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Gender: Female
Age: 16
Member Since: April 17, 2007
Answers: 23
Last Update: March 21, 2009
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Hey guys...ok sorry but this is one of the long stories so thanks in advance if you're going to read this.. and give advice =) anyways
I've been so pissed lately at a lot of things! First i'm pissed at this guy who asked me out for dinner and told me not to make any plans on the day...and he said he'd call me to tell me what time but he never called...and i talked to him before the day by like a couple of days and he never said anything about the dinner! so its either he forgot or doesnt wanna hang out with me anymore :S ??
Second i've been pissed at my friends lately...not just one or two but most of them! And none of them really know...well kinda! im only gonna mentions a couple of them and save the rest for another question...because then it'll be too long..
OK ive known this girl since grade 5!! and i moved to another skool after that year and then we re-united after a couple of years and started hanging out again!! me and her are really close!! with this other girl too...we've always talked to each other about anything and we were like sisters...anyways so you can say that ive known her for like 8 years now...
so the problem is that ive been trying sooo hard to hang out with her or even TALK to her for the past half year!! and everytime she says she cant and has a different excuse...either shes too busy studying...or too busy with her skool friends...or is grounded...or has a family visit!! im soo sick of it and when i wanna open the subject to tell her that im annoyed and i miss her i wanna hang out and everything...shes like i knoww! even though it doesnt seem like it but i miss you its just im tooo busy with skool stuff!! and shes never called and never even talks to me online!! its like she completely erased me from her world!! (Same with the other girl btw)
Ok now another friend that ive been with for 7 years! we've been best friends since! and like we always hang out and everything and i depend on her but she doesnt know about the other 2 girls...im the type who doesnt express my feelings alot..if im pissed then im pissed i dont share it with anyone..i feel like im pyling on other people problems so anyways the problem is these last few weeks ive been feeling like shes avoiding me....and hiding a lot of things from me...she knows i know them... yet she doesnt tell me :( like i always find out! easliy...but i mean i always wanna be there for her if she ever needs me but the problem is its hard to get her to open up...
Ok another friend problem.... i dunno y but maybe theres something wrong with me...thats y i have problems:S or maybe im too 'paranoid' or watevre....anyways so this friend of mine!! WE ALWAYS HANG OUT!! and shes older than me by like a year...but she went to another skool a couple of yrs ago...anyways we just completely drifted apart! i try to talk to her and hang out but i dunno :( its like she doesn't want to...agh i dunno maybe i am too paranoid ! anyways ill keep it to here for now! the rest will be on later! im gna take a break from complaining! heh thanks a lot guys!! any advice would be appreciated... :D (link)
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Sweetie-
Im thinking you need to make some new friends!!!
First: Ignore that guy that blew you off. He is obviously not worth it at all if he is going to lead you on like that and im positive there are a lot of other better guys out there for you.
okay?
Well to me it sounds like you need to cakm down jus a little. It seems like you are stressed you need to confront your friends on what you think they are doing to you. If you never talk about your problems between them nothings going to change. Im sure you can find other better friends than these girls if they are just striaght up jerks. i advise you to stop worrying so much because you never know if something could be a big misunderstanding or something!!
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my parents, i love them, btu somteimes they get on my last nerve. when i mean last, i mean last. right now im not doing so well in school, and everytime we get into a fight, that is the first thing they talk about my grades. Sometimes they don't know how stressfull it is nowadays in school, especially how i take an AP class only as a soph. Sometimes i feel like noone understands me. Theyve always been on my case about my grades, and i try to bring them up, but its the pressure i get from them thats making me loose my sanity.Sometimes i think about killing myself, and everytime i do, i get closer and closer. I don't want to, but sometimes i feel like it's the right thing to do. Sometimes i think that by me just leaving, itll make them happier. So they won't be embarresed of me. Idk, i can't talk to them about it cause they think im crazy. My friends don't even bother anymore. Im loosing it... please i need some advice on how to get through this. (link)
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Wow this is almost just like me.
Im sorry to hear that you think no one understands you, but that isnt true.
Obviously your parents really are worried about your future in school. Maybe you could try a little harder in school, so they dont put as much pressure on you. I think you need to talk to a counselor at school or ask your teachers how you can bring your grades up and if you have any missing assingments or anything. That helped me a ton!!
Also, nothing is worth killing yourself for!!
Right now may seem hard, but you and i both know that you'll get through this if you perservere!
Killing yourself is probably the most selfish thing you can do to yourself. I garuntee if you killed yourself your parents would be worse off with out you!! I mean you're they're child for god sakes!
hope i helped :)
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okay so im 14 about ot be 15 girl and im in 8th grade,and basicly i like one of bestfriends brother and some times when i go over to her house and hes there he will just randomly come in and start talking to us[mostly me though]and he kinda flirts with me and stuff.but my friend totally hates it when we talk,if she can tell were flirting.
Earlier this year i like her brothers friend and we both liked eachother but we kinda grew apart and stopped talking but we never really went out.
so my friend when i say something that involves her brother just thinks im crazy/weird because she thinks im in "love"with him[or his friends] but yeah do i have a chance?
i really like him and i think he kinda likes me but idk am i just thinking that?im not sure
just gimme your thoughs
THANKS
keep in mind he is 16 and a sophmore
weird? (link)
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Well what i always say "chicks before dicks"
Would you seriously want to lose your best friend because of her brother?
It shouldnt bother her if you guys flirt i mean like everyone does it right?
I mean if you had a cute brother that flirted with her im sure she would flirt with him back.
He also could be leading you on because hes a couple years older.
I absolutley hate it when guys do that but hey it happens, so dont get too deep of feelings for him until you know for sure that he likes you back.
Lastly you need to understand where she is coming from and ask her why she freaks out so much when you flirt with her brother and stuff.
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