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heyY! mY namE isZ karyN! i'M 14/F/ohiO! y0o gotT questionS..I gotT answerS! asK awaY! i'lL B shurE tO getT tO yeR questionS righT awaY!! x0Lallyp0p

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ok theres this one kid that likes me.. and i like him.. but then theres my ex boyfriend he still loves me and i like him still.. and everytime someone else lieks me or i like someone else he gets all mad.. and i dunno why cuz were not going out or anything and it bothers me cuz this kid is my ex-boyfriends friend and there on the same basketball team and now he hates him.. so what should i do..i tryed tellin him that i cant controll who i like .. and he still wont listen to me.. i need help i dont know what to do.. should i just not like anyone or go for a different guy?

your right..you cant help who you like..and noone should get mad at you for it..someimes when someone really likes you..they get mad because they dont have a chance anymore..because you dont like them..its funny this same thing happened to me yesterday..i got over someone who i liked so much..and he liked me 2 but he just didnt want a girlfriend..so he got pretty mad that i didnt like him anymore..so i know what your going through..all i can tell you is to like who you want and not who everyone wants you to like..you like a person because they have that special something..that maybe someone else didn't have..i would forget about your ex boyfriend..he's a jerk to be mad at you for that..well i hope i helped!! x0Lallyp0p* Keep me updated!

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what should i do i like this girl but i no she wont like me back?

how do you know she wont like you bak..does she know that you even like her??? maybe you should tell her..see what happens! theres a chance the girl didnt even know you liked her and may feel the same way about you! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p*

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Karyn hey i need help with somethin i like this kid but he doesnt like me i tell him i like him but he still doesnt understand how much i like him i liked him for about 2 years now and i dont no what to do please help

guys are differnt than girls..girls are more sensitive and care more than guys do..sorry but thats how it goes..I know what your going through..because i liked this kid chucky for the whole begining of the school year..and he liked me to..but hes was one of those guys that didn't want a girlfriend..so i figured i was wasting my time so i held myself back and eventually stopped liking him. All I can tell you is to maybe get over him. There are a lot of guys out there..its hard i know..but get out more..find some new guys!If hes not going to give you a chance, don't be hurting yourself over it! Let me know! x0Lallyp0p* Hope I helped!

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Yes Karyn i have this one friend she like has this problem w/ getting a boy she likes over the friend position and idk how to help her what are some ways i can help her and yeah i just need some advice to give to her to get a boy to like her more than a friend???

well.. a guy should like a girl for her personality not the way she looks but..maybe you guys can get together and just give her a make over..try and do her hair really cute and different! ( scrunching it, crimping it )maybe try new make up! eyeliner on top really brings out the eyes..lip liner..just try differnt colors and differnt types of make up! make sure shes not allgeric to anything tohe b4 you try this..you dont want her to break out! lol Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p

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Karyn okay my family is fuckin messed up seriousley my its so fucking depressing i swear to god.....my mom is depressed sayin she wants to kil herself my dad doesnt talk to my family or my mom and its bullshit i have no idea what to do im bout to run away seriousley its like the only thing i can do now my family is so fucking disfunctional i hate my house and i hate my family i seriousley need to go somewhere!!!!

hmm...this is a really tough question..i get what your saying except my problem is a lil bit differnet my dad is lazy and does nothing around the house..hes a painter and he has even painted the house! (We've just moved here a year ago)) so my mom is all depressed and doesnt talk much and never has anything to say.. ((we had family problems with my grandma and aunts and uncles to so that was another reason fer her depression))..the best way to handle this is to talk to your parents..tell them what they're putting you through is effecting you so much..you cant even function right..
sometimes you feel you just need to get away..but dont run away..ask a friend if they will let you stay over for a little bit..just so you can get time to get away..or you might just want to talk to a conselour! I'm here if you need me! =-D Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 7 months and we always have a good time when we are together and he does the littlest things that are so sweet and at times he just can really gett on my nerves.. hes constantly going to this girls house named whittney. but i guess he also plays ditch and then goes there. and these 2 girls were over at his house a couple days and ago and i dont remember very much but i think he said something about them hangin in his room.. but i dont know it was jus him n them in the house and all the sudden hes breakin out street lights and gettin the cops called on him for goin on pplz property late at night and makin loud noises wen playin ditch the hole ditch thing doesnt bother me but he is eggin houses and stuff but wen i did ask him if he was doin that just to b cool and try n fit in with other ppl.. but he jus sed he hadda go.. last night i asked if people say he flirts with others and he says people do say he does flirt but he doesnt know he's flirting.. so do i trust him? and alot of people say they dont know how me and him have held on so long.. my brothers are constantly telling me that.. its hard to let go of a long relationship and you may no that

wow..7 months..thats something to be proud of..lol well i dont know if you can trust him..it sounds like no..because when you confronted him about the situation he just said that he had to go..and a real boyfriend would not do that..heres the problem..in a good relationship the 2 people involved must be able to communicate with each other..if one isn't communicating then its not going to work..i think you should just tell him that you want a break and that you need some time..you guys can always go out in the future..and there are so many other guys out there!! Just take a look! Get me updated! kay? n tell me what you decide! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p

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ok thsi si how it gose im going out with some one that i like alot but it not like were i like her in hte begining b/c like when i started ot go out iwht ehr she was the most inportant thing ever but now it is like ya kool and everthing and she been mad at me adn everthing and me and her been fighting for like ever and idono but it realy gay and and i also like this one gurl but not alot but i still love my g/f more and stuff and i dont no what to do b/c me and my g/f been like fighting and shit and it seems like me and her like dont talk and shit enymore so ya what should i do b/c im confewas wiht my life and i dont no what way to go so plezzzzz help me also she mad at me my g/f is help

well..im sorry that you dont have the spark with yer g/f anymore.. there are 3 things already wrong in yer relationship..1)sparks aren't flying anymore..when your truly with someone you love..sparks fly at every moment that your with them 2)you guys are fighting..which means you don't trust each other..3) you like another girl..even if you like her only a little bit..you still like..
do you get what im saying? lol i think either this..you talk to yer g/f about it and see if you can figure something out and how to get along more..or you should stop seeing each for a little so you can miss each other..n go back out in a couple of weeks.. well just think about! hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p

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alright well i'm sure you will know who this is but i don't want you to say anything! okay so i have this best friend and i dunno i think i might really like him! i mean we are the bestest of friends, but it is like really wierd when he has a gf! i mean i don't think i'm jealous but i dunno, what should i do? cause i don't really want to think of him that way and i'm sure he doesn't think of me in that way but i think i do like him alot! so what do i do?

to b honest i hav no clue who this is..lol but if i were you..i would try and step back..he's your best friend..when best friends go owt..they usually ruin their friendship after they break up..i noe what yer going through last year i liked my best friend..but nowoone ever knew!! cuz i didnt want him to find owt..cuz we had such a great friendship..hope I helped!! x0Lallyp0p

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Dear karyn... i have a wierd rash on my vagina.. and im afraid to change in gym class because i think all the girls will laugh at me.. sometimes i cry myself to sleep... please help me! a.s.a.p

hmm..well yer not going to be taking off your underwear when you change for gym..so you have nothign to worry about..if your still worried..but the underwear that look like short shorts! that'll cover the top of your thing! they have tham at kohl's! thats hwere i gott mine! ;-) if all fails..then change in the bathr0om stalls! Hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p

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karyn.. im stuck again.. i still well kinda like you know who.. but now theres someone else i kinda like.. but i told him i liked him after he told me he really liked me.. he just broke up with his girlfriend though.. but like ive hung out with him like 5874353709 times.. and now i don't know what to do i heard hes gonna ask me out in like 2 weeks.. but i like him.. but the problem is.. i still like that other person.. and my best friend like the person who is going to ask me out in 2 weeks! if i go out with her she'll be devastated.. she already is mad at me because he likes me.. what should i do?

well ferst of all..she should not b mad at you because this "guy in 2 weeks"isz sposta ask you owt..thats rilly a dum reezun 2 b mad at you..ok second..just get over "you know hu" bcuz he seems like a jerk that wants to take advantage of you.. ((as what you had earlier told me)) he also seems like a player..ok so this guy thats sposta ask y0o out in 2 weeks..i love that kid! he so awsum! lol but you just need to figure owt what is more important your BEST friend or this guy..guys will come and go..but friends will stay forever..if treaten fairly!! so many friendships are spliten upp because of guys..i think you should definitely wait until your friends stops liking him..it hurts you i noe..but i believe a friend is more important! I love y0o!!!! x0Lallyp0p

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ok listen i am goin gout w/ this one kid adn i think he likes me too much and i dont kno wat to do?? should i brake up w/ him, should i tel him.. i dunno wat to do i mean i really really like him but it seems like he wants more from me then i can give. well pleaza help me..

yeah..y0o definitely need to talk 2 him! Tell him y0o feel uncomfortable..n heres the thing: if he gets mad at y0o.. and doesn't accept what yer tellin him then dump his ass! lol cuz y0o should be able to talk to your boy friend n tell him how y0o feel without him gettin mad..hope I helped!! x0Lallyp0p

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ok karyn, umm why do you hate it when i say i heart somone! i mean you know who i'm talking about buy why do you laugh when i say i heart??? it is a little bit less than love but more than like! get it? luv ya ~~~me~~~

ah ha candice!! lol cusz iytt sounds funny!!!i heart candice fer life..or i love candice fer life..lol now i just dont y0o like y0o..i love y0o! lol so its i love y0o candice!!! ah hahaha!! x0Lallyp0p

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yeah karyn this is stepho.. you knwo my problems with vince... what should i do? everyone tells me to get over him.. i cant.. it is not that easy and you of all people would know how everytime i get into a relationship this happens.. ilike him alot.. you read my little poem thing.. you know how i get.. i need your help though.. i really like him and i would DO ANYTHING to even kiss him again.. im stuck... HELP HO HELP!

-Stepho-
you noe that i went threw the same thing..with umm..C.K

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ok this is how it goes i was ova my g/f house and i always ova there and like we usally make out and kiss the hole time and stuff but today this one gurl tha is her best friend was ova there and he friend hates me and b/c my g/f friend ustal like me and i use ot like her and i kissed her alot but like then my gurl friend would no ever let em kiss her b/c she was there and like all she would do is when i go ot kiss her she would look at her best friend so ya what should i do or what is up wiht this.

well it seems that your g/f is uncomfortable when her best friend is around..some girls think that when good friends are around its not a time to be all "lovey-dovey" lol she may just be one of those girls..its only when her friends are around that shes like that. the best way to handle it is to accept that and when your about to leave just give her a kiss goodbye n thats it. you know shes not prude..s0o0o lol...hope i helped y0o! x0Lallyp0p

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waht are some good ways to move on from a girl u really really like

get to know other girls more..spend some time with other girls! it's hard to move on..but you eventually will! Give it time@ x0Lallyp0p* x3

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Ok..

i hav dis problum... deres dis one gurl who was my complete n total best frend n wen we r wid r frendz we hav so muhc fun togetha... but i neva get to see her anymo. we try 2 get togetha but it just neva happenz... wut do i do to make her realize how much she realli meanz ta me?

**MiSsIn Mah FrEnd**

awww..y0o sound s0o0o sweet! I would write a note to her or call her and say..i want to hang out with you more, but it seems like everytime we try to hang out something gets in the way..you are such a great friend and i dont want to lose what i had with you! trust me it'll werk! Let me noe!! x0Lallyp0p x3

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this is steve..... we better be doing somthing this weekend!

LOLz STEVIE!! YEAHz WE WILL! BUT MAKE SHURE Y0O CALL ME! CUZs I DUNNOH WHAT IM DOIN YETT!!! LOLz! x0Lallyp0p

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ok this is how it goes ok im going out wiht this one gurl and we been going out for like 2 weeks and like i love her so much but my bro keeps flirting wiht her and messing arouned wiht her and she does care and she likes flirts wiht her and i dont wotn to brake up iwht ehr b/c i love her more then enything but iam not sure if she love me as much has i love her. plezz help me lol

heyy..tell your brother to stop flirting with her..she's your girlfriend..not his..he should understand..then maybe you should confront your gf and say do you gave any feelings for my brother? cuz a lot of people think you flirt with him..im jw..cuz i love you so much and i dont want to lose you..just try it! chances are she doesn't know she's flirting with him! ((it's a girl's instinct to flirt lol))Well I hope I helped! x0Lallyp0p

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okay...in 14/f and i LOVE having sex..and i need to stop it before i get a diease or something..so you have any ideas on how to stop..ive tried things before..but its so hard...have you ever had sex before? if you ahve then maybe you could help me out with this situation... I REALLY NEED TO STOP.. im only 14

well ive never had sex before..but let me just give you something to think about..ok what if one night you end up getting pregnant..what are you going to do? there are ways of killing the baby..drugs..smoking..alcohol..but your only hurting yourself even worse..so trying to avoid doing those things..now what are you going to do? are you planning on telling your mom? how's she going to react..this is a situation many girls your age are going through..you do not want this to happen to you so you need to pull it together and hold yourself back..ok lets look at a different situation..you have sex with some guy you barely know..just so happens..he has aids..now what? now you have aids..:-,(
the only thing i can tell you since im not a victim in any of these situations is to think of the possibilities..there are so many disadvantages of having sex at your age..save it til when you get married..when you know your partner..and our willing to have kids! Sorry I could not be of mutch help! Hope I did thoe! =-D x0Lallyp0p

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ok well me and this kid have gone out like three times before over the course of three years,and now this year after all our ups and downs and crap like that were just friends. but i just can't seem to get over this kid. and i don't really know if he likes me or how to tell him that i like him. and plus i haven't had another serious boyfriend since him so i dont know what to do at all...

well..i think you should write this person a note..whenever i need to talk to someone and i cant tell them in person..i will write them a note explaining everything..or does this person have a screenname? if they do try talkig to them that way! but I would definitely reccomend writng a note! Go0d luck! =-D x0Lallyp0p

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