guys are ugly and not like them but thats there opinion not urs! and yours is what matters!!! good luck


lol how do i get over sumone that i loved for bout 6-9 months straight but has left me for good now??? lol (link)
since you were in love and u spent a long amount of time with them you are always going to love that person..getting over them will be very hard but its something you have to do..just give it time! right now you just need to get out and hang out with friends and enjoy life! dont get your self stuck on them! cause there is someone special in this world for you! you just havent found them yet but dont lose faith! maybe if you cant have them the way you want you can be friends and can be there for eachother..friendship comes along with happiness and its better to be friends then to have nothing at all! maybe later on in life you guys will be together! yeah i know you love them but if you guys were meant to be and they were made for you later in life you'll be together again!


hey babe!! when you have sex is the guy supposed to stick his penis in the middle hole or the last hole? and when lesbians have sex are they supposed to use their finger or a dildo? thnx! (link)
about the guy..the middle hole..but the whole lesbian thing im not sure!sorry i wish i could help you!! :)




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