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anyone know any sites i can download free music at if you do please help me thx!

xolox

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i like to wear my hair up in a bun or pony tail but my mom is soooo annoying about it. she says that i hav beautiful hair and i should wear it down. i keep telling her wen i wear my hair down i get really hot (like today i got out of the shower and i felt sick i was so hot). any suggetions?

please help. i rate!

its ur hair who cares what ur mom thinks, my mom used to do that to me all the time! just try to ignore her.

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Okay, my friend Jackie introduced me to this guy she knows (over the internet) and he lives in New York, where she used to live, and they're sort of "going out" but not, since we live in AZ, and anyway, I've been talking to him and I think I'm starting to like him just a little bit and I don't know what to do, because she really really likes him.. I know I should let her have him, but should I tell her or just try to keep quiet about it and try to stop talking to him so I don't like him more or what?

tell her how u feel but she gets first dibs afterall she found him first

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Theres this guy in my class, we're kinda friends, but recently since I told friends I liked him they say they haven't told but he's been kinda blankin me mostly. One of the friends says I should ask him out, but I'm no Sandra Bullock. So should I or shouldn't I????

Thanx

Yeah go for it the only thing he can say is no and every girl gets turned down in her life.....trust me

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ok well i broke up with my girlfriend and i really miss her. and i dont know why. she's really pretty, the sweetest girl i ever met, and the only reason we broke up was because i thought she liked me best friend nicky. i dont know how to tell her, and really she's been a mess, but i really want her back because i care about her more than anything in the world.

awwwwww thats so cute...but u just cant get jealous like that ask her out one night and just have a good conversation ask her if she would ever hook back up w/u *Shelby*

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