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ok me and my boyfriend broke up and im still madly in love [not seriously] with him. BUT he likes this other girl....i need hepl so bad to get him back...
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theres nothin you can really do about this babe.. yes i know it hurts.. and it will continue to hurt for a while.. but you gotta stay strong.. dont let it get in the way to much.. and sometimes you cant win them back, you cant MAKE someone like you again.. abviously he wasnt that *someone*.. dont settle for someone who doesnt really want you.. wait till you find that one who wants you more then anything else.. and beleive me, he WILL come.. give it time..
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wow..b*beth what do i do if i like my ex's best friend?? thats soo hard to chose. they;; fight i just kno it. is it that much of a hassle if i like the guy??
-CoNfIzZlEd
i♥you!! (link)
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hey.. this is junior high.. do what you want while you still can!
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okay first of all...
He wont freakin talk to me...i ask him a question and all he says is "idk". How is it gunna work this time if he wont SPEAK! lol...Anyways...it just seems different this time, ya know? I mean i love him just as much as i always have and i want him just as much...but there's something missing...maybe its the trust that we lost in all of this...or maybe its the fact that we were apart for too long! im not sure...what do you think about the whole senario?
second of all...
I feel like im loosing you and everybody else...:/ You dont talk to me as much and you dont tell me things anymore...I really wanted to be best friends...are we still??
third of all...
I know can be a total biznatch sometimes, and im sorry for that...im in a bad mood most of the time haha and NO its NOT PMS...lmao!! i love you sooo much and that will never change...
Good Luck on the Boy Hunt
BFFL (link)
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i soooo understand with you and him.. and yes things are different.. but hes confusing and all i acn do is wish you luck with him.. :/
and about the best friend thing.. i looove you soo much but member that one sunday when i went to your house and your other best friend was there? yeah well i felt REALLY out place cuz all yall talked about was your memories with eachother and everythng.. it was depressing and i didnt know how to act when she was around.. you are my best friend and im not TRYING to not talk to you as much.. it jsut made me feel awkward aroudn you when she was there.. and yes sometime you are in a bad mood.. haha (truth) but im always here and we will always be best friends! :D i love you toooons! thanx for everything! and good luck with him! ;)
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listen, u dont know me but im having a HUGE problem...ive been with this girl for 2 years and she was diagnosed with cancer and is now comletey bald..i love her so much but i know she wont last for much longer...what should i do?
thnx,..*take it all away* (link)
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this has GOT to be a joke!.. :/
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i think she means
that she doesnt know if her boyfriend is for real or not..
like if he actually likes her or not (link)
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shes the only one who can figure that out.. i cant read minds.. sorry babe! :/
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ok i have a huge crush on this girl but i cant tell her. I mean everythime i see her my legs get fatigue! shes like eye candy! shes soo beautiful! i dont know what to do please helpl SB fall in lovve with me!
♥ CrUsHeD (link)
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I DO!.. lol hehe i loooove you!
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Hey i like this girl REALLY bad and ive liked her since like 6th grade. i want to go up and start a conversation w/ her but i dont know how. she talks to me online and we always talk alot online but i just cant go talk to her in person. i dont just have a cruch on her cuz like i cant go a day w/o seeing her. i just need to go talk to her but i dont know how. (link)
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i TOTALLY understand.. it feels like you wont have conversation at all.. right? and it will just be like standing there in silence, then you would really feel stupid huh? lol well its NOT like htat at all.. once you start talking you cant stop.. beleive me.. and i know its totally nerve reckign to go up to the person you like and try to have a convo with them.. but if you ever wanna get anywhere with them you gotta talk to them (in person!) lol just try your best to get over htat fear of being around them and go up to them.. it only gets better from there! ;)
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Sarabeth
You know me but I'm not going to say who this is..I'm too shy to say..
There's this guy..and we have been friends for a while now..and I really like him. We flirt all the time ..until he got a girlfriend..Well today she broke up with him and he's really upset about it and he's scared to get into another relationship because he always ends up getting hurt..I would never EVER do anything to hurt him..I like him alot and he's the sweetest thing ever and he doesn't deserve to be treated like that..I want to be with him so bad..But I don't think he likes me..What is a good way to hint at it or something..or a way to find out if he really likes me?
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WOW! that sounds pretty familiar (cough cough.. with the situation im in cough cough) kinda.. anyways.. one thing you gotta learn GUYS DONT TAKE HINTS WELL! they dont realize you are trying to hint on to something.. you just gotta straight up tell him.. guys are THAT stupid.. lol and they are soo confusing, i understand but the first step is talk to him about it.. not me cuz i cant tell you what he wants or how its going to go.. talk to him about it and THEN come back to me and tell me how it went.. thats when i will REALLY be able to help ya! ;)
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i have this guy friend and we have been best friends for 2 years just about and i really wanna just start goin out with him, but im nervous to ask him out bcuz i dont want him to say no, then us not talk anymore. i mean i have heard tons of my friends say just ask him out he likes you, but i get soo nervous even though we are sooooo close like we are already goin out, but i want more than that:/ what should i do? (link)
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well.. this is a tough one.. you can never really tell what a guy is thinking.. they are REALLY confusing, one minute they will like you and then next they wont :/ so really you should go with your gut feeling on this on. answer these questions first.. do you think he likes you? do you think that it would work out better to be in a bf/gf relationship then a best friend relationship? and yes if he does say no it will feel awkward for a week or so but then you guys will be back to your old self again, trust me! but if he says yes then your set to go! :D good luck!
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Hey sarabeth ok i have alot going on lets see you one my best friend and if your smart you know im from sherman!
anyways.. iv'e been going out with the same guy almost 4 months and like he never calls me when he says he is and just little things like that and people say he's mean to me and say that he doesnt like me any more and idont know what to do help me please! (link)
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omg! well it would help to know who this is.. i have an idea but im not to sure.. does bird dance sound familiar? haha if it does then i know who this is! ;) anyways.. the key to a good relationship is comunication/talking (like i said before) and if you dont have htat then all else will fail.. explain to him that those "little things" are kinda startign to get to you and if he wants the relationship to stay strong then he will do all he can to make things better.. but once again girls take realtionships more seriously then guys.. so you might want to take that to mind.. but just talk to him.. really.. it will help more hten you think! ;) good luck!
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ok beth..i like this guy and ive known him since 6th grade and we just started talking again, and i like him and i think he might like me to. i mean we have soo much in common and hes not like other guys. he calls me beautiful and not hot. and i respect him so much! and last night we finally met for the first time in like a year. and he said that he felt like i blew him off but i didnt, i just saw that he was with him group and i didnt want ot bother him, and i now i regret it and now were kind of not talking, please tell me. what do i do
*thanks :-( (link)
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whatever you do, DO NOT stop talking! thats the worst thing you can do in "soon to be" relationship.. comunication/talking it the key to any good relationship.. just keep talking to him and makign your way up to him, show him you care and you want to be with him.. he'll see that you really want him and he'll warm up to you.. give it time.. coming back from a long break can be hard and nerve recking.. so if you take it slow and give it time it should all work out! ;) good luck!
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sbeht i like this guy and hes supposed to ask me out but he hasnt! he told me he didnt know if he wanted to yet?! does that mean he does but he really isnt shure or he jst doesnt and doesnt want to hurt my feelings? please help!
&heart; unloved in SA (link)
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give the man time.. he'll do what he wants when he wants to.. and i cant read his mind so the only thing you can really do is ask him.. sorry i cant really give any advice on this one besides ASK HIM! lol :/
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I Like this guy and i think he likes me back. When we sat by eachother in 2 classes he kind of always flirted with me. Now he asked out some1 else that he liked but i still think hed go out with me. I made a dumb mistake becuz i think he asks out girls that he know's likes them. My friends thought i did like this guy and they told him they thought that. One day online he asked if i liked him and i said just as a friend whatever their saying dont believe them. He didnt have a gf then so if i said yes i think he would have asked me out.
From,
LOVEs vs Loved back (link)
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well.. i dont know what your asking me.. maybe you should have told him the TRUTH when he asked you if you liked him! that would have solved all your problems.. go ahead and tell him now that you like him, but dont try to break up and his gf up that hes with right now.. thats a TOTAL no no! lol but at least he will know now that you like him! ;) good luck!
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ok i met this guy in 7th grade. and he always told me that he loved me and all this other sweet stuff and i believed him. and this month he stopped talking to me and i still love him :-/ what do i do. i miss him so much. he cant just stop talking to me like that!HE lead me on, made me fall for HIM, then just let me go..effortlessly :-\ what do i dooo (link)
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gahh.. dont you hate when that happens?!.. well i mean about the whole love thing, im not going to fight with you about loving someone cuz who knows.. maybe yuo did love him BUT maybe he didnt feel the same.. ya see girls get more into relationships then guys do, most of the time, and so we take things harder when something bad happens :/ and maybe his feelings for you jsut kinda.. went away or maybe he wants a little break or.. who knows! that why you gotta ask him why he did that! i cant read his mind and neither can you so the only thing you can do now is talk to him.. hope i helped a little! and good luck! ;)
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What is the best way to Masturbate?..I've tried alot of ways but I feel there are better and funner ways..
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-Salena (link)
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lmao.. get your mom to help you.. shes pretty good at it! ;)
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~SaraBeth~
Hey. Ok theres this guy, and he knows I like him, and I know he likes me [because he told me] and yet he still seems to like always want me to come and talk to him or me ask him to do something. It really gets on my nerves because im that kinda girl who like *needs* boys attention, well mostly only the one i like but yah. so how to i get him to talk to me and treat me like he likes me, and not just as a freind? when ever were together he talks to surronding girls more than me, ugh its just kinda depressing. So please HELP!! thanx alot and sorry for the length!
-Confused Lover (link)
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wish i could help ya on this one.. but to tell you the truth, im kinda in the same boat, and dont know what to do about it! :/ but im just giving it time and letting it run its course, im not tryign to force anything and im not trying to rush things either, when it happens it happens but until then i just gotta be patient cuz i dont want him to think im rushing him into things he might not want to do yet.. ya know? and to tell you the truth you will get used to the "not always being his center of attentoin" thing and not always being all over eachother and you will learn to live with it and like it.. i have! :)hope i helped a little.. good luck, and if you know nicole clemens you might wanna ask her about htis one.. shes good with advice also! ;)(oh yeah and its Sarabeth) lol
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ok sarabeth....
i really like his girl....but so does one of my best friends....i want 2 ask her out b/c i no that she likes me back....but if i do he will get mad....and i don't want lose his friends ship....he is a really great guy....idk what 2 do....but than again she is really hott....and i have like liked her 4ever...idk what 2 do about all of this mess...
signed,
playa (link)
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lmao.. wow.. thats a sucky situation.. but i mean depends on how you look at it. Think of it this way, you'll get a chance with this girl adn your best friend will be mad for about.. a week.. then he will be fine with it cuz he'll find someone else, then you and this girl will eventually beak up and then he can have a chance with her.. haha ot vice-versa.. so yeah.. it should all go into place.. ;)
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heyi like this girl and all and she wanted me to dance with her at fav's so when i went looking for her, i couldnt find her. now she's mad at me and she likes this other guy and i kinda like this other girl right now but i dont know if i really like her or if i like the girl thats mad at me. there both really cool but i dont know if i should give it some time with the girl thats mad at me or if i should go out with the one i like right now. (link)
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hmm.. well you just gotta do what you want.. spend a little time with both of them, and see who wins your votes the most, and thats the person you want to be with.. just give it some time and im sure you will pick the right one! :)
By the way.. THANX to everyone who voted me for MOST HUMOROUS! :D
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Sarabeth-
Hey! Well I have an awesome bf and I dont know what to do cause I like him but I was thinking about it and was like I dont care if we break up cause I never see him..but I know he really likes me and I am scared to break up with him because I have done it to him before!MAN! I am just scared of what to do because I dont want to hurt his feelings but I am not sure if I still wanna go out with this guy! Thanks for your help!
-WEIRDO (link)
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well.. to start off.. dont stay with someone you dont like! i mean thats like a TOTAL waste of your time.. especially if you never even see this guy! wahts the point of being together if you never see eachother and you dont even like him anymore?! and dont worry about hurting his feelings cuz, really, it would hurt his feelings more if you just stayed with him to make him happy.. ya know? so i think you should just go with whatever you think is the best decision, and if that means breaking up.. then hey ya gotta do what ya gotta do! so good luck! ;)
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hey!
ok... Im the kind of person who needs ALOT of attention from my b/f ( not that im conceded or ne thing, but its just how I am) and the guy I go out with now, gives me attention. But not all the time like my ex-boyfriend did. And idk.. sometime it makes me mad. Wut should I do.. tell him about it? Or just get over it? (link)
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well he has a life too.. and you cant be his center of a ttention ALL THE TIME.. so you might just want to get over it by yourself cuz if you told him about it he might feel bad and start giving you a lot attention then get bored and tired of it and want to be done with you.. so i think you might just want to try to deal with it and if it isnt pleasing you THEN you can maybe think about talking to him aout it.. good luck ;)
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