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i have a major prob with boyz everyone knows my prob with cody but i found out i dont like him i got the feelin it was sickness but i am harsh im only 12 and there is anothe boy i played around with him and said lester will ya go out with me but he knew i was playin i thought and he said yes so now im doomed he is like in love with me he brought a camra to school and took pics the whole roll of me but the thang is i dont really like him he wont make me popular!!
theres good news you can tell that you are a good friend because you dont want to hurt his feelings but the bad part is telling him. its gonna hurt him more if u go out with him and dont even like him so just tell him that you need a little time alone because you have alot of things on your shoulders.
alright...there are 4 guys you need to know about in this story: Nathan, TJ, Michael, and David.
1.Nathan is my boyfriend of about 2 months. i liked him for almost a year before we started going out.
2.TJ is one of my best friends. I love him so much, and he really likes me (that way). He left our school on thursday though. Now he's homeschooled. i cried for 2 days. (he's coming back next semester, i just found out!!)
3.Michael is a friend that i liked, and he used to like me. Now he has a girlfriend, but we've both said that if we both have problems with our relationships, we'd probably go out.
4.David is also one of my best friends. He also likes me, and we're always hugging. so many people think we go out and it's annoying.
ok...now here's the thing: i might like the last 3. i don't know what to do...i've been thinking about breaking up with nathan, but i might change my mind after i do! I can't really go out with TJ, even though i think i really want to...because i'm friends with his ex (they went out for 6 months), and she still likes him, knows he likes me, and hates it. I can't go out with David, because my best (girl) friend really likes him. And michael's taken...for now.
so now that i have thoroughly confused you, take a moment to make some sense of all this, and then tell me what you think!
please! i'm so confused!
I think you should just stay single for about a week to clear your mind and find out who you really like and then decide us columnist can not make our decision for you. we just help you out so i hope you get a good pick and if you get a good boyfriend good luck
I am looking to buy some fun socks, with simple patterns and stipes, mostly black and grey. So far I have found that 1 pair cost 3-7 dollars, even at Target. Does anyone know where I can find really cheap socks?
im seriuos about this one but the dollar tree does have socks and it has all types of designs hope i helped
I'm 20 years old. Female. I've been with my man for about 4 months and I definately feel that I'm head over heels in love with him when it's just the two of us but when I'm around other guys I start thinking about dating other people. How come one minuet I feel like I could marry my love but then another minuet I think about wandering to other guys?
well if you think about otha guyz sometimes you might not be the type for long relationships
or you are just not used to long relationships you will get used to it
My friend has been married for 3 years. She and her husband are expecting their first child in December. (It's a boy.) They are trying to pick a name. Her husband really likes the name Jonathan, but he doesn't know that she has an ex-boyfriend named Jonathan. Do you think she should tell him about her ex or just go ahead and name the baby Jonathan anyway?
dont name the baby that if its goin 2 keep remindin her of him
what would you do if the girl your dating was given a number of another guy and didnt seem to think twice about it.... what if you were told by your friends that she thought he was hot...what would you do...you love this girl so much and a blow like this hurts so bad.... do you call her on it and get it out into the open...do i discard what i was told as jealous behavior...idk what to do....i still love her but im sure someone is able to understand the position im in...please help
well i would ask her about this guy (not askin her if she felt him or not) and then she would get the idea that you are worried that she is starting to drift away but if she decides to fuss about it then you shouldnt be hanging around this girl any way
I'm on my high school cross country team and we've been having practice everyday since early august. Well anyway, a few days ago, i saw this really pretty girl that i didn't recognize. So i went up to her and asked her if she was new to the school district and she sed yes. I introduced myself to her and tried to make her feel at home. I figured that if I made her feel at home, we could become friends and maybe more. She's really nice and i like her alot. What should I do now?
i would have to say get more close to her then just ask her how she feels about you and if she is feelin you then go for it
Well I'm single right now and have been for a few weeks. There really isn't anyone that I wanna talk to right now that I think could be a potential g/f, cause I just don't have that feeling about them. I've just been talking to my ex lately (who I still have feelings for), but it ain't exactly the same on the other side with her. I mean she likes me, but I don't think it's gonna be enough that she'll want to get back together, even if I did have the last thing that would complete her "perfect guy" list, and we've talked about all of this too. Anybody got any solutions to what I should do? There isn't anything I can really do to get back with her, it's all her decision.
well i think you should give it some time go to parties just try to look around because once someone breaks up with you its gonna hurt a little and it is gonna last for a while but later you just gotta get up and dust yourself off its just part oflife i wish you luck and i hope i gave you good advice
theres this boy and i kinda like him but every time i talk to him i freeze up what should i do
from carmela im 14
well there is wait till he notices you make eye contact make a conversation with facial expressions instead of talking that will make him more comfertable with you and hey maybe he has the same problem ya neva no!
I went to visit my aunt and met this guy and i guess he says he lieks me and when we were in the car he asked when i was going to be his gf and i said i didnt no well i havent seen him for awhile and i call him and talk to him on the phone and i really really like him what should i do becuz i really want to go with him
if he has a car call him and ask him to come see u then u should be his gf because if you really like him you should not care how far away he lives.
WELL I have sex quite often without protection to my fiance and i think i may be pregnant.....or had a miscarrige!
i have been getting really bad cramps in the morning and diarrea as well....my period is not expected till the 7th of the month(sept) and i got it in august so it would have had to been this month it happened! i went to the bathroom yesterday and i started bleeding i thought it was my period so i acted like it was however i only BLED a little and then it stopped . its only the 23 so thats like 2 weeks early!
could i be pregnant or could the cramps be a misscarrige??
PLEASE HELP THANKS!
well i no its not pregnacy because if it was that you would have missed your period so jus go to the docter he/she could tell u
ok theres this boys and i jsut moved from georgia and goin bak in about 10 months and theres this boy bak there we dated almost all year and we broke up jsut before i moved and everytime i talk to i i start liking him agian and he talks to my friends about me all the time and he we he asks me out agian what should i do
well if he likes you and you like him maybe u should tell him 2 wait 10 months tell him why in a way that will make him feel better
how do you tell when contact lenses are expired?
look on the box or jus call your eye docter
one of my friends can never stay single for more than a week! when i first met her she had this boyfriend then they broke up and in a few days she went out with someone else then they broke up (but she swore she loved him) and then she goes out with another guy the next day. then when they broke up shes already planning to hook up with her friend. ugh! it pisses me off that she can never stay single while all my other friends don't care about guys! how can i explain this to her that she does not always need a boyfriend!!!!!!
well my advice to you is listen 2 why she does that first she might be in the process of looking for a real love but cant find one